We must not underestimate this "keeping the bottom line". Keeping the bottom line is much more important than pursuing nobility."Marriage trouble" isDerived from the traditional Xi of ancient China。As the saying goes: "blind marriage and dumb marriage" refers to the situation that the bride and groom often have never met under the ancient marriage system. Therefore, the young bride and groom are often at a loss in such situations, and the scene will generally fall into an embarrassing situation, and the Xi of "marriage trouble" comes into being in such a situation.Yi Zhongtian.
Weddings are meant to be happy events. But there are people who cause trouble. Not long ago, a piece of news**.
Qinhuangdao, Hebei. A groom was married and backhanded on the street**. Not only that, but he was forced to parade through the streets. When parading through the streets, some people played with their private parts, and some people splashed soy sauce ......There were many onlookers, all laughing.
A once-in-a-lifetime wedding will eventually become a lifetime of shame.
It's still not that long ago. There is also a marriage news, which is also terrifying.
In Qingdao, Shandong, a couple got married. A number of men held fire extinguishers and sprayed bridesmaids. The bridesmaids fell to the ground, screaming in terror.
Weddings are meant to be blessings. But it's a spoof.
Who is responsible?!
Before, there was a tragedy in Shanxi, which was alarming. Due to local customs, on the wedding day, the groom is beaten. The harder you fight, the greater the blessing. And so misfortune struck. There was a groom who was injured on his wedding day and was taken to the hospital. He passed away in the ICU more than 40 days later.
The wedding turned into a funeral, it's really mournful. But they feel that they are not wrong, they are just making the atmosphere.
The court used an ironclad verdict to tell them: marriage trouble is not a joke. It's a crime.
In the end, the four people who beat the groom to death in the name of marriage trouble were sentenced to 3 5 years in prison.
Weddings are life events. It's understandable that you want to be lively. But "lively" doesn't mean messing around. To use vulgarity as fun, and to take harm as a joke, that is an insult to the wedding.
However, the reality is helpless.
This kind of "vulgar marriage trouble" is not uncommon and rampant. In other words, "marriage trouble" has become a common phenomenon.
According to data from NetEase News, "marriage troubles" are spread across various regions of China.
The groom, the bride, the groomsmen and bridesmaids, and even the parents of both parties have become the targets of "marriage trouble".
It can be seen from the data in the figure that whether the marriage trouble is serious or not has nothing to do with the economy of a region, because Shandong ranks first. I don't think Shandong, which is at the top of the list, is poorer than Henan, which is third, but on the contrary, it is much richer. However, in the past ten years, all the marriage troubles I have heard, including the strange rules for treating daughters-in-law, are all from Shandong. This is not geographical discrimination, but rather the articulation of a fact.
The scale of marriage troubles is so "huge" that some people may have heard of it for the first time. But I want to tell you that this is by no means alarmist.
Before, a wedding scene in Yancheng, Jiangsu. The groom's father, drunk, suddenly kissed the bride openly. It's not a movie, it's a real thing. Everyone at the scene froze. This is a daughter-in-law, old fellow.
But they seem to be indifferent, even calling it "picking dust". It is to make trouble for father-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Coincidentally. At another wedding, the father-in-law kisses the bride for 17 seconds.
I really can't figure it out, what is this "picking ashes" for?Is it glorious?I thought I was filming "Red Mansion"?!
There is also a father-in-law who is dressed up as a "high-level fire burner" to parade through the streets. "Fireman" refers to the phenomenon of chaos between fathers-in-law and daughters-in-law. Take a look at the image below:
Is it really good to use "Xi" as a cover and do all the evil things?Helplessly, the "marriage trouble" is far more than that.
Some "marriage troubles", only unexpected, nothing can be done, very disgusting.
For example, the groom is tied to a lamppost by a friend with firecrackers hanging from the back of his butt. And then, the firecrackers were lit!They don't think about the seriousness of the matter at all.
The groom was forced to wear women's underwear and put a banana in his crotch.
Naked sexual innuendo!
The bride was **.
The bride was pressed against the bed and stripped of her clothes.
The groom was dressed only ** and was ** on the wire.
The newlyweds were forced to parade through the streets with signs of "adulterer" and "adulteress".
Even the pregnant bride is not spared.
On the wedding day, she and the groom were tied to a tree with duct tape.
The bride's face is at a loss, in case of hurting the fetus, who will be responsible?
There are also people who did not open the door in time because they did not open the door in time.
The bridesmaid group, who didn't have time to dodge, were collectively scratched by the glass.
