When I was a child, I may have dreamed of entering Tsinghua University and Peking University, but as I grew up, I gradually realized the hardships of my studies, and my dream became more pragmatic: "As long as you are admitted to 985, you will be considered an achievement, right?"”
After actually stepping into high school, I found that even if I was admitted to 985, only a very small number of top students could achieve this achievement, so that most students could only silently fantasize: "If I can get into 985, I will definitely not waste my time in college like I am now." ”
Contrary to the expectations of most students, there is a girl who voluntarily chose to drop out of school less than a week after entering 985
A southern girl was successfully admitted to Northeast 985, but dropped out of school because of the big bathhouse. Unlike when we go to college, which is often in adolescence, she may have grown tired of the feeling of being constantly watched by her parents, so when applying for college, she is more inclined to choose a distant place, the farther away from home, the better.
As a result, many children from Northeast China chose to drift down to Jiangsu and Zhejiang, while children from Guangdong flocked to Beijing. However, due to the large geographical differences, this leap has not been smooth. After all, the climates of the north and the south are very different, and there are considerable differences in habits and customs.
Take a southern girl who trekked hard to the north, but on the first day she encountered a problem that could not be easily solved - food. She comes from a city that prefers spicy flavors, while the northern cuisine is dominated by heavy oil and salt, and the spicy flavor is relatively light.
Although the cafeteria has set up a number of special windows to cater to the tastes of students in different regions, girls can also find palatable food. However, when it comes to bathing, universities in the Northeast seem to be less intimate with their southern classmates. The big bathhouse in the north is well known, everyone washes together, can see each other, and no one dislikes anyone. For the southern students who are accustomed to fig leaf cubicles, it is difficult to adapt to this kind of big bathhouse without privacy for a while, because they have not yet been able to cross the psychological boundary of shame.
Especially for girls, shame is more sensitive, so this girl was hesitant when she first arrived in the north, and did not dare to go to the big bathhouse easily. However, unlike the frequency of bathing two or three times a week in the north, southern classmates, especially those from the southern polar regions, usually take a bath every day, which makes the girls feel quite uncomfortable.
Having difficulty adapting to the new environment, the girl made the decision to drop out of school after a week, leaving many of her classmates feeling sorry for her. After all, it is not easy to get into 985, but it seems a little unworth it to choose to give up because of the problem of taking a bath.
It is worth noting that the northern students do not seem to have a big problem with the habit of bathing in large baths, and they are even quite enthusiastic about this type of bathing. This also shows that there is not much of a problem with this bathing habit itself. Therefore, although it may be difficult for southern students to adapt for a while, in fact, adaptation is habitual.
Just like two classmates from the south I met when I was in college, I didn't feel safe about taking a bath at first, and I needed someone to accompany me before I dared to go to the big bathhouse. However, by the sophomore year, they were able to cope with it easily, and by the third year, they were completely adapted and let themselves go. Therefore, "following the local customs" is not as difficult as imagined.
When choosing to be out of town at university and looking for a job, students need to pay special attention to a few things. The plight of the girls is regrettable, but it is also a reminder to other students that they must carefully consider their adaptability when choosing to attend a university far from home. Some changes, if they come too drastically all at once, can be overwhelming for the mind and body.
In addition, in the case of my college roommate, who grew up in Tohoku, had to attend college in Tohoku due to the decision of his parents. Her yearning for the outside world, especially the south, gradually increased.
So, she resolutely found a job in Guangdong, but unfortunately, the plane landed during the rainy season, and she faced a humid climate as soon as she got off the plane. From the dry climate of the Northeast to the humid environment of the South, this massive climate change is really difficult to adapt to.
Therefore, although it is understandable for students who want to make a big difference to themselves, whether they are applying for a university or looking for a job in a different place, they must fully consider the difference between the local climate and their own location. On your first long trip, it's best to choose a place that doesn't span too much to reduce the stress of adaptation.
For students who are away from home for the first time, they can choose a relatively developed city near their home. Even if students have a yearning for Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, they need to consider the distance between these cities and their homes. For example, students from the Northeast should give preference to Beijing, while students from Sichuan should consider Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai.
However, it is worth noting that if you choose a university, it is best to minimize geographical restrictions, because the choice of university is the most important, and other aspects can be gradually adapted. However, if you are going to a field for work, it is recommended that students take a step-by-step approach.
After all, there are so many options for cities that there's no need to be too obsessed with the distance. Quality job opportunities exist everywhere, and even in the big cities that students aspire to, the competitive pressure is quite high. In contrast, choosing some emerging first-tier cities, such as Tianjin and Chengdu, may be more conducive to maintaining competitiveness in career development.
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