My name is Li Xin, an ordinary woman living in a bustling city. I grew up in a small city in the north and grew up in an ordinary family. Both parents are ordinary workers, hardworking and simple. I am the eldest in the family, with a gentle personality and a love of kindness. When I was 25 years old, I married a young man from a southern city named Liu Yang, who was an IT engineer with a sense of humor and humor, which made me feel that life was full of sunshine.
Our marriage has always been happy, and although we don't have a mansion or a sports car, we live happily and peacefully. Until one day, I learned that my sister-in-law Xiaoyu was coming to the south for work reasons, and her house had not been found, so she temporarily lived in our house. This stay is half a year.
At first, I was grateful for this sudden "relative". I treated her like a sister and tried my best to arrange her life in a different place. However, gradually, I began to realize that this sister-in-law was not as easy to get along with as I thought.
Xiaoyu is not a sensible person. Every night when I come home, I always make it so noisy that my husband and I can't sleep at night. Moreover, her Xi of life is very different from ours. The kitchen was always smelly, and the living room was full of her personal belongings. Despite my repeated reminders, she hasn't changed in the slightest.
What angered me the most was that some of Xiaoyu's actions made me feel as if I had become an ATM. When my daughter was full moon wine, she gave me a red envelope of 200 yuan, and other relatives and friends gave me a reasonable amount. I felt a little embarrassed, but my husband defended her: "She has just graduated and is not in a good financial situation. ”
Then came an even more unacceptable scene. Xiaoyu was pregnant, and even offered to borrow 100,000 yuan from me to buy a car. I politely declined, after all, this is not a small amount of money. However, my husband said to me in a weird way: "This is a family expense, we should AA system." "I was so angry at the time, it was obviously her business, but it was hard to pull me into the relationship with my husband.
What's even more outrageous is that after Xiaoyu became pregnant, she actually proposed to be confined at my house. I was out on a business trip and when I came back I found that she had quietly moved into my home. The room fee of 1000 for the master bedroom and 800 for the second bedroom was put in front of me. I was furious, and it trampled my bottom line to hell. I couldn't help but roar, "What the hell do you think my house is?".”
But her mother-in-law said good things for her on the side: "Xiaoyu is also for the good of the child, so you can let it go." "I was really angry, how could I provoke such an ignorant sister-in-law?I pushed her away and rushed to my mother-in-law: "This is my hard-earned money, not everyone can move it." If she wants to live, she has to pay, or she will get out!"My usually mild-mannered personality burst out at this moment, and I could no longer tolerate this.
The husband also came over to persuade him: "Don't be angry, let's discuss it." But I pushed him away mercilessly: "Don't come here, I don't want to see you now." "I know it's the best way to control when I'm angry. The husband stood aside a little helplessly, and the mother-in-law left the room silently.
Xiaoyu looked at me, her eyes revealed a hint of surprise and guilt, she finally understood that I was not a soft persimmon to bully. I forced my eyes to her: "You have two choices, either pay the room or get out." I'm not something you can't afford to bully. ”
Xiaoyu lowered her head and said in a low voice, "I ......."I pay for the room. "I was so happy that I finally received the response she deserved. I sneered, "I know." Give me the money tomorrow and pack up and fuck off. I dropped the words and walked straight out of the room.
The whole family fell silent, and I knew that I had won this battle. In the evening, my husband tried to negotiate with me, but I said confidently: "Xiaoyu has gone too far this time, and I can't tolerate her mistakes." I am also part of this family, and I have the right to protect my interests from being bullied by her. ”
The husband was silent for a long time and finally had nothing to say. The next day, Xiaoyu paid the room fee, packed up and left our home. I released the depression in my heart, and this battle, I won. Not only that, but I also had the support of my parents, who felt that I was doing the right thing. I finally understood that sometimes, in order to protect your bottom line, you have to stand up bravely and not be swayed by other people's words.
This experience has made me stronger and more sensible. In marriage, everyone should have their own bottom line and not wronged themselves. This experience made me understand that in the family, I have the right to protect myself and not let other people's vexatious troubles hurt my bottom line. It was an experience for me to grow up and a step for me to become stronger. I believe that only by knowing how to protect yourself can we truly live a happy life.