Catering to the outside world, exhausting yourself, and finally making yourself depressed and not going to school!A mother consulted that her child was depressed and did not go to school, rested at home for half a year, felt that the whole mental state and body recovered well, and went to school again, but went to school for two days and came back, and asked me what to do
I said what did you do during the six months, the child is a system of thought and behavior, he needs to adjust him, how does he deal with the external environment!cares about the teacher's evaluation, cares about the evaluation of his classmates, and caters to the entire system of the school, so that he is very tired, he is very mentally exhausted, and he is constantly moving forward, how far can he go!He's run out of energy in a few days!So this child will not express himself, will not learn to refuse, will not take the initiative to arrange his own life, arrange his own learning rhythm, he should tell his parents, now my energy is very weak, I can't stand it should tell the teacher that my learning pace needs to slow down, should also tell himself, I am now very low energy, I don't want to catch up, I want to accept that I am lagging behind, because I used to have good grades, I forced myself to myself, like a balloon blown, now he blows up, I should return to the most true self, let myself fall behind, so as to guide the child to change his thinking and behavior system, so that he can rearrange, suitable for his current state of energy this kind of learning life, the child can get better and come out completely!
The ideology of parents is to raise children as pets, the school is to raise children to be problem-making machines, and the society is to raise children into wasteI just let parents have a high-dimensional cognition, see clearly the chaos of the family, school, and society, and use the true educational logic of doing things to upgrade the dimension, so as to completely solve the problems of depression, lying down, hating school, not going to school, etc.!