When we send a message, waiting for a response from a girl can be anxious. Different girls have different reasons:
For the average friend, it may be because of busyness or simple negligence;
For suitors, girls may want some time for themselves and don't want to be disturbed;
For the object of the affair, the girl may be playing a mind game, trying to hide her true feelings.
So, when faced with such a situation, how should you respond?
1.Shift focus.
Don't get too attached to her reply. Doing something unrelated to her, such as playing games, playing sports, or putting in work, will not only distract you but also reduce stress on both parties. If she doesn't respond for a long time, it's best to wait until the next day to contact her to avoid appearing overly eager.
2.Stay in the right mindset.
There could be many reasons why she didn't get back to you in a timely manner. Don't be too self-reproaching or guessing. And avoid feeling like she's hanging out with other boys. Adjust your mindset and understand that she is not obligated to reply immediately.
3.Think about your next step.
If you really like her, you can think about the next strategy when she doesn't reply. Consider asking some questions about topics that interest her, or give her some space, and then reach out to her the next day. If it feels like she's really not interested in you, think about whether you should stick with it.
4.Stick to your principles.
Boys can sometimes become too humble when they pursue girls. However, even if you like her no matter how much you like her, you must stick to your principles and dignity. Don't give up your bottom line in order to pursue her. You can accommodate her, but you can't tolerate things that go beyond your principles.
Finally, understand that there are countless people in the world, and if she is not interested, it does not mean that you do not have a chance to find someone who is really suitable. Cherish yourself, take the initiative to give, and stick to your principles, believing that one day you will find the person with whom you cherish each other.