The old man broke up after half a year, uncle, she was too shameless, and aunt was that he went too far
Introduction. In their later years, it is a blessing for the elderly who live alone to find a partner with whom they can spend the rest of their lives. The two old people came together, cared for each other, and enjoyed a good old age together, which is the life they pursued.
However, the reality is not always as it should be. 64-year-old Uncle Zhang and 59-year-old Aunt Wang happily lived together, but parted ways only half a year later. Uncle Zhang angrily claimed: "She's so shameless!."And Aunt Wang responded aggrievedly: "This old man has gone too far." ”
Why did the couple part ways in just half a year?What exactly is going on?Let's take a closer look at Uncle Zhang's life and listen to what he has to say.
Narrator: Zhang Baoquan, a 64-year-old retired employee of a public institution, has children and started a family. Although life is worry-free, the lonely days make me feel deeply lonely, sitting on the sofa watching TV alone and falling asleep, and the depression in my heart can only be endured silently.
Many years ago, my wife passed away and I wanted to find a partner to end my monotonous life, but I couldn't find the right person on a blind date several times. Every time I go out to exercise or buy groceries, I feel inferior when I see the happy scenes of other old couples.
One day, I suddenly received an old friend's ** and introduced a blind date. Feeling refreshed, I hurriedly tidied up and got ready for the next day's meeting.
I was so excited that I couldn't sleep that night, and I couldn't wait for the dawn. Even neglected the usual square exercise, and all the thoughts were focused on today's blind date. I carefully selected a set of clothes in the wardrobe that satisfied me, went to the meeting place at the pre-agreed time, and quietly waited for the arrival of the blind date.
When I first met Wang Xiuli, my eyes seemed to light up with dazzling light. She was wearing a natural blue dress, her figure was well-proportioned like a fairy, and her large, round eyes instantly caught my eye. At the age of 59, she showed a touching temperament, which made me stunned in place.
If it weren't for the introducer's reminder, I might still be immersed in this wonderful moment. Xiuli greeted me politely and sat down dignifiedly. I was intoxicated by the two small dimples that showed when she smiled. As a gentleman, I do my best to present myself and make a memorable first impression.
After some introductions, Xiuli nodded frequently, acting silent and dignified. When I offered to swap ***, she happily agreed, and I realized that things were progressing. Since then, we have started to communicate, whether it is in WeChat or when we meet, as long as it is a request made by Xiuli, I always say yes. In short, I tried to do everything I could to make her happy and happy.
After a period of time together, I felt that our relationship had matured, so I proposed to Wang Xiuli the idea of getting married. However, Xiuli said that at this age, the life of a partner is good enough, and there is no need to do more. At first, I was a little hesitant and didn't want to live an unclear life, but considering that many elderly people nowadays choose to spend their old age together, I agreed to live with her.
Subsequently, Xiuli proposed that after living with a partner, all the expenses of the family would be borne by me, and she could not be responsible for all the housework. Even though these were small requests, I said yes. So, Xiuli and I started to live together, but what I didn't expect was that despite my best efforts to be nice to Xiuli, she became more and more dissatisfied with me, complaining and blaming me every day. In the face of these trivial things, I chose not to care, but then what she did made me feel unbearable.
My monthly pension is more than 5,800 yuan, and my life in our fourth-tier city is quite comfortable. We ate simple home-cooked meals that didn't cost much. However, since handing over my payroll card to Xiuli, she has been spending money faster than my pension can be received, which makes me feel a little unreasonable.
Later, I learned that she had to pay her son's mortgage with 3,000 yuan a month. I tried to persuade her, but not only did she not listen, but she took it for granted, and complained that I was reluctant to spend money for her, and that I did not have enough retirement pay.
The pension of 5,800 yuan a month is still too little, which really surprised me. In order to maintain a peaceful life, I could only accept her request with humiliation, silently thinking that I still had about 300,000 pension money in hand, as long as the pension was enough for the two of us to live, I chose not to worry too much about it, and accepted this life as a companion step by step.
I still take care of her wholeheartedly, making breakfast for her every morning and trying to share the housework. However, she became more and more fond of dressing up, trying on several outfits before going out, indulging in her phone at night, and always impatient with my advice. These unusual behaviors of hers made me feel very uneasy.
I chose to follow her while she was out. When I saw her snuggling up with a strange man, talking and laughing with each other, and even dancing, I realized that she had secretly met other men without my knowledge. More.
To my shock, a chill spread down my spine as I watched her ride away in the man's car.
In the evening, when Xiuli came home, I could no longer suppress my anger and began to question her: It is really intolerable that you went out to mingle with other men and had no scruples about my partner. I didn't expect Xiuli to respond shamelessly: You dare to follow me behind my back and invade my private life, it's too much.
She even mentioned the 300,000 yuan in my deposit, claiming that she already knew, and then mocked me about a few dollars in a contemptuous tone, saying that I kept nagging about withdrawing money, and in the final analysis, it revolved around money. Her rhetoric showed that she could not get the benefits she wanted from me, so she chose to go out and find a rich man and pursue her so-called rich life.
Now that the words have been made so clear, there is no need for further arguments. The only way out is to break up, and although I have lost a lot in the past six months, I would rather see it as an expensive lesson to pay for than continue to be with such a woman who does not know how to cherish life. She is annoying all day long, and instead of doing this, it is better to go their separate ways and end this unhappy marriage.
Xiuli packed her luggage and left, although the house was deserted, leaving me alone, but at least life was calm again. No more annoying things. Let's live my life like this in the future, for this experience of being a partner, it's sad to say it, but I can only blame myself for being infatuated at the beginning. Such a lesson once is enough.
Epilogue. Later life is full of trivial household chores and disputes, and the main conflicts often stem from money. Even if you don't hesitate to give everything, it is difficult to satisfy a person's greedy desires. Therefore, you must be cautious when choosing to live with a partner in your later years, financial loss is only one aspect, and the more important thing is the damage to the soul.