What do Chinese children lack the most?For me, looking back on my past 30 years, I feel like I'm missing companionship, lack guidance. I was taken to my parents from my rural hometown at the age of 8, and after graduating from high school, I went to college in other places, and after graduation, I went home to work for a year, and then went south to work, and I have been wandering outside for 12 years. And the 12 years before college between the ages of 8 and 19 were constantly going to school and going to school, studying Xi for exams, and they kept working. They are busy with theirs, and we are busy with ours. No one to help with homework, no one to take out to play, no one to guide life, no one to tell us what to do and what not to do, what to do and what consequences to bear. No one teaches us how to love ourselves because we don't seem to feel their love. They just gave us food to read. My sisters, when they got married, their parents wouldn't even give a dowry. We lack love, lack of money, lack of life experience, we step into the society only to find that we lack everything, we don't understand anything, we have to rely on ourselves for everything, fall down and get up again, take a detour and start over. Now, after experiencing the beating of society, we find that we lack everything, and the most lacking thing is a sense of security.
The following netizens' opinions make me feel more empathetic.
Netizen 1:
That's how I live a mediocre life, and in the end I'm going to be scolded for being a piece of waste, making the most of your function as a punching bag.
Netizen 2:
Sir: We were so miserable at that time that we couldn't get enough to eat.
Netizen 3:
To put it bluntly, traditional culture is to reduce its own value and dedicate everything to the "order" represented by the feudal dynasty.
For children, it is the "** Regulation".
It is "women's virtue" for women
For scholars, it is the "Three Principles and Five Constants".
To the emperor is "sweat green".
Everyone has no value, what is valuable is this set of order. Therefore, under the order, everyone must put aside their own desires, live for the whole order, and even die.
Netizen 4:
What kind of life you want to live determines what kind of education you need.
Netizen 5:
I feel that what you are talking about is me, in fact, what you lack is also lacking in your parents. My parents were the same. Childhood without the guidance of parents makes some people die without understanding the rules of this society, the lack of material can be made up for by hard work when we grow up, and the lack of spirit and spiritual trauma can not be made up for a lifetime.
What do you think Chinese children lack the most?Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
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