"I just want to give birth, I just want to do test tubes".
In a hospital in Hefei, an elderly man who is over half a hundred years old argues to the doctor that he wants to do IVF, which is not for her daughter-in-law, but for herself.
The 60-year-old man just lost his favorite child last yearAfter the pain of losing a child, he decided to have another child.
And I'm over 60 years old this year, don't my husband and doctor stop me?In fact, those who cared about her were not unstoppable, but in the face of others' obstructions, Sheng Hailin even knelt down and begged them to let her do IVF.
You must know that this Sheng Hailin, who is in her 60s, is not an ordinary person.
Flower of the Army
In 1949, in the compound of the Anhui Provincial Military Department, a loud cry came out in a room, and a little girl who was loved by all the people was bornSheng Hailin has enjoyed the status of this star holding the moon since she was born.
And the women in the army, like other men, have been strictly taught by their parents since they were children, so to speak, they have been arranged by their parents all their lives, which is not a bad thing, and Sheng Hailin did not resist this kind of thing, he felt that it was right to listen to his officer's father.
It turned out that her decision was correct, and soon after entering the army, she fell in love with her hair, and such a relationship was a good match, and on the day of the wedding, she was blessed by the whole military compound.
The married life is also very happy, but because of work, the two did not have a child immediately, and the two thought that raising a child after both of them retired could give the child a better education.
Later, Sheng Hailin retired early, and when the army was assigned work, Sheng Hailin, who had nursing experience, was assigned to the hospital, while her husband Wu Jingzhou needed to stay in the army for five years.
When Wu Jingzhou returned from retirement, the two of them were nearly 30 years old, and at this time they also welcomed their first child, Tingting, as they wished.
Just like her parents taught her, Sheng Hailin is also very strict with her daughter's education, every day after the child completes her daily Xi, she will let her daughter learn Xi hours more than ordinary people, and will take her child to practice Xi dance on weekends.
Under Sheng Hailin's careful teaching, her daughter was finally trained to be even better than herself, with outstanding grades and etiquette.
Later, the child was admitted to one of the most famous medical universities in the province as his parents wished, and was ready to work at his mother's place of work after graduation.
During this period, her daughter Tingting also brought back a boyfriend in the army, mature, stable and honest, until this point, it can be said that Sheng Hailin's life is very happy, her career is successful, her family is happy, her daughter is well-behaved and cute, and her husband is also very responsible.
But happiness comes to an abrupt endNo matter how prominent your reputation is, everyone is equal in the face of death, even if you are proficient in medicine.
Withered
In the year when her daughter just graduated, Sheng Hailin and her husband spent money to buy a new house for Tingting, although they usually can't see it, and they can only see it during the Chinese New Year, but after all, it is convenient for the children to go to work.
This year's Spring Festival was just like usual, Sheng Hailin watched her daughter and son-in-law leave in front of her, but she didn't expect that when she saw her daughter again in the future, she would already be a cold corpse.
Daughter Tingting after a busy day, returned to the house that her parents bought for herself, because the Spring Festival was really tired, so the two of them quickly fell asleep, but they didn't notice that the house was full of deadly poisonous gas because the gas was not strictly controlled.
In this way, her daughter Tingting lost her life on the first day of the New Year in 2008, and like many people who died on this day, she was silent.
It wasn't until the day after their death that neighbors and relatives realized something was wrong, and by the time rescuers opened the door, the two had been dead for a long time and could not return.
The most painful time in life is tantamount to losing a child in old age, and this incident happened to the 59-year-old Sheng Hailin, who knew about it, even fainted for a while, people generally look like this after accepting extremely unacceptable things, Sheng Hailin is no exception.
When Sheng Hailin woke up, she had to face a broken home, a home with no successor, except for her husbandThe rest of his life was lonely.
This is not the most uncomfortable, the most uncomfortable thing is that when the living see the things left by the dead, or **, think of those who have passed away again and again, which is tantamount to a kind of torture for the living.
We can even imagine that in countless sleepless nights, Sheng Hailin recalled Tingting's story like an ordinary mother, crying while thinking about it.
That's her own child, what mother wouldn't have a knife in her heart after losing her own child?
The pain of losing a child made Sheng Hailin want another child, as if if she wanted another child, and her Tingting would be able to come back.
But the age of almost 60 years old is completely unsuitable for childbearing, not to mention whether there is menopause, or physical condition, it may not be able to get off the operating table, which is impossible for Sheng Hailin, who is a medical worker, not to know.
But Sheng Hailin still desperately wanted a child of her own, since she couldn't give birth, she would do IVF, her husband didn't agree, so she knelt down and begged him, the doctor didn't want to, so she would pay more money, and not let the doctor be responsible.
