Today's encounter reminds me of what people often say: "When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives." ”
The water is too clear for the fish to survive. If people are too clear, they can't live in harmony with each other.
The greatest evil of human nature is to be "strict with others and lenient with oneself." "No one is perfect, and everyone is not satisfied. Not to mention the RMB, which everyone likes. Everyone has a variety of problems to a greater or lesser extent. A generous person will have a kind heart, and a generous mind can tolerate all imperfections.
However, people who are narrow-minded and ** only have their own eyes and can't accommodate others. This kind of person will only think about his own interests, typical selfish people. Very few people can really get into the heart of such a person, and few people are worthy of such a person to put themselves in the other person's point of view. As the ancients said: "The villain is said to be profitable, and the gentleman is to be righteous." "Even a perfect person will have flaws in his eyes, and he will always find fault with others to elevate himself.
Therefore, in real life, especially in the current situation of lack of resources and overcrowding, the evil side of human nature will become more and more obvious. If you encounter such a person, you must not doubt your ability, and do not have any emotions to be swayed by him, otherwise you will be the one who will be deceived and hurt. This kind of person will do everything to repel you, to hit your self-confidence, and to torture you to retreat.
Don't be polite when you meet this kind of person, the more friendly and patient you are to this person, the more this kind of person will have to be inchedThe more you care, the more this kind of person has a sense of superiority and will find a sense of accomplishment from you;From time to time, they will come to you to find stubble, disturb your thinking, make you lose your soul, always be worried, don't think about tea and dinner, and have trouble sleeping. Over time, you will have increased internal friction, weakened immunity, and physical and mental trauma.
Life in the world, to be forgiving and forgiving, the highest state of human nature is to be able to "be strict with others, lenient with others;."Do unto others as you would have them do to you. "The greatest good of human nature is to be able to "tolerate others, not to embarrass others, to be able to compare hearts with hearts, and to be compassionate." "The reason why heaven and earth can give birth to all things is because of their generosity.
The best way for people to get along with each other is to make each other comfortable. "While being kind to others, we are also being kind to ourselves, everything has cause and effect, and the way of heaven is free to reincarnate. good is rewarded with good , and evil is rewarded with evil . people can be kind to sentient beings and form good karma with others , and only then can they get good rewards and good popularity . Only when others are good at and willing to approach you, and only by interacting and working with you can they nourish each other, just as people often say: "Be kind to others, and the world will be wide." ”
In real life, the reason why people are too tired is that they are too demanding of others, the pattern is too small, and they always pressure others on things that they can't do. Short-sightedness spends all his time on trivial things, and spends his heart on calculating and suppressing others, rather than using others' strengths to improve himself and tap his potential.
In the long run, people will only become more and more involved and selfish, and society will lose harmony and kindness.
Therefore, people should not be too harsh on each other, and the soul should not be too **. It's rare to be "confused" in life, everything must have a degree, don't be too clear, it is convenient for others to be convenient for yourself, and letting go of others is also to love yourself. Because people die of anger and do not die of disease, the root of any disease comes from the torture of negative emotions and negative energy.
I don't believe that your heart is at peace when you are vexatious to others;Your heart is happy when you play with the faults of others;When you deliberately embarrass others, your conscience is at peace and you are not afraid of God's punishment. When you make fun of others by abusing them, don't worry that you'll have that day. When you hurt others to find a sense of superiority, you don't have an instant conscience to find it, your heart doesn't beat, isn't it false, wake up, like you are, don't forget that there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the world. No one is good for a hundred days, and no flower is red for a thousand days.
At the beginning of people, nature is good, I believe that everyone originally has a kind heart, do not be affected by the environment, and the first heart of money is lost.
Therefore, in the ordinary world, let us ordinary people be more friendly, more kind, and more generous. Then can our world be harmonious, we can live happily, and we can all be happy......