Marrying a wife and having children, buying a car and buying a house, I'm afraid this is 999% of ordinary men's greatest wish is to complete these four life events, and I am afraid that there will be no regrets in this life.
It seems like a simple ideal and desire, but for a poor man, this is a disaster in life
Don't believe it, when a poor man gets married, he not only harms himself, his wife, but also his children.
A man who has no money, after getting married, does not eat well, does not dress well, and is frugal. I don't talk about being tired of being a dog outside, and I am disgusted by my family. Not only can you not get the encouragement and support of your wife, but you will also say that you have no ability, and the mud can't support the wall. Marrying you is really bad luck for eight lifetimes. When a man hears these cold words, his heart is like being cut by a knife, and he can't breathe in pain.
The wife follows the man, and if she has no money, she will be like a resentful woman all day long, nagging and complaining in your ear. Even in front of your family and friends, they will count down your wrongs, and they will not save you any face, which will make you lose your dignity. As the saying goes, people hold their husbands in front of them, and they beat their husbands later. But your wife shows you no mercy and embarrasses you. Therefore, a man without money lives without even dignity, and he is not as good as a pet dog.
I remember a buddy, because the business failed, his wife not only did not comfort him, but also counted him for his inability, so angry that this buddy overturned the table on the spot. The wife took out her mobile phone and recorded the scene of her husband's emotional out-of-control, the purpose of which was to use it as some "evidence" of the husband's crimes.
A man who has no money, who has a child, does not have good educational conditions, is ashamed of his child. In order to provide for the schooling of their children, men have to travel thousands of miles from home to work. But when a man picks up a brick, he can't hold his wife and children. If you throw away the bricks, you won't be able to feed the family. Where there is a home, there is no work, and where there is a job, there is no home. This may be the biggest helplessness of a man without money. If you have money, if it weren't for poverty, what man wouldn't want to hold his wife and children at home. But for the sake of life, there is really no way.
I often hear that men abuse their wives, if you don't know the inside story, please don't comment casually. Without the suffering of others, don't persuade people to be kind, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. As long as it is a normal man, he will not be domestic violence for no reason. Most Chinese men traditionally take care of their families, and it is only because they are pinched by some so-called Puxin women as a weakness, which makes their husbands really unbearable and even collapsed, so domestic violence occurs. What's more, it is to fight violence with violence, because there is no fight for three days, and women who go to the house to expose the tiles abound.
In some places, due to the spread of customs, the bride price of marrying a wife alone requires the life savings of the parents. I also have to buy a car and a house, and after getting married, the husband and wife will continue to pay off their debts. If you marry a good wife, it's worth it. If the wife who does not marry well divorces the marriage, not only will the bride price be wasted, but also half of the family property may be divided. So this is also the sorrow of men, who have no money and really can't afford to get married.
Of course, it is not recommended not to get married, but to say, if you don't have money, you really don't think about getting married first, work hard to earn money, and do a good job of your own conditions first, so that you can have this confidence. Otherwise, you will be more tired and aggrieved if you are married than if you were not married.
Men are also tired, men also need love, and I hope that life can be kind to every man who works hard outside.
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