I saw a teacher's words on the Internet, which is very reasonable: the root of all the pain in life comes from your "not allowed".
You don't allow others not to love you, you don't allow others to think with you according to your habits, you don't allow you to suddenly turn around when you're unprepared, you don't allow yourself to make mistakes, you don't allow impermanence to happen in this world.
But what if you don't allow it?This can only show the powerlessness and incompetence in your heart, and vulnerability takes over your whole heart. And often, no one wants to be with vulnerable people, because people are strong and willing to be with the strong, which is eternal human nature.
Human beings are as insignificant as ants, and they are so vulnerable and powerless in the face of some natural forces and fate. It seems that we can't do anything but accept it, everything you don't want to accept is a fruit, the fruit has been formed, and you have to accept it if you don't accept it. Whether it is struggling or entangled, it only lengthens the painful time and the dying struggle.
Because everything is created by the mind, all the laws are born from the heart, the mind is manifested, and the consciousness is changed, and everything you encounter is just a phenomenon that is conjured up in your own heart. To put it simply, it is self-inflicted and self-reaping. It's already like this, and if you don't learn to accept and allow it, it's going to create a new problem, and you're going to get deeper and more complicated with these people, and then you're going to be miserable.
When you let go of yourself, you will let go of the other party, when you allow it, admit it, you are powerless, respect the occurrence of the result, you will gain strength, be able to reverse life, and the days will be smoother and smoother. Only by being diligent in cause and effect can you be the master of your own life in this life.
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