In the work "Crossing the Guandong", Nawen, the eldest daughter-in-law of the Zhu family, is a woman who does not speak very attentively and sometimes speaks slightly frivolously.
After Xiu'er and Chuanwu got married, their night in the cave house was snubbed by Chuanwu, and Chuanwu didn't get in touch with his family for 18 years after eloping with Xian'er.
Xiu'er was left out in the cold for 18 years, and stayed alone in an empty room at the Zhu family, anxiously waiting for Chuanwu to change his mind. During this cold winter, she has been wearing a white Chuanwu shirt. Every night, she always spends time clinging to the pillow in her Chuanwu shirt.
After the Zhu family stabilized in Harbin, they established contact with Chuanwu and his family, who were stationed in the Northeast Army, and as a company commander, he sometimes chose to go home for the night.
At this moment, everyone in the family thinks that Xiu'er has finally been happy after all the hardships, and she can become a true partner with Chuanwu. When they saw Chuanwu's attitude towards Xiu'er, the joy that had just emerged in that family was immediately shattered.
Zhu Chuanwu spent two nights at home and did not have any contact with Xiu'er.
Xiu'er put on a ** and bright belly pocket, and whispered to Chuanwu: "You just hurt me." Chuanwu responded indifferently: "Xiu'er, since Sister Xian'er and I dispersed in the water field that year, my feelings for women have completely disappeared."
After the sister-in-law Nawen learned that Chuanwu had never had contact with Xiu'er, she laughed at her angrily:
In my opinion, you are really not qualified, after a year of service, you are really remarkable compared to the old sow and the sable, if a woman does not have the ability to attract men, then she can still be considered a woman"?
Xiu'er ran to her mother-in-law with her face covered because of the joke in that article, and said with tears in her eyes: "My sister-in-law said that I am useless and not a woman."
Wen Ta Niang looked at Xiu'er with tears streaming down her face and comforted her:
You may not know who your sister-in-law is yet, she is a careless person, you can rest assured that your mother will support you, this time you will listen to your mother's opinion, and your mother will give you a deep impression".
In order to prevent Xiu'er from bowing her head in front of her concubine, and in order to stop Nawen from laughing at Xiu'er, Wen Ta Niang skillfully performed a trick and successfully ** Nawen.
After 18 years of lonely stay in a vacant room, I felt a deep sense of grievance and embarrassment.
In the Kanto region, Xiu'er is an affectionate woman to the point of heartache. She was born in a place called the "Wolf's Den", grew up in that place, came into this world, and finally died here. Ever since the moment the legendary Takeshi rescued her from the wolf's mouth, she has been firm in her belief that she will not marry him unless it is Tsumu.
However, Chuanwu never really cared about her, and in his eyes, she was just a little sister who would never grow up.
Although Xiu'er decides to marry Chuanwu with the support of her father Han Laohai, Chuanwu is already deeply in love with Xiu'er. However, on the wedding night, he did not hesitate to avoid Xiu'er, making her the daughter-in-law of the Zhu family who had existed in name only for 18 years.
After Chuanwu eloped with Xian'er, Xiu'er was taken back to her parents' house by her father Han Laohai.
Han Laohai looked at his daughter who had just stepped into the cave room and was abandoned, his teeth were bitten and gurgling, and then he roared angrily
Zhu Kaishan is really not a big deal!He was just laughing at me, making me feel ashamed, and then tearing off my face and trampling me under my feet. My daughter, I have to get rid of this breath, or the dogs in Yuanbao Town will laugh so much that their teeth fall out."
After scolding Zhu Kaishan, Han Laohai said to Xiu'er again: "Daughter, if Chuanwu won't come back, you will give up completely, erase him from your memory, and I will recommend a good family for you again."
Xiu'er looked at her angry and anxious father with tears in her eyes
I came back from the Chuanwu Society, I didn't do anything wrong, he was just confused for a while, and he will change his mind. I was born a member of his family, and I died as a ghost of his family."
In the days when Xiu'er first returned to her parents' home, she felt a little dazed because she missed Chuanwu deeply. Sometimes she wept, sometimes laughed, and refused to sleep all night, constantly chanting the name of Chuanwu in her mouth.
