In family relationships, the decadent idea of "male dominance outside and female dominance" is often deeply rooted in the hearts of generations of people and has become a powerful weapon to destroy the marital relationship.
With the growth of women's education in the new era, more and more women are entering the workplace, giving up the so-called happy family and having children for the sake of their careers, and the marriage rate and fertility rate in society continue to decline.
This heavy fact shows the current situation of women in the workplace, and they have to face the risk of starting all over again if they are empty for a year during the career rise period, even the CCTV host "Zhou Tao".
In her career, she is a veritable "CCTV first sister", with an elegant and calm hosting style, and has served as the host of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 16 consecutive years, and is deeply loved by the people.
On the stage, she was like a beautiful swan, spreading her wings and flying high, but off the stage, she was miserable because of her marriage, and once said frankly: Marriage has brought me all pain.
What did this life winner in the eyes of everyone go through to send this insight?How is she living now?
Love from campus to wedding dresses
Zhou Tao is an authentic Anhui girl, her family is rich, her parents are intellectuals, and both husband and wife serve as teachers, so she attaches great importance to her children's family education.
Under their guidance, Zhou Tao's academic Xi grades have been among the best in his class since elementary school, and he is a college bully in the eyes of his classmates, and he is beautiful, typical of other people's children.
As she grew older, Zhou Tao's height and long legs developed in high school, and under the influence of the family environment, she was very interested in literature and recitation, so her parents suggested that she take the radio host.
So, in the year of the college entrance examination, she was admitted to the coveted host cradle "Beijing Broadcasting Institute", which is now the Communication University of China, with the first place.
Zhou Tao is very popular when he goes to the first place, especially because he is good-looking and the first, he has received a lot of attention as soon as he starts school, and has become the "goddess" in the hearts of many boys in the school.
Among the wild bees and butterflies, she saw the young and handsome Yao Hong at a glance, this is a senior who is three years older than her, with excellent grades, much better than those hairy boys who can only slap horses.
Zhou Tao herself is very good, even if she goes to college, she doesn't dare to slack off, except for class, most of the time in the library Xi a day, Yao Hong always silently accompanies her classmates Xi.
The two have been in contact for a long time, and their feelings have taken root from the bottom of their hearts, and finally under Yao Hong's true confession, Zhou Tao readily agreed.
They walked around the campus hand in hand, worked together on academic problems, supervised each other's progress together, and worked together for a better future.
However, Yao Hong graduated a year later, and as expected, he was assigned to ** TV station, and the distance barrier could not resist two hot hearts, and the little couple was very affectionate.
After Zhou Tao graduated, he unexpectedly entered the Beijing Public Security Bureau, during which the two who felt that they knew each other well enough, happily entered the palace of marriage.
It seems that everything is beautiful, but who would have thought that this happy marriage would end so dismally, and what happened between the two?
Work and family are more important
After working in the Public Security Bureau for two years, Zhou Tao felt that this was not what she wanted, so she resolutely resigned and joined Beijing TV as a host, where her true ability was shown.
Just like a fish getting water, Zhou Tao's hosting skills are very strong, and during this period, he won the "Chunyan Cup" Best Host Award in one fell swoop, relying on his ability to climb up step by step.
After three years of hard work, he entered the ** TV station, and was appreciated by the leaders because of his superior appearance and outstanding ability, and served as the host of the blockbuster program "Variety Show" in the first year.
Zhou Tao's career is getting better and better, and she was entrusted with an important task in the second year as the host of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and since then she has begun her 16-year career in Taiwan for the CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
With the take-off of her career and the busyness of work, she threw all her heart into her hosting career, so it was inevitable to ignore herself and Yao Hong's small family.
Compared with his wife's dedication, Yao Hong is obviously a little more Buddhist, while he is happy for Zhou Tao, as time goes on, he can't help but resent.
The station is busy with work, Zhou Tao often works overtime until late at night to return home, and sometimes in order to host a show, she has to be busy when she is tired and sick before she can come back, and work takes up most of her time.
Yao Hong is becoming more and more dissatisfied with this, he himself is a person who likes stability, does not pursue fame and fortune, as long as the money is enough, he hopes to have a simple small family.
But Zhou Tao is a very enterprising woman, at the rising juncture of her career, she doesn't want to abandon her dreams, give up everything she has worked hard for, and go home to teach her husband and children.
If this were the case, she would not quit her stable job at the Public Security Bureau, but pursue her dream of hosting, and the two people with different ideas often quarrel over work.
The once youthful love could not match the reality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and neither of the two was willing to compromise, and finally in the twelfth year after marriage, the two divorced.
After the divorce, Zhou Tao devoted herself to her work, but two years later, she met her true destiny, who is this man?
Lovers eventually become married
Zhou Tao was deeply touched by the first marriage, she said that all the previous romances were consumed by the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, and now she no longer expects marriage and does not want to step into the abyss of pain.
In fact, in marriage, they are all accommodating to each other, if Zhou Tao chooses a family, he will inevitably have children, be forced to take care of the family, and let her give up her good career, will she be willing?
I think not only her, but even her husband Yao Hong will be unwilling!She is not wrong, Yao Hong is not wrong, in the final analysis, the two of them are not all the way at all.
After Zhou Tao's divorce, her work became more and more like a fish in water, and she was basically seen on large-scale national hosting programs, making her a "household name" in the true sense.
During this period, she met Lu Yun, and the two were arranged by God, this man was mature and steady, respected all her choices, and cared for her in daily life.
Zhou Tao no longer believes in love due to the failure of his marriage, and he slowly ** the trauma in her heart while waiting, and has been by her side as a friend for many years.
Finally, in 04 years, Lu Yun finally opened her heart knot, the two officially registered their marriage, and Zhou Tao's job has long been stable, and no one has shaken her status.
A year after marriage, the two gave birth to a little princess, and the family of three lived very happily, and Lu Yun's understanding and tolerance allowed her to have a real "home".
Conclusion
From Zhou Tao's two marriages, it is not difficult to see that she met the wrong person at the wrong time, and two people with different views should not have walked together, that is, they tortured each other.
Two people who understand each other and have a sense of ambition will be strong together, Zhou Tao's current status is the best proof, Lu Yun has always supported and protected her as her backing.