Recently, I have often been thinking about a question: what should we insist on and what should we give up on the road of life?I have also read many articles about "Forty Not Confused", and the truth in it is indeed worth savoring. However, these literal insights are never as profound as the personal experience in real life. After all, "what you get on paper is shallow, and you never know that you have to do it."
The education we received from childhood always encouraged us to keep pursuing, to keep striving for, to work harder than our peers, and to live a better life. Driven by this concept, we gradually become Xi to running around and tired, Xi to ignoring our inner voice, and Xi to measuring our happiness by external achievements.
However, when you enter the threshold of 40, you should perhaps stop and re-examine your life. After going through ups and downs, I began to gradually realize that life is not only about constantly pursuing and striving for, but also about persevering and giving up.
Persistence is a kind of persistence in dreams;Giving up is a kind of wisdom for life. Sometimes, we feel lost and confused because we are always torn between holding on and giving up. We are afraid to give up our immediate benefits, but we are also afraid that we will lose more by persevering.
However, true wisdom lies in knowing what to hold on to and what to give up. Stick to those things that fill our hearts and make us feel happy;Let go of the baggage that binds us hand and foot, wears us out. Only in this way can we go further and easier on the road of life.
Everyone's situation is different, and the things that need to be held on to and given up are naturally different. However, no matter what choice we face, we should keep a calm heart, listen to our inner voice, and continue to practice what we have gained, what we think, and what we think.
Tips: Twilight Feng's daily thoughts, just to share my personal meager opinions, please don't sit down, don't spray if you don't like it.