When Zhu Kaishan and his wife learned that Xiu'er had a problem with her mental state, they specially invited a doctor from Harbin and successfully treated her with the disease.
Zhu Kaishan saw that Xiu'er was wholeheartedly waiting for Chuanwu to change his mind, he raised his head and sighed and said: "This infatuated child, Chuanwu is not worth it for you to do this for him, our old Zhu family is really sorry for you."
Xiu'er, this affectionate woman, because of her determination to "never marry without passing on martial arts", not only let herself experience 18 years of ruthless and unrighteous life, but also put herself in an embarrassing situation.
The Zhu family has a three-room daughter-in-law, and her eldest daughter-in-law, Nawen, was born in the palace. As a Gege, although she behaves well and is intelligent, because she has lived in a spacious house since she was a child, she is very sensitive to the relationship between men and women, and has developed a strong interest in it.
Yushu's little daughter-in-law looks innocent on the outside, but she was born in a business family, grew up under the pampering of her father, has an eccentric and witty personality, and always speaks outspokenly.
One of them is Wang Fu Gege, who has rich social experience, and the other is a knowledgeable young lady. The Zhu family has two daughters-in-law, one older and one younger, and compared with Xiu'er, the second daughter-in-law who was born in a Zhuang family, there are significant differences in nature.
Since ancient times, the relationship between the concubines of the Zhu family has not been harmonious. Although Wen Ta Niang can maintain family harmony in her daily life, and the relationship between her daughter-in-law is also harmonious, at critical moments, Na Wen and Yushu often "wear the same pants", which causes them to occasionally become dissatisfied with Xiu'er.
Chuanwu's 18-year cold attitude towards Xiu'er made Xiu'er unconsciously become a laughing stock in front of Nawen and Yushu. Although the two didn't say it explicitly, they actually often laughed at her in their hearts. She knew it was because she didn't know how to be a woman. Wen Ta Niang has a deeper understanding of this matter than anyone else, which is why she expressed this opinion to Chuanwu:
Did you realize it?If you snub Xiu'er, her concubines may laugh at her. Xiu'er may think that she is half of the dwarf family, and she should be called your daughter-in-law, but why should you call her 'you'.
18 years of lonely life, without the favor of men, made Xiu'er feel both wronged and embarrassed. Therefore, when Nawen learned that Chuanwu had never had contact with Xiu'er, he evaluated her as "incompetent and not a woman".
Flawless disguised pregnancy.
After hearing Xiu'er complain about her sister-in-law Nawen laughing and saying that she was "incompetent and not a woman", Wen Ta Niang planned a plan - let Xiu'er pretend to be pregnant and seal Nawen's mouth.
She told Xiu'er: "Xiu'er, we are also pregnant, let your sister-in-law take a look." When the mother-in-law heard this, she immediately agreed. Then, she talked to Xiu'er in a low voice, and after listening to her mother-in-law's advice, Xiu'er couldn't help laughing.
Two months later, at the Zhu family's dining table, Wen Ta Niang motioned to Xiu'er and said, "Xiu'er, you can taste this sauce beef." Her son ate deliciously, but his mother was not happy. Xiu'er understood, she put down the chopsticks in her hand, covered her mouth and rushed out of the room.
The witty and intelligent Yushu saw Xiu'er's appearance and responded excitedly: "Ah, the second sister-in-law finally has it"!
The casual article watched Xiu'er run out of the house and asked in surprise, "Really?".She?It can't be, right?
When Wen Ta Niang saw the article, her face was full of confusion and she angrily criticized her, saying, "Why doesn't she understand?".Only you know"?Then, she asked Zhu Kaishan a question: "Alas, the last time the second child came home, it should have been two months, right?"
After pondering for a moment, Zhu Kaishan said firmly: "Indeed, there is not much difference."
Wen Ta Niang announced in front of her family that Xiu'er was "pregnant", and this news was highly recognized by her husband.
Wen Ta Niang wittily controlled the time and carefully planned a flawless fake pregnancy for Xiu'er.
