In China's vast rural areas, the issue of male marriage has always been a sensitive and complex topic. For many rural men, getting married and starting a family is one of the most important milestones in their lives, but it is also fraught with pressure and challenges. In the barren land, Li Juan and Li Qiang, two siblings, have had the dream of walking out of the mountains since they were children. Li Juan was admitted to university through hard work, walked out of the countryside, and became a successful business manager. Li Qiang, on the other hand, stayed in his hometown, worked in a factory, and lived an ordinary life.
However, when Li Qiang reached marriageable age, he faced a lot of pressure. His parents hoped that he would start a family as soon as possible, and relatives and friends were often concerned about his marital status. In rural areas, men tend to be much more pressured to marry than women, because traditional ideas and societies often exert invisible pressure on their choices. In order to meet the expectations of his family and the pressure of society, Li Qiang began his own blind date. However, marriage is not simply a matter of two people, but a matter involving two families, or even two families. In the marital dilemma of rural men, love and choice often become complex and heavy.
After the matchmaker's introduction, Li Qiang met the young female teacher Xiaofang. Soon after the two dated, they received a marriage certificate and entered the palace of marriage. However, life after marriage was not as good as they expected. Xiaofang has been working in the next county and only returns to the wedding room in the county seat on weekends. Although the two received a marriage certificate, they have been sleeping in separate rooms. Xiaofang always finds all kinds of excuses, and is unwilling to be with Li Qiang**. In order to save this marriage, Li Qiang has been enduring it, expecting Xiaofang to change her mind.
Time passed, and Xiao Fang's attitude did not change. Li Qiang became more and more anxious and began to borrow money from his family to pay off the mortgage early. The family also sensed that something was wrong, and under questioning, Li Qiang finally told the truth. The parents were very angry when they heard the news, thinking that Xiaofang was cheating on the marriage and decided to divorce.
At this time, Li Juan, as an older sister, stood up. She knows her brother's hardships and helplessness, and she also understands that marriage is not simply a matter of two people, but a matter involving two families, or even two families. She began to reflect on why she didn't care more about her brother's marriage in the first place, and why she didn't give him more support and advice.
Faced with the family's predicament and her younger brother's hardships, Li Juan began to think about how to recover some losses. She had learned about the legal process and knew that litigation was a long and complex process, and that the law often protected women's rights and interests, and that it was difficult to define a marriage dispute like this as a fraudulent marriage. What's more, their parents are honest farmers, and they have no access and connections, so they are even more at a loss when they encounter this kind of thing.
She decides to communicate with Xiaofang first, trying to understand her true thoughts and feelings. Through in-depth communication, she found that Xiaofang was not deliberately cheating on marriage, but a helpless girl who was coerced by social pressure and family expectations. She once tried to love Li Qiang, but in the end she found that she still couldn't force herself.
Li Juan realized that in order to solve this problem, it is necessary not only to rely on legal and moral pressure, but also to resolve the conflict through communication and understanding. She began to persuade Xiaofang to understand her distress and predicament from her point of view. She told Xiaofang that marriage is a common cause of two people, which requires the joint efforts and management of both parties. If it is really impossible to continue, the issue of the return of the bride price can be resolved through peaceful negotiation, so as not to put each other in a deeper predicament.
Gradually, Xiaofang's attitude changed. She began to reflect on her actions and decisions, and also realized the harm she had done to Li Qiang and his family. She decided to communicate with Li Qiang and discuss the future path together. In the process, Li Juan also deeply reflected on her role and responsibilities. She realized that as an older sister, she should be more concerned about and support her brother's marital issues. She decided to communicate more with her brother in the future and give him more advice and support. At the same time, she also hopes that the society will pay more attention to the marriage problems of rural men and give them more care and support. Finding solutions through in-depth communication and understanding is a key step.
The story ends happily. Xiaofang and Li Qiang regained their trust and affection for each other. They decided to work together to manage their married life and make love more precious and beautiful in the baptism of time. And Li Juan has also grown a lot from this incident, she knows how to care for and support her family more, and she also has a deeper understanding of her important role and responsibility in the family.
Just,This story also provokes us to think about the marriage problem of rural men. Under the influence of traditional ideas and social **, the marriage pressure of rural men is often greater than that of women. We need to pay more attention to these issues and give them more care and support. Only in this way can we create a happy and fulfilling family life together.
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