The festive day is bloody, is it really what we want to see?
Touching, hugging, pressing on the bed, parading ......These words are put together with the wedding, causing extreme discomfort.
One might say: Won't the victims resist?But the question is, can you resist?
In Lanling, Shandong, a couple of newcomers were pressed to the ground. The bride struggled to get up and kicked the a**. But it did not act as a deterrent at all.
Then the bride was pushed to the ground again.
Whose selfish desires are satisfied by the bottomless marriage trouble? !
These crazy marriage troubles seem to add excitement to the newlyweds. In fact, it is a crazy temptation on the edge of morality.
Some people have been subjected to pent-up sexual violence for a long time, as if they have finally seized the opportunity to release it.
This can't help but remind me of the scene in the movie "The Wedding Banquet". Foreigners are very surprised by the "Chinese-style marriage trouble". Director Ang Lee said: "You are seeing the results of 5,000 years of sexual repression. ”
The wedding has become a "place of desire", and the excitement has changed. Now that it has gone sour, tragedy ensues.
A groom in Zunyi, Guizhou, ran naked on the highway in order to avoid marriage trouble. As he was about to go home, he was unfortunately hit by a car traveling at high speed. Inflicts grade 10 disability.
As a result of being stripped naked and splashed with ink at the wedding. After being knocked down, his blood was stained black. Appalling.
In 2016, a bridesmaid in Wenchang City was forced to drink 3 bottles of white wine, 3 bottles of red wine, and more than 20 bottles of beer......When she was drunk and unconscious, she was taken to the hospital. Later, due to suffocation caused by airway blockage, he died after rescue failed.
Also in Shanxi, a 24-year-old was beaten in the back and back of the head by several young men on his wedding day. On the third day of the wedding, he felt unwell. In the end, the rescue failed, and he died.
is still in Shanxi, a groom was stripped naked and pressed on the bride. When the groom broke free and got up, he found that the bride was already out of breath. If the marriage is too much, the happy event becomes a funeral.
At the wedding, the guests should pay tribute to the newlyweds, which should be blessings and hopes. Not humiliation, not torture.
It's a pity that people without a bottom line will never understand!
I clearly remember the party to the boiling marriage farce released in Shandong a few months ago said, I can't care about it, I will endure it, and I will make trouble back when the other party gets married. I just felt suffocated at the time, this kind of person marries a wife just to make trouble for others?!
There are many traditional Xi in China. Good Xi can make people more intimate with others. Bad Xi can make people more ****. The "marriage trouble" that has changed its flavor is obviously not the former. It's just a hooligan in the name of a wedding.
"Trouble" is not the same as "no bottom line". Nor should it be an excuse to vent one's lusts.
If marital troubles continue to prevail, it will only cause more irreversible tragedies.
For example, the newcomer is tortured to death;Innocent bridesmaids were s**.
The people's micro-commentary once said: If you go too far, you will set yourself on fire, and once you go out of line, something will inevitably happen. If you blindly abandon morality to break the law in marriage, needless to say, what awaits you will be severely punished by the law.
Article 237 of the Criminal Law stipulates that:
Whoever uses violence, coercion, or other methods to compel or insult a woman is to be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment or short-term detention.Don't think the law is just talk. In the case of the groom's grade 10 disability mentioned above, the perpetrator was eventually compensated 90,000 yuan.Whoever assembles a crowd or commits the crime in the preceding paragraph in front of the public in a public place is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than five years.
If the marriage process is an accident and causes a person, the person involved will also bear the corresponding civil or criminal liability.
In November 2006, at a wedding in Zhengzhou, four men conducted ** on the bridesmaids.
They stripped the bridesmaids naked and smeared eggs on the bridesmaids' private parts. The duration of the "crime" lasted more than half an hour. In the end, 4 men were sentenced by the court to 3-5 years in prison.
Weddings are wonderful, so why not let it take place in a pleasant atmosphere?
Haruki Murakami once said:
"Ritual is a very important thing.Getting married is a big deal.The sense of ritual is to make a certain day different from other days, and to make a certain moment different from other moments. ”
In this lifetime of days, there should be joy and blessings. It should give the newcomer more warmth and kindness.
Marriage is vulgar, and it can be stopped in moderation.
Bad Xi continues, nightmares are born.
I hope that every wedding in the future will only be filled with laughter and feasts, without crying and nightmares.
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Weddings turn into funerals!The groom was beaten for 4 hours and died, and the bride was kissed by **!