In short, what I have is money, I am not short of money, even if the child is born, I can afford to raise it by myself.
Two flowers bloom
In the end, the husband was moved by Sheng Hailin's desire to have a child, maybe he also wanted a child, and the pain of losing a child in his later years also tortured the father who was over half a hundred years old.
didn't let Sheng Hailin do IVF, because he didn't want to lose his wife when he lost his daughter, and then he would really be alone in this world.
Unable to stand his wife's insistence, Wu Jingzhou accompanied his wife to fly around the country, hoping to find a hospital willing to do IVF for them, but after all, this is too risky, and no hospital dares to take it.
After flying for about half a year, Sheng Hailin returned to Anhui with her husband, and went around to the 105 Hospital in Hefei, under the prayers of his wife and husband, and under the assurance of acquaintancesThe hospital was willing to do this surgery for him, but also said that the hospital would not be responsible if something happened.
Because this matter is really very dangerous, even ordinary pregnant women give birth before the ghost gate, let alone older mothers, this is simply drag racing before the ghost gate.
Sheng Hailin, who knew the news, was very grateful and relieved, as if she had completed her mission, and began to actively prepare for IVF surgery.
Sheng Hailin, who is 60 years old, began to exercise every day to recover to a physical state that could have children, and at the same time, in order to get suitable eggs, she needed one or two ovulation injections every day.
Anyone who has had an ovulation injection knows that although the needle is very thin, the burden on the body is very great after the injection, and an injection every day is like a woman coming to her aunt every day.
After a month of preparation, IVF was finally ready for IVF, and all the surgeries were completed in just half a day, and the rest only had to wait.
After a long wait, Sheng Hailin, who is in her 60s, and her husband finally welcomed another child of their own, and what is surprising is that this is still a pair of twins.
We have no way of knowing what Wu Jingzhou was feeling when he heard the news of the safety of his mother and son outside the delivery room, but I believe that every father who is worried about his children and his wife and children will be moved to tears of pain, after all, he was facing the torment of losing his wife at that time.
In order to make the children safe, smart and cute, the husband and wife named these two cute little girls Zhizhi and Huihui, and the two children grew up slowly under the careful care of their parents just like their names.
But blessings are incomparable, disasters do not go alone, how can the good things in the world not have some tribulations?
A sprig of flowers
After picking up the two children, Sheng Hailin's family became lively again, the children grew up slowly, and her husband also took on the responsibility of sending the children to school again, and he began to work harder.
Since Sheng Hailin has her own hospital, the family's life is still as rich as before, so there is no need to worry about the old couple not being able to raise their children or anything.
But another day, on the way to send Wu Jingzhou to the child, he suddenly fell to the ground, and another disaster befell the family, after all, Wu Jingzhou is already old, and he has to be busy with so many things at home and outside the house every day, and his body can't bear it at all.
But as soon as Wu Jingzhou left, the heavy responsibility of taking care of the child fell on Sheng Hailin's head, which disrupted Sheng Hailin's life, and Sheng Hailin had no choice but to quit her job and take care of the child full-time.
Time is no more, the years go by, year after year makes Sheng Hailin, the flower of the army, become an old mother, but no matter what kind of difficulties she encounters, Sheng Hailin has never admitted defeat to life, whether it is her daughter or her husband dies, she has never compromised with life, just like plum blossoms have not compromised with cruel life.
Every time I took care of the children before becoming a husband, I couldn't help but think of my husbandalso loves her two children even more, because for her, this is not only the only thought left by her dead Tingting and her husband, but also the motivation for her to live.
Life still goes on as before, Sheng Hailin still sends her children to school and dance classes as usual, just like when she took care of Tingting, but this time she has no husband, and she only does the work of two people.
When the reporter asked her what she would do in the future, Sheng Hailin still said that she didn't worry about her future livelihood**, her husband and herself had saved millions to raise the child after the child was born, even if she didn't go out to work, it didn't matter.
But the only worry is whether their children have the ability to live independently after a hundred years, after all, they feel that they don't have much time, and after they leave, will their relatives bully their children, and whether their children will be discriminated against.
Indeed, a child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother is like a grass, the same is true for the mother, maybe there were no children at the time, maybe Sheng Hailin would not want to live like this after her husband died, for this mother, it was the child who gave her the motivation to live.
This may be the fetters of family affection, or maybe at that time, many people blamed the mother for being so old, why did she have a child at that time, but what is there to blame for giving birth to a child?
It was the child who left Sheng Hailin in this world, and I hope that this great mother can continue to live for her child and continue to feel the beauty of life.