"The more calmly he dealt with it, the more panicked he became. ”
Wu Yongwei said calmly when she faced her husband's cheating.
Wu Yongwei, who was born in Sister Ya, once dripped the muddy water of the gangsters, and was a third party who everyone shouted and beaten, and was bombarded by **.
But she still lives her own life, she is a well-deserved "Hong Kong Backwards", frequently appearing on the stage of variety shows, racing cars, revealing the inside story, and having a large scale of words and deeds, subverting the audience's traditional impression of Sister Ya, known as the Hong Kong version of "Little S".
Everyone also affectionately calls her "Miss Wu", her life story is full of legends, even more bloody than TV series, people can't help but want to explore.
Her story starts from Hong Kong in that special era.
In 1969, Ng Wing-wai was born in Sai Wan, Hong Kong, in a poor family, her father worked as an accountant in a hardware factory, and her mother worked two jobs all year round, both of which were cleaning jobs at the lowest level.
The burden of a family of five falls on the father alone, they live a miserable life, and their social status is considered to be the middle and lower class of Hong Kong.
Wu Yongwei's childhood was not easy, she was brought up by her two older brothers since she was a child, and she mingled with the boys every day, and she became a pure "tomboy".
Although she has a good relationship with the boys and is very good-looking, she also suffers from the jealousy of the girls in her class.
Wu Yongwei is often surrounded and beaten by more than a dozen girls, but in the face of bullying from others, she does not flinch at all.
The furious Wu Yongwei finally couldn't bear it anymore, shaved off her hair on both sides, and became the focus of the campus for a while.
Then she directly joined the gangster, and after "blackening", she began to fool around on the rivers and lakes. She joined the gang to protect herself and find security.
In the days of the gangsters, she had a bit of a ruffian atmosphere on her. Smoke, drink, fight, brawl with a group of delinquent teenagers all day long, and go to the police station to fish for people when they commit crimes.
The name of "Miss Wu" also came from this time, and at the same time, the god of fate also slapped her to sober up and made her completely awake.
One early morning when she was 16 years old, Wu Yongwei's father died suddenly, leaving only her mother and three children at home.
The sudden blow made her feel deeply guilty, and she began to reflect on what she had done in the past, when her father had worked hard for the family in those years, and she was in a state of confusion and had nothing to do.
In order to change herself, Wu Yongwei decided to cheer up. However, she didn't have a diploma, and she was a sister when she was in school, so she missed many opportunities to learn.
Now she can only find some unskilled jobs to do, such as serving tea and water, and distributing leaflets, but she is far from satisfying her life, and she is always full and hungry.
During that time, she also tasted the warmth and coldness of the world, and she also understood the hardships and difficulties of life better.
With her own hard work and perseverance, she was successfully admitted to university, which was an important turning point in her life.
After graduating, she landed a decent job in marketing. In this magazine, she worked hard, and her life gradually got on the right track.
In 1989, a fashion magazine held an anniversary party, and Ng Yongwei was also invited to participate.
Fate made her meet the rich man Jiang Pei, and Wu Yongwei, who had a bold personality, took the initiative to invite Weng Jiangpei to dance, and the two looked at each other and were quite moved.
Weng Jiangpei, who is more than 30 years older than Wu Yongwei, is a senior partner of Ernst & Young in Hong Kong. Although he is more than half a hundred years old, he is still suave, and the money is too much to count.
Weng Jiangpei is still a prodigal son in love, has three marriages, but did not leave a child, and once had an affair with Teresa Teng.
On the first date, Weng Jiangpei chose an affordable ordinary car and wanted to test Wu Yongwei. But at that time, Miss Wu couldn't tell the difference between good and bad cars, and she was very happy sitting in the passenger seat.
This also made Weng Jiangpei feel that she had no scheming, and after the two got along, they were very tired of going to **, and Weng Jiangpei even took her to attend various high-end places.
