1.You don't owe anyone.
You don't owe anything to anyone, so don't look ahead and make promises when you talk and do. Keep your head up, look the other person in the eye, and have an honest conversation. If someone shouts "hey" to you or belittles you, don't hear you. Over time, you will become more and more emboldened. You have to make yourself happy first, everything else is secondary.
2.Be tough.
Whether it's in the workplace, life, or the blind date market, as long as you show nervousness or timidity, you will be suppressed. You must resolutely say no to things that are not good for you, people and things you don't like.
3.Your help is valuable.
Honest people usually don't refuse other people's requests, and even if they make excuses, they always behave weakly. Eventually, they get themselves into trouble, and others won't remember them well. If you are always willing to help others, then you are a cheap person. For things that are not good for you, you must decisively refuse. You are not wrong, everyone has the right to refuse someone else's request. Don't let others take it for granted that they don't have to pay for your help. It is not terrible to offend people, but it is the saddest thing to wronged yourself.
4.Be a strong person, not a good person.
As long as you are valuable, whether it is emotional intelligence, IQ or financial resources, no one will ignore you. The so-called success and defeat are the truth. Striving to improve yourself is the most important thing. Without financial strength, what do you use to maintain family, friendship and love?
5.Meet your needs.
A lot of people are called honest people because they like to cater to others and do whatever they say. But you need to get rid of the humble thoughts in your bones. When you have this kind of thought, you should start by asking yourself: What are the practical benefits of doing this?If there is, do it;If not, decisively refuse. It's better to let others say that you have a bad temper than to be called a particularly obedient person.