After learning the news of her second sister-in-law's pregnancy, Yushu walked into Xiu'er's room and happily congratulated her: "Second sister-in-law, I'm really happy for you. Now that you have the second brother's child, as a hard-hearted second brother, I think your attitude towards me should change.
Xiu'er understood that Yushu was really happy for her, and she said with some embarrassment: "Good girl, I hope things are really like this."
Yushu didn't think carefully about the meaning of what Xiu'er said, but the article that was hidden in the shadows and eavesdropped revealed the secret in it.
When Yushu left Xiu'er's room, he accidentally bumped into his sister-in-law Nawen, who suddenly appeared from the darkness, and Nawen asked her a question secretly:
Is Xiu'er really pregnant?Isn't it?For so many years, Chuanwu has not been interested in Xiu'er, why did he get pregnant when he came back?Xiu'er told me that the last time the second child came back, she didn't even touch her."
Yushu was confused by the question in that article, and she said she didn't understand:
How could this matter be fake?Sister-in-law, you really are like this!Can you still tell you the truth about this couple?What are you thinking about?
The conversation between Yushu and Nawen was seriously overheard by Wen Ta Niang next to her, and she severely criticized Nawen:
Dear everyone, you really care about your life when you were young, Xiu'er is pregnant, see that you are busy, ask around, what do you want to do"?"You don't mean I'm your father. "How do you care about that couple in the quilt. Three concubines, you are the eldest in the family, don't bring the problems in the palace to our family, this will lead to tension in the family, as for Xiu'er's affairs, I know, you better not think nonsense"!
After the mother-in-law's severe reprimand, the article was red-faced, unable to speak, and returned to her room in frustration.
Xiu'er noticed that her sister-in-law had deep doubts about her pregnancy, and in order to avoid exposing any flaws, she begged her mother-in-law and said, "Mother, you can't pretend anymore, one day it will be exposed."
Wen Ta Niang stared at Xiu'er tightly, and said to her calmly and impatiently: "No, your sister-in-law doesn't dare to pester you anymore, and her mother has already made plans for you in the next step."
Then, she handed Xiu'er a small pillow and told her, "From tomorrow, you should have it around your stomach so that you don't need to pretend to be nauseous anymore, let's sing this song first".
Xiu'er held a small pillow in her hand and said to her mother-in-law worriedly: "Mother, when will this matter be completed?"
Wen Ta Niang confidently said to Xiu'er: "You'd better listen to me, my mother knows how to do it."
In order to support Xiu'er and control Nawen's troubled behavior, Wen Ta Niang carefully planned a flawless fake pregnancy scene.
The strategy of "hiding from the world" was used to successfully control the eldest daughter-in-law.
As the head of the old Zhu family, Wen Ta Niang's wisdom and ability to deal with emergencies are on par with her husband Zhu Kaishan.
When the article ridiculed Xiu'er and said, "It's useless, it's not a woman", Xiu'er decided to support Xiu'er because of sympathy and distress.
For women, the most effective method of facial treatment is to get pregnant and give birth to a baby. Since Chuanwu currently lives in Harbin and is able to go home often for the night, Xiu'er has the possibility of becoming pregnant. Therefore, she carefully plans a flawless fake pregnancy, hoping that Xiu'er will get pregnant on the night Chuan Wu returns home.
Once Xiu'er became pregnant with a child, she not only changed her own face, but also indirectly slapped the face of that article.
But unexpectedly, Chuanwu never forgot Xian'er, despite Xiu'er's great efforts, he still couldn't be impressed, and his disguised pregnancy could be revealed at any time.
At this critical moment, Wen Ta Niang showed her excellent emergency response, and she seized the moment to try to fix the article and eliminate the royal problems that might arise in her, thus completely controlling her.
Although the fake pregnancy plan that Moon Ta Niang carefully designed for Xiu'er seemed flawless, the views of that article were still full of doubts. Her mother-in-law's attitude made her very embarrassed. After being beaten hard by her mother-in-law, although she didn't show any suspicion on the surface, she actually kept a close eye on Xiu'er's every move in secret.
When Xiu'er was chopping wood, Nawen quietly observed from the side. After finishing chopping wood, she asked Xiu'er to carry water. The honest and trustworthy Xiu'er is eager to make more contributions to the old Zhu family, but under Nawen's instructions, she has forgotten that she is a "pregnant woman" who is four or five months pregnant.
