Have you ever encountered such a situation, when you take the high-speed train, there is a group of children next to or in front of you, making noise, kicking the back of the chair, fighting, and even holding various toys to make screeching sounds, so that you want to rest quietly or work can't be carried out?Have you ever tried to communicate with their parents in the hope that they can discipline their children so as not to affect the rest and mood of other passengers?
Have you ever been looked at by their parents, or even abused and scolded, saying that you don't understand the nature of your children and should not be concerned with them, or even that you are jealous of their children, or that you have misogyny?
If you've ever had that experience, then you'll definitely relate to a recent bear child incident that happened on a high-speed train. This incident happened on the high-speed train, and a female passenger was abused and beaten by the other party's parents after being repeatedly kicked in the back of the chair by the children in the back row. Fortunately, a big brother from the Northeast in the carriage stepped forward, spoke justice for the female passengers, and angrily reprimanded the child's parents, and finally received applause from the whole carriage.
The ** of this incident circulated on the Internet, which sparked heated discussions among netizens, and many people expressed their support for the righteous behavior of the Northeast Big Brother, and also expressed contempt and dissatisfaction with the quality and upbringing of the child's parents.
This kind of thing is actually not uncommon, every holiday, there will be all kinds of bear children and bear parents on the high-speed rail, making other passengers miserable. Some children are running around in the carriage, shouting loudly, and even holding horns or toy guns to make a screeching sound, which makes people's ears deaf. Some children are bouncing around in their seats, kicking the back of the seats in front of them, making people restless. Some children don't wear headphones when watching movies or playing games, and the volume is turned up so loudly that people can't concentrate.
And what about the parents of these children?Some parents completely ignore it, let their children mess around, chat and swipe their mobile phones on the side, turn a blind eye to their children's behavior, and even think that their children are very cute and energetic. Although some parents will occasionally remind their children, their tone is very light, their attitude is very soft, and they have no binding force on their children, and their children will not listen at all, but are more arrogant.
Some parents will also express dissatisfaction with other passengers' reminders or complaints, thinking that others are finding faults, bullying their children, and even quarreling with others, without a sense of self-reflection and apology. The attitude of these parents is undoubtedly disrespectful to other passengers and a violation of public order.
These bear children and bear parents, what should they do with the other passengers on the high-speed rail?Some passengers choose to swallow their anger and endure in silence, hoping to reach their destination early and end this nightmare. Some passengers choose to vent their frustration and reason with their children or parents, hoping that they can correct their mistakes and restore their quiet.
Some passengers choose to ask the flight attendant for help, hoping that they can intervene to stop and maintain order. However, none of these methods are always effective, and sometimes they can even cause greater conflict and complicate things. So, is there a better way?
In fact, the most fundamental way is to improve the quality and upbringing of children and parents, so that they understand how to behave in public, how to respect others, and how to obey the rules. This requires the joint efforts of family, school, society and other aspects to cultivate children's civic consciousness and moral literacy from an early age, and to focus on the big picture and start from a small place, so that children can gradually form correct values and behavioral norms in the process of growing up.
Of course, this also requires parents' self-improvement and self-restraint, parents are the child's first teacher, the child will imitate the parents' words and deeds, the quality and upbringing of the parents, directly affect the quality and upbringing of the child. Parents should set a good example for their children, do not let them feel that they are the pride of the sky and can do whatever they want, but let their children know that they are a member of society and have a sense of social responsibility and public morality.