Extramarital affairs, in short, are meant to meet the needs of each other, but this kind of relationship is difficult to test.
After all, the legitimacy and plausibility of this relationship is lacking, and once the novelty wears off, the relationship will be estranged.
No matter how deep the affection between men and women is, as time goes by, the feelings will gradually fade, especially after getting along for a long time, the increase in the trivialities and troubles of life can easily lead to conflicts, which will lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
In addition, once the extramarital relationship**, it is difficult for both parties to face the original match, which may bring trouble to their respective marriages and accelerate the disintegration.
It can be seen that the end of extramarital affairs is only a matter of time, and even if it is romantic, it is impossible to surpass reality.
In general, there are usually five telltale signs that appear when an affair is coming to an end.
First, they began to be perfunctory and no longer willing to communicate. In an extramarital affair, if a man and a woman show perfunctory behavior, are no longer willing to communicate, and lose the desire to chat, the relationship is likely to be coming to an end.
When we first met, both parties felt fresh and liked to talk freely.
However, as time goes by, both parties are no longer willing to communicate, and the attitude gradually becomes perfunctory, and there is nothing to say, which is a sign of emotional fatigue.
In an extramarital affair, as long as both partners behave perfunctorily and refuse to communicate, it is likely to be a sign of the end of the relationship.
Second, there is a loss of patience and often contradictions. In extramarital affairs, if a man and a woman lose patience and are no longer passionate about anything, it means that the relationship has deteriorated.
The two often have conflicts, and even small things can easily lead to big quarrels.
In getting along, both men and women are reluctant to spend too much energy, they always wanted to be with each other before, but now they don't even want to see each other.
In this state, both parties feel tired and lose patience, and anything that doesn't go their way can lead to arguments and estrangement.
Therefore, when an affair is about to end, basically both men and women no longer love each other, and neither party wants to pay more energy and cost for the relationship, which naturally leads to the end of the relationship.
No matter how good the relationship is, it will gradually disintegrate in quarrels and contradictions, and eventually become strangers.
Third, start ignoring each other and associating with other members of the opposite sex. In an extramarital affair, once a man and a woman no longer love each other, they will no longer care about each other and will withdraw whenever they have the opportunity.
Even if there is no immediate breakup, the initial novelty has worn off, and both parties are no longer willing to stick together.
At this time, the relationship loses its freshness, and it is easy to divert the relationship, leading to the breakdown of the relationship.
When getting along, the other person no longer takes into account your feelings, and even when they are with you, they will associate with other members of the opposite sex.
Before, the other person put all their thoughts on you, but now they no longer love you, will ignore you, and look for other members of the opposite sex.
You will find that the other person is looking for you less and less, and the time you spend with you is getting shorter and shorter, which is a sign of starting to distance yourself.
A person who devotes all his mind and energy to pleasing other members of the opposite sex and completely ignores you is a sign that the relationship is coming to an end.
Fourth, leave under the pretext of "I don't want to delay you". In an extramarital affair, if a person always says "I don't want to delay you", it is not really for your sake, but because he no longer loves you, and breaks up with this excuse.
For example, if a man has just fallen into an extramarital affair, he will be desperate to treat you as the most important person.
However, once he loses interest in you, he will try to leave and will no longer be willing to pay for you.
At this point, he will use this hypocritical excuse, ostensibly to think about you, but in fact to tell you that the relationship is over.
After all, a man who really cares about you won't get into an affair because he knows it will hurt you.
Only when a man loses interest in you and doesn't want to continue developing will he break up with such a high-sounding excuse.
Similarly, if a woman wants to end an affair, she will also repeatedly say "I don't want to delay you" and actually want to leave as soon as possible.
Therefore, when lovers no longer love each other, both parties will find ways to get out of the way, not wanting to be responsible, and the relationship is doomed to end.
Fifth, there is a loss of physical contact and a refusal to approach. Extramarital affairs, which are essentially for intimacy between a man and a woman, are likely to collapse once both parties lose physical contact.
When getting along, both parties are reluctant to get closer, and when they see each other, they feel irritated and act indifferent.
At this time, the contact between the two parties will gradually decrease, and even the contact may be disconnected, and no one can be found at all.
You have a need, and the other party doesn't care at all, even if you take the initiative to find him, he ignores you.
Both parties are no longer dependent on each other, and the desire to meet is completely lost, and such a relationship will inevitably not stand the test.
In fact, both men and women in extramarital affairs have families, and they will weigh the pros and cons, and as long as they feel troublesome, they are not willing to continue to entangle.
As a result, they deliberately distance themselves from each other, feeling too tired to get along and reluctant to have any physical contact.
As long as this happens, it indicates that there is a rift in the relationship, and they will eventually wave goodbye and live their lives separately.
Overall, there are usually five signs before the end of an "extramarital affair":
Began to be perfunctory and reluctant to communicate. Loss of patience and frequent contradictions. Begin to ignore each other and associate with other members of the opposite sex. Leave under the pretext of "I don't want to delay you". Lost physical contact and refused to approach. An extramarital affair is just a short-lived relationship, and no matter how deep the love is, it will awaken and eventually return to reality.
After all, both parties have families and will not give up lifelong happiness for short-term pleasures. When the time comes, leaving is the only option.
Moreover, in real life, how many extramarital affairs have a happy ending?Almost every extramarital affair ends in tragedy.
This reminds men and women not to indulge in extramarital love, but to release it in time, return to the family, and keep the marriage, which is a wise choice.