My dad is the eldest son in the family and has two younger sisters
Due to the poverty of the family, my father had a short period of education, dropped out of school and returned home to follow my grandfather in farming.
My aunt is a very serious person, and after graduating from high school, she was self-taught and worked as an accountant in a township health center.
My eldest brother-in-law is a highly skilled carpenter, who is highly praised and has a good reputation in the local area.
My second aunt was good at words and married into a foreign family with good economic conditions.
My grandmother often said that my second aunt opened the door to a well-off life with her eloquence.
My aunt's township is not far from our home, and it takes less than half an hour to reach it by electric car.
When I was a child, my family lived very close to my aunt's family, and my aunt often brought her cousins to live at our grandparents' house, and the relationship between our cousins was very close.
Until one day, when my family was building a house, when the cart pulling steel bars was going uphill, due to the excessive weight at the rear, the car overturned, and my dad happened to push the cart in the back, completely unaware of this.
At this time, my sister-in-law pushed my dad in a hurry, but my dad fell to the side, and my sister-in-law was stabbed into his thigh by a bundle of steel bars because he couldn't dodge in time, and he screamed in pain at that time.
When he was taken to the hospital, his sister-in-law already had some leg discomfort, and this accident completely paralyzed him.
Because of this incident, my aunt's feelings for our family are no longer as pure as before.
My aunt-in-law was paralyzed, and the pressure of life was suddenly transferred to my aunt
Luckily, my aunt is an accountant and her life is not so difficult.
Because of this incident, my father felt very guilty, and often went to my aunt's house, in addition to giving money, he also bought rice, noodles, and oil for their family, each time it was a double portion, one for his own use, and the other for his aunt's house.
When my grandparents were alive, whenever they mentioned this incident, they would tell my parents: "In this life, we owe your aunt's family to let a woman have to take care of the children and earn money to support the family, and my brother-in-law will suffer while lying in bed."
In the future, when we are gone, you will also support your aunt well and return this kindness to her.
If it weren't for your aunt's husband lying in bed, it would be your dad lying in bed.
Repay them for this kindness. ”
Every time I heard this, my parents would nod their heads firmly.
Every year during the holidays, my dad would send me to my aunt's house, sometimes to go out for a walk with my eldest brother-in-law, and sometimes to help with laundry, clean the room, and take care of my cousins at home.
I would do what I could, but I gradually found that even if I did well, my aunt stopped smiling at me, and my cousins often complained about me.
Later, I became more and more reluctant to go to her house, but my dad never stopped going to my aunt's house.
Time flies, it's been more than 30 years, my dad is over 70 years old, he has always been a farmer, his income is not high, and in order to help my aunt's family for so many years, the family doesn't even have a penny.
In order to increase the family's labor force, a few years ago, my sister married a door-to-door son-in-law, and with my help, the family's conditions were barely maintained.
My aunt often calls my dad as soon as she needs anything at home and asks him to send it
In the past, my dad could just send it, but now he is in his 70s, and he has to ride an electric car every time, regardless of wind or shine.
My sister and I couldn't help but complain about this.
Especially last time, my aunt said that she wanted to eat our family's sand fruit and asked my father to pick it for her.
It had just rained lightly that day, and the road was wet and slippery, so my dad accidentally fell and broke his foot.
Although I barely got to my aunt's house, my aunt and daughter-in-law were stewing pork ribs, and they didn't leave my dad to eat at her house, and they didn't let my cousin send my dad back.
When I came back, my dad's feet were very swollen.
Afterwards, my aunt didn't ask **, and she didn't come to my house to have a look.
Because of this incident, I insisted that my dad not always run to my aunt's house in the future.
Over the years, it has long been paid off.
My dad promised to do well, but a few days later he called me again and told me that my cousin's daughter-in-law was about to be confined, and my aunt asked me to go to the next village to buy ten old hens.
He said that my aunt would give me money when I went.
Seeing that my dad had already agreed, I had no choice but to run errands.
310 old hens cost more than 700 yuan
After buying it, I hurriedly gave it to my aunt.
However, when I was about to leave, my aunt didn't mean to give me money.
When I got home, when I was about to tell my father, my father took a step ahead of me and said, "Your aunt has transferred the money to me, and I will ask her to give it to you when your mother comes back." ”
I asked my dad how much money he transferred, but he refused to say.
Later, when he wasn't paying attention, I secretly looked at his mobile phone, and saw that my aunt only transferred 100 yuan to him, and said, "This is the old hen's money." ”
When I heard this, I was immediately furious, what is the matter with this aunt?Any fool knows that 10 old hens are worth more than $100!She's clearly cheating on my dad!The more I think about it, the more angry I become, we used to subsidize her, but now we want to subsidize my cousinSo, I came to the yard with my mobile phone and called my aunt ** and said: "Auntie, you may be mistaken, I spent more than 700 yuan to buy 10 old hens, if you don't believe it, I can send you a screenshot." ”
Unexpectedly, my aunt didn't give me any face, and said angrily: "Isn't it just 10 chickens?"It's been good for you.
If it weren't for your dad, would your uncle have been paralyzed in bed for so many years?This paralysis is more than 30 years, not to mention 10 old hens, even give me 10 old hens every day, and you can't pay it off in your life......Hearing my aunt say this, I also said angrily: "Auntie, what happened to him at the beginning was just an accident, and no one wants it to happen."
If it weren't for Daddy's guilt, would he have been able to subsidize you for so many years?Your family has now built a new house, and life is good.
Why do you want to toss my dad?He is in his 70s, and in order to repay my uncle's kindness, he has been farming all these years.
If you don't feel distressed, forget it, why do you have to make an inch?You retire with a pension, but is it easy for my dad to make money?Do you want to be paralyzed for you to be happy?"* On the other hand, my aunt was frightened by my momentum and didn't answer for a long time.
When my father heard the voice, he also came, and I said to him, "Dad, let me tell you, from now on, if you go to my aunt's house again, I will not have such a father."
You've been bullied to this point, can you have a snack!After I finished speaking, I cried and left, and from that day on, in my heart, there was no longer such a person.
It is human nature to repay gratitude, but if there is no bottom line and no gratitude, it becomes a request.
This unbalanced relationship is not far from over.