For many parents, the most fearful thing is to face the parent-teacher conference, because parents do not know how to communicate with teachers, especially their children's poor grades, some parents will feel that they can't hold their heads up in front of teachers or whatever. So, what should I do if my child does not do well in the test?How to communicate with the teacher if the child has poor grades
1. Pay attention to methods and timing strategies
Most parents are busy with work and do not have many opportunities to communicate with teachers face-to-face, and many people do not have much contact with teachers after parent-teacher conferences. In fact, if you don't have the opportunity to communicate with the teacher after the parent-teacher conference, you can make an appointment to come to school and communicate with the subject teachers.
In addition to face-to-face conversations, you can also communicate with teachers through ** text messages or network tools, especially after seeing the score text messages sent by the subject teachers, you can make an appointment with the teacher to communicate effectively without affecting the teacher's work.
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2. Communication is not small talk, but to grasp the key issues
If the child's grades are poor, then parents can say less polite words when communicating with the teacher, but the questions must not be asked less. The child's psychological changes, listening status, homework completion, and whether he can get along with classmates are all important issues, and parents should remember to ask the teacher questions. Only when they have a comprehensive understanding of their children's performance in school can parents know how to help their children and avoid detours in education.
3. To respect the teacher and communicate with the teacher, the most important thing is sincerity
Teachers are human beings, and they need to be respected, and they may be more sensitive than others in this regard. When children make mistakes, parents will accuse the teacher of not teaching strictly, saying that the teacher is not doing well. In fact, the responsibility of parents for children to make mistakes is also very great, parents should respect the teacher when facing this problem, after all, children are greatly influenced by their parents, do not criticize and accuse others unreasonably.
4. The conversation should be reasonable and well-organized
When chatting, you should have clear questions and goals, always prepare Chinese question prompts, and tell the teacher all your problems, worries and preferences, so that he can have a detailed understanding of the child's learning situation. At the same time, don't be overwhelmed, don't let the teacher feel that you can't communicate, and make your questions and worries as simple and organized as possible.
Child's test scores are not satisfactory?How to improve your child's poor grades
Parents adjust their mindset. If the child's academic performance is checked, it is necessary for parents to adjust their mentality first, not to be too demanding of the child, and not to add invisible pressure to the child. Work with your child to set a realistic goal that is appropriate to your child's actual abilities. Children's goals should be gradual, encourage every progress of the child, and constantly enhance the child's sense of achievement and self-confidence.
Although test scores are used as a measure of a child's academic performance, parents cannot use test scores as evidence of their children's academic performance. Scores are not the only criterion for evaluating children, expanding children's knowledge and teaching children how to learn are far more important than test scores, and more important for children's future growth.
For children's unsatisfactory test results, this is the end of the sharing to understand the progress of children's learning. The family should prepare a child's class schedule, according to the child's curriculum schedule and learning progress every day, parents should timely urge the child to complete the relevant homework;The second is to check the child's grasp of the basic concepts, rules and formulas they have learned, and strengthen their memoryThe third is to urge children to do a good job of preparing for the new curriculum content to be learnedFourth, it is convenient for children to organize and prepare the necessary learning items for the next day.