In the long river of years, the life of the master Liang Shuming is like a picture full of waves, and his two marriages have become a topic of conversation. Huang Jingxian and Chen Shufen, the two wives left completely different footprints in his heart, which is endlessly evocative.
Liang Shuming's second son learned that his father wanted to marry again, and wrote "The old man is kind and righteous, and he can't bear to fly again" to his father, expressing his opposition to this marriage. Liang Shuming glanced at it, nodded in agreement, and turned around to marry his second wife, Chen Shufen.
Compared with the original partner Huang Jingxian, who doesn't know a single big character, Chen Shufen is obviously more in line with a man's fantasy of a woman, not only beautiful, but also a highly talented student who graduated from Peking University.
When Liang Shuming met Chen Shufen, his original wife Huang Jingxian had been dead for 10 years, and he was heartbroken by the death of his wife and vowed not to marry another person in this life until he met Chen Shufen. This year, Liang Shuming was 53 years old, and Chen Shufen was 6 years younger than him. Although Chen Shufen has passed the age of not being confused, she has not yet married, and Liang Shuming also wrote many love letters to her, which moved this ice beauty who does not focus on marriage.
Liang Shuming imagined a happy life after marriage, his former wife did not have a high level of education and did not have any spiritual communication with him. Since meeting Chen Shufen, the two have talked happily, and he thought that his true love had come. In order to marry Chen Shufen, Liang Shuming even shaved off his proud long beard, just to look younger and more energetic.
Liang Shuming and Chen Shufen's marriage lasted for 36 years, until Chen Shufen died of mental illness. But in 36 years of getting along and accompaniment, Liang Shuming did not feel the husband and wife Qin Se and Ming that he expected before marriage.
Chen Shufen's cultural level is indeed high, but she has a fatal flaw, her emotional intelligence is extremely low, she often can't control her temper, and she can't let Liang Shuming get off the stage in public. Although Liang Shuming focuses on the spiritual world and has few desires, he is embarrassed by his wife in public, which still makes people unable to let go.
Liang Shuming likes to think since he was a child, and even gives up eating and sleeping in order to think, and is a loner who indulges in the spiritual world. He likes to be quiet, but Chen Shufen has a short temper, and there is often a lot of trouble at home, and he can't get a quiet respite.
Contrary to Chen Shufen, Liang Shuming's emotionally disliked original partner Huang Jingxian became the most compatible with him because he was quiet and had few things.
Mate. After 14 years together, at Huang Jingxian's funeral, Liang Shuming's eulogy described their marriage very well: "I have been married to her for more than ten years, I don't know her, and she doesn't know me. Because I don't know her, she doesn't know me, it gives me more time to think, more time to work and ......”
"I don't know her, she doesn't know me" here I don't know whether it's a pity or a blessing, anyway, when suffering from Chen Shufen's noise, Liang Shuming should miss Huang Jingxian.
Liang Shuming and Huang Jingxian's acquaintance was due to a blind date, because he focused on thinking about the spiritual world, Liang Shuming, who was nearly 30 years old, had not yet started a family. His friend Wu Boyong was worried about his marriage, so he introduced his wife and sister Huang Jingxian to him.
Huang Jingxian was 28 years old at the time, but he didn't pay attention to his dress, in the words of the master Liang Shuming: "She has nothing to attract men in all women." This remark was merciless, hurting the woman's heart, and also broke the possibility of this fate to continue to go down. Everyone thought that Liang Shuming didn't look down on Huang Jingxian, and this matter was considered yellow, but they didn't expect that a few days later, Liang Shuming turned back to Huang Jingxian and decided to marry her.
This jump operation is really incomprehensible to outsiders, it may be that after the master went home and thought about it for a few days, he felt that he was too superficial to judge people by their appearance, and after thinking about it again, Huang Jingxian was kind and benevolent, and he should be a wife.
Huang Jingxian and Liang Shuming were already considered old when they got married, and older age is nothing for men, but there are obstacles to childbirth for women. After giving birth to two sons, Huang Jingxian is already considered an advanced maternal age, and the doctor's advice is that she is no longer suitable for pregnancy. But Liang Shuming has a son and a rare daughter, and his liking for girls has reached the level of obsession.