Faced with Xiu'er wielding a big axe and splitting wood like a gale, the article said to Yushu with great certainty: "I don't think she looks like she's really pregnant, and if she is, she can do anything"?
Yushu looked at Xiu'er, who was carrying water on his back, and then thought about the content of that article, feeling that there was some deep meaning in it.
When Wen Ta Niang saw her two daughters-in-law muttering in a low voice beside her, her heart suddenly understood what was going on. She said to Xiu'er, who was still carrying water: "You little girl, you are really scheming, how can you do hard work with your body?"
Wen Ta Niang knew that if this continued, the disguised pregnancy would soon be exposed. So, when Wen asked Xiu'er to chop wood and carry water, she skillfully used the strategy she had already planned - "hiding from the sky and crossing the sea".
She suggested that Xiu'er put down the burden of carrying water and go back to her room to rest, and then led her out of the door.
When Wen Ta Niang came home, she had a few more pairs of Chinese medicine in her hands. She called Wen and Yushu into Xiu'er's room and asked indifferently, "What should you two do?"The baby in Xiu'er's belly is gone, and now it's time for you to iron and dance.
That article heard that the baby in Xiu'er's belly was gone, and asked shyly: "Mother, how is this possible"?
How is that possible?How could not!It's all because of you"!Wen Ta Niang grabbed the broom lump casually, and tapped on the edge of the kang to speak:
What do you think about that?Huh?Knowing that Xiu'er is pregnant, she also asked her to do some capable work!I really don't understand, how did Xiu'er offend you?If she is pregnant, you will also be jealous of her."
Under the severe reprimand of his mother-in-law, Nawen began to feel frightened and began to reflect on his behavior: "Mother, I really messed up my life and let Xiu'er do heavy physical labor, and as a result, I lost your eldest grandson."
When Wen Ta Niang saw that Wen confessed her mistake, she felt remorse, thinking that she needed to be repaired more deeply to restore her memory, so she expressed her emotions to her again:
Although Xiu'er experienced a miscarriage, this is also part of confinement. From today onwards, she has rested and handed over the task of delivering soup and rice to you and Yushu. Needless to say, the quality of the meals you prepare for Xiu'er is one thing, and that is that every meal has to have a new style"!
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Nawen kept saying: "Mother, you can rest assured, I will definitely take care of Xiu'er."
Wen Ta Niang skillfully used a "hide from the world" tactic, easily won the article, and succeeded in controlling her. This made her understand that in the old Zhu family, those complicated schemes and schemes in the palace could never be realized.
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Summary: Wen Ta Niang is indeed Zhu Kaishan's wife, and she has shown wisdom and ingenious strategies in educating her daughter-in-law and balancing the relationship between her daughter-in-law in the third room.
As the Gege of the palace, the eldest daughter-in-law Nawen not only has a high status, but also has made great achievements for the Zhu family. According to common sense, she should have a higher opinion of such a daughter-in-law and behave more tolerant in her daily life, but she did not do so.
She knew very well that excessive pampering of her eldest daughter-in-law would not only make her arrogant and arrogant, but also cause her to develop bad habits and bring bad behaviors in the palace into the Zhu family, causing trouble for the whole family.
In addition to wholeheartedly guiding and deepening reforms, her attitude toward Navin was more favorable and authoritative.
The joke in that article says, "No way, it's not a woman", she wasn't important in the first place, and she was perfectly capable of pretending not to listen and turning a deaf ear, but she didn't do it.
She knows that if she justly defends Xiu'er, Xiu'er will forever be the laughing stock of that article. In the relationship between the two concubines, Xiu'er's height may continue to be low.
As a mother-in-law, even if you can't treat your daughter-in-law as your own daughter, you should show kindness to them and guide them to be a kind person.
In order to restore Xiu'er's face, let her have a long face, and at the same time hit the article hard, so that she could completely get rid of the bad habits she had developed in the palace, Wen Ta Niang tried her best to set up a perfect plan, and successfully controlled the article with the strategy of "hiding from the sky and crossing the sea".