14-year-olds are already in junior high school, they can already complete their homework quickly, and they should have reasonable control over their time. Therefore, if parents find that their 14-year-old child is procrastinating in doing homework, they must pay attention to it, which is likely to be a problem with the child's learning attitude. So, what should I do if my child can't learn to learn?What to do if a 14-year-old child procrastinates doing homework
1. Create a learning atmosphere and treat homework as an exam
When a 14-year-old child procrastinates on homework, parents can create a quiet, concise and suitable atmosphere for learning at home. Treat each homework as if it were an exam, and prepare the necessary stationery before the "exam", and your family can't come forward to disturb you. In the process of "exam", put the questions that will not be done back, do the homework that you are good at first, and when the time comes, the child will have to "hand in the paper", and ask the parents to correct it, and take the amount of homework completed as the scoring standard.
2. Supervise and encourage
Many parents will pay too much attention to their children when they are doing homework, and this attention will also make them feel very stressed, and the speed of writing homework will slow down a lot. Therefore, it is recommended that parents should not supervise their children and not put too much pressure on their children. In addition, if the 14-year-old child really has a lot of homework, it is best for parents not to force their children to not be distracted in the middle of the homework, on the contrary, do homework for a while, and parents can let the child play with his favorite toys for a while.
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3. Help children develop a good habit of making plans
Simply setting a time to do things can be difficult for children who already have procrastination. As a parent, when you want to guide your child to do things, you must learn to make a plan and develop the habit of doing things with a plan. When making a plan, it is necessary to classify different tasks in detail according to their priorities, so that they can be well understood when dealing with them on a daily basis.
This habit can be developed first from learning. For example, in daily learning, from morning to night to bed, it is necessary to have a daily plan, so that children can have a sense of urgency when learning. And this kind of planning can be extended to weekly planning, monthly planning or even semester planning, which is as detailed as possible, and for a stage, there must be time and corresponding events.
4. The reward and punishment system is clear
Homework should first make the child realize that this is a task that he should complete and belong to his responsibility as a student, rather than everything being done by the parents, so that the child mistakenly thinks that writing homework is also something that parents should "worry about". Once you've figured out how much work you're doing, set a time when you should finish it, and leave 5-10 minutes to spare. If it is completed on time, then the next time can be arranged freely.
If you finish it early, then you can enjoy a certain small reward, if you finish it overtime for several days in a row, then the desired wish cannot be realized, and you even need to compensate for it with actions such as doing housework.
What should I do if my child can't learn to learn?How to educate a 14-year-old child well
Accept and love children unconditionally. Many times children do not deliberately work against their parents, but due to family education or physiological reasons during the growth period, as well as the influence of the environment, so after parents understand these causes, the first thing to do is to accept and understand the child, don't blame the child, but also know that the rebellious period is just a short period of time in a person's growth, it will soon pass, so parents can accept and love their children unconditionally, help children pass this period as soon as possible, and your children will love you more and respect you more in the future。
For children who can't learn how to share, that's all for sharing, to avoid the misunderstanding of bipolar education. Parents should take a dialectical view of their children's adolescent rebellious period, which is a critical period for the formation of their children's worldview, and their personality and creativity are unbridled and unassuming. At the same time, due to the limitations of 14-year-old children's physical and mental development and education, many of their ideas are immature or even extreme, which requires external education to guide children correctly.