In order to satisfy her husband's dream of being a daughter, Huang Jingxian decided to take a risk and give it a try, and sure enough, she had several miscarriages, and finally even had a difficult birth, and folded her life on the operating table.
Although Liang Shuming and Huang Jingxian are not a loving husband and wife, they have lived together for 14 years, Huang Jingxian gave birth to children for him, took care of family affairs, and let him focus on his career without worries, even if he is ruthless, he is also gracious. Especially after experiencing a second marriage where he could communicate spiritually but couldn't live in peace, Liang Shuming missed Huang Jingxian, the original partner who gave him a stable life and a quiet thinking environment.
After the death of his stepwife Chen Shufen, Liang Shuming, who was already in his old age, wrote an article "In Memory of His Late Wife Huang Jingxian" to commemorate his wife Huang Jingxian, who had passed away for nearly 50 years, which wrote: "Only she (Huang Jingxian) is worthy of being her wife." ”
Fortunately, Chen Shufen has passed away, otherwise it would be another lawsuit. However, Liang Shuming is worthy of being a master of a generation, no matter how many thoughts he has in his heart, he has never forgotten the foundation of being a man and the righteousness of man. Although he verbally disliked Huang Jingxian's appearance, after marrying her, he was loyal to his marriage and wife, and it was not until 10 years after his wife's death that he ushered in the second spring.
As for his second wife Chen Shufen, he married her because of love, even if he found out that she was not his ideal wife, he often made himself very faceless, and he never complained anything in front of others. Even when she missed her first wife, she didn't say it until after the death of her second wife, which completely took care of Chen Shufen's self-esteem and mood.
A person's temperament can also reflect his life Xi and state, unlike the amorous flood of literary masters in most of the ** period, Liang Shumin has always been restrained, in food, he has been vegetarian for more than 70 years, in color, he is indifferent. has a good background and a group of slaves, but Liang Shuming lives like an ascetic, hard-working, abandoning hobbies, and detaching from the world, perhaps because of his detachment, he lived to the age of 95.
The story of Liang Shuming's two marriages in his life is like a picture scroll of vicissitudes, outlining the twists and turns and complexity of life. In the world of emotion, this literary giant has experienced the ups and downs of marriage, leaving deep thoughts and reflections.
First of all, Liang Shuming's marriage choice shows his mixed views on love. He chose a quiet and diligent wife in his first marriage, and although Huang Jingxian did not meet his standards in appearance, her kindness and silent dedication made Liang Shuming feel a deep kindness. However, this marriage was described by him as "I don't know her, and she doesn't know me", which obviously lacks emotional blending and communication. In stark contrast to this, in the second marriage, he married Chen Shufen for love, but found her low emotional intelligence and incompatible personality in the marriage. This made it difficult for him to find the ideal balance in both marriages.
Secondly, Liang Shuming's attitude towards life echoes his literary creation. As a loner immersed in the spiritual world, he has a unique pursuit of life. His spiritual pursuit and yearning for tranquility and tranquility clashed with the personalities of his two wives in his marriage. Chen Shufen's violent temper is contrary to his calmness, and Huang Jingxian's peace and kindness have failed to form a deep spiritual communication with him. This made him fall into contradictions and helplessness in his relationship.
It is worth noting that Liang Shuming's nostalgia and memories of his two wives were expressed after their deaths. This shows that his understanding of marriage and the value he cherishes his wife lies in hindsight. His memories of Huang Jingxian are full of gratitude for her silent dedication, and after Chen Shufen's death, he chose restraint and thoughtfulness to maintain her dignity.
Finally, Liang Shuming's life shows his perseverance in marriage and deep thinking about life. His two marriages may not be perfect, but they truly reflect the exploration and understanding of a literary giant in the world of feelings. For readers, this life experience is not only a spiritual experience, but also a reflection on marriage and the meaning of life, making people think deeply about the complexity and diversity of life.
To sum up, Liang Shuming's two marriage stories carry his unique insights on love, marriage and life. Through these experiences, he used his life to interpret an emotional picture of ups and downs, leaving a deep reflection and reflection for future generations.
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