In 1989, under the recommendation of Weng Jiangpei, Wu Yongwei participated in the Miss Asia competition, and won the fourth place in the fierce competition with Wan Qiwen, ** and others, and won the "Miss Most Photogenic Award".
Wu Yongwei, who stood out in the beauty pageant, should have squeezed her head and wanted to enter the entertainment industry, but she chose another path, that is, to enter an ordinary married life with Weng Jiangpei.
This rich man has extremely high requirements for his partner, and pushing Wu Yongwei to the "big dye vat" of the entertainment industry is somewhat a test for her.
But Wu Yongwei did not covet "reputation", even if the invitation was broken, she still firmly guarded Weng Jiangpei's side.
As Wu Yongwei became more and more famous, their relationship was also **. ** deliberately created the character of Wu Yongwei as a "gold-making girl" and "love vanity", but she disdained it and lived her own life.
After "many tests", in 1990, 21-year-old Wu Yongwei finally became Mrs. Weng.
At the Regent Hotel in Hong Kong, a huge nine-story wedding cake, she was wearing a dreamy gorgeous wedding dress with a smile on her face. Who knows, fate made her a widow.
13 days after marriage, 52-year-old Weng Jiangpei died of a heart attack during the honeymoon trip.
It all came too suddenly, and Wu Yongwei's nightmare began.
From the wealthy Mrs. Kuotai to the street rat that everyone shouts and beats, Ng Wing-wei's story has become the talk of the streets and alleys of Hong Kong after tea and dinner. She was labeled as "money worshipper" and "Kefu", and her former friends in the circle seemed to avoid her.
Her in-laws didn't want to give her a penny, she was tough with her in-laws and went to court. This lawsuit lasted for ten years, and Wu Yongwei only got 9 million, which was lonely and uncaring.
The huge gap made her very sad every day, insomnia all night, and even fell asleep with sleeping pills, and thought about suicide countless times.
In order to escape reality, she entered the night scene and got drunk every day. Under the ** of alcohol, she made a junior.
Although in the future, she realized her willfulness and personally found the man's original match and apologized in person, which is very similar to her style. But she may not think that her future husband will also make her feel "cheated" one day.
Under the introduction of her friend Li Zi, she met Lian Haitang, an elite in the advertising industry, and this man captured Wu Yongwei's heart.
They registered their marriage in Canada in 1999, and what is touching is that as long as Wu Yongwei has a play, she can basically see Lian Haitang visiting the class. But the good times didn't last long, and a piece of news tore the perfect skin of their marriage.
In 2010, the paparazzi photographed Lian Haitang having a private meeting with a certain girl, and there was ironclad evidence, which caused an uproar for a while.
Unexpectedly, Wu Yongwei stood up and explained for him: "My husband has dinner with friends. However, the matter is not over, in 2016, the reporter once again revealed that Lian Haitang and the 3D tender model stayed in the car for two hours.
Faced with her husband's betrayal, Wu Yongwei chose to forgive: "The more calmly you deal with it, the more panicked he will be." ”
The ups and downs of life, she has faced countless times alone, those bitterness and bitterness, like a sharpening knife, exercised her extraordinary courage.
That's why she was able to say such extraordinary words.
Perhaps shocked by Wu Yongwei's tenacity, Lian Haitang has converged a lot in recent years, and there is no lace news coming out.
Later, the reporter also photographed her at the airport and Wu Yongwei in the scene of farewell, Lian Haitang was not afraid of the cold to see her off in person, and kissed generously in front of the camera.
On the road of life, Miss Wu has always moved forward firmly, even if she has encountered many ups and downs.
She knows that only by experiencing the tempering of fate can she obtain this certainty in life, which is an invaluable wealth in her life.
Even if the road of life is bumpy, we must be like Miss Wu, move forward firmly and face challenges bravely.
Because only in this way can we truly appreciate the beauty of life and truly obtain that certainty in life.
The author of this article |Cars.
Editor-in-Charge |Drizzle.