Life is a lover Qiong Yao , a woman who lives in the world of love

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-01-30

As the "godmother of love", Qiong Yao's emotional outlook has influenced several generations, and her works are beautiful and poetic. In her love film and television, she also achieved more than 50 "Joan girls" such as Lin Qingxia and Lin Xinru.

Qiong Yao's love** and film and television dramas have accompanied the growth of several generations, and she herself is also a legendary figure who lives in the dream of love and "tries love" in life, but few people know that Qiong Yao's love story has its own shadow everywhere.

Although, Qiong Yao has created a beautiful and extreme love world in the past 50 years, countless boys and girls are fascinated by her love story, so she has become a "pure love spokesperson" and "love godmother". In fact, she personally lives too "Qiong Yao", and her emotional experience is even more Qiong Yao than the ** she wrote.

Qiong Yao, formerly known as Chen Zhe, was born in Chengdu, Sichuan in 1938, born in a famous family, her mother is a famous girl, her father Chen Zhiping is a senior intellectual, once served as a professor in the Chinese Department of Normal University, grandfather Yuan Lizhen, brother Yuan Lizhun once served as the imperial teacher of the Qing Dynasty Xuantong Emperor, it is because of such a literary family atmosphere that he grew up, his ears are smoky, he is fascinated by the poetry and elegant beauty of literature, he has been accompanied by books since he was a child, and published his first ** "Poor Little Qing" at the age of 9 , is simply a literary genius, at the age of 14, he published the article "Fantasy" under the pen name of Lu Gui, and then changed his name to Qiong Yao.

Although, Qiong Yao's childhood can be described by two words dream, but what is not known is that her childhood was not happy, 11-year-old she moved to Taiwan with her family from the mainland, when she first arrived in a strange place, Qiong Yao's academic performance at that time was not very ideal, so that the parents who were also teachers felt shameless, the most bullish mathematics test actually scored 20 points, which simply made her mother crazy and blamed Qiong Yao fiercely, which greatly hurt Qiong Yao's self-esteem in the rebellious period, she wrote a letter to her mother*** I swallowed a whole bottle of sleeping pills, but fortunately the rescue was timely, otherwise, we wouldn't have had the opportunity to see so many affectionate stories written by her.

Qiong Yao, who has been out of hell for a while, was still told by her parents that taking the entrance examination is her way out in the future, and she was born in a scholarly family, and she can't go to college, and she will be laughed off by others. Because of her childhood experience, Qiong Yao formed an introverted and depressed personality in her bones, which also had a great impact on her future life.

Because of her childhood experience, she matured earlier than children of the same age, but also from the genes in her bones, her mother came from a famous family, usually relatives at home are either bankers or writers, some **, when she was in middle school, she met Qiong Yao's father, when Chen Zhiping was a middle school Chinese teacher, the two quickly fell in love, and finally achieved positive results.

At an age when she didn't know how to love, she was affected by this, inherited her mother's excellent genes, and also fell in love with her elegant teacher in high school, this relationship was naturally suppressed by the family, and the teacher-student love with an age difference of 25 years, Qiong Yao, like the heroine in her book, carried out a vigorous struggle, and even committed suicide by taking drugs. This love led to the failure of the college entrance examination, and the mother who noticed the clues, although she was also a teacher-student love when she was young, she was not so calm when she put it on her daughter, and she also ran to the school to angrily accuse the teacher of being a teacher, which caused a lot of trouble.

This first love eventually ended in a breakup. She wrote this experience as her own ** "Outside the Window", which had a strong repercussion in the society once it was launched. At the same time, there was a lot of criticism.

This teacher-student love only lasted for a year, but it affected Qiong Yao's entire life trajectory. In the context of the conservative society at that time, it caused an uproar and was slandered by the world. In the end, the teacher was dismissed by the school and sent to work in the countryside, it is said that the teacher never married, and taught in the countryside for the rest of his life, Qiong Yao had contacted him, but neither of them had the courage to meet again.

After failing the college entrance examination, the untimely death of her first love, the suicide attempt, and the persecution of her mother, Qiong Yao, who graduated from high school, was once discouraged and committed suicide to seek relief.

Staying in his own cabin every day, with boundless pressure, he feels that he is the waste of the family, and the other brothers and sisters are better than himself, anxious to escape, want to hide, and only want to jump out of this house.

After this turmoil, in 1957, Qiong Yao met her first husband - Qingyun, a top student of Taiwan University, her family was poor, Qiong Yao was 21 years old at the time, her husband was 26 years old, they were all literati, they loved literature, and they were all literati, they loved literature, and they knew each other for seven months, and they quickly married them despite the opposition of their families, but life was not as good as imagined, and life always joked with them inadvertently.

After getting married, the two people usually make a living by writing, and have a son, whose husband can be described as a typical "sour and rotten literati", watching Qiong Yao's works being popular, he is useless, and the imbalance in his heart is increasing day by day, he is not only addicted to alcohol and gambling all day long, but also accuses Qiong Yao's works of being naïve and boring.

This pair of literary and artistic young people who don't eat fireworks in the world are still dizzy by the impact of firewood, rice, oil and salt in reality, and the two are dissatisfied with each other, which has also become a foreshadowing of the separation of the two people.

Qiong Yao's life fell into a trough again, it is not difficult to see her pessimistic mood from her ** works in that period, "On the Water Side", "Smoke and Rain", "Clover Grass", "The Whip of Life" and other works, most of them are either lovers who are tired by life, or the heroine encounters gamblers.

Qiong Yao, who is full of feelings, writes very hard every day, is not understood when she returns home, she is depressed, and she urgently needs an emotional outlet, and at this time, the love of her life, Ping Xintao, appeared just right.

In 1963, Qiong Yao's "Outside the Window" became a bestseller, but I didn't expect Qingyun to publish rumors in the newspaper and expose the scars of Qiong Yao's teacher-student love, which made Qiong Yao completely disappointed, and in the spring of 1964, he officially divorced him, and the five-year marriage finally fell apart.

Talking about this relationship, Qiong Yao said frankly: "It was a mistake from the beginning", the two people do not have a deep love foundation, and the time they have known each other is very short, and more importantly - we should not both write obsessively".

At this time, Qiong Yao's first love suffered a heavy blow, and her hopeful marriage ended miserably, she was like a lonely grass, helpless but let the wind and rain blow.

Because of the hot sale of "Outside the Window", one day in January 1964, I suddenly received a letter from Taipei from Taipei from Ping Xintao, editor-in-chief of "Crown" magazine, inviting her to Taipei to participate in a TV talk show. ”

After the interview that day, the brave Qiong Yao asked Ping Xintao to send her home, and Ping Xintao, who was born with strong insight, read her heart from "Outside the Window", and he was as empathetic as the male protagonist in **.

Ping Xintao stood at the mouth of the alley affectionately for 20 minutes, watching Qiong Yao enter the door, and the smart Qiong Yao was aware of it.

The two people who are full of surprise are getting closer and closer in appreciation, gratitude, admiration and dependence on each other, and finally develop into secret feelings.

During the cooperation with Heping Xintao's "Crown Publishing House", Qiong Yao published four books in one go, although she had already divorced her husband "Qingyun" for many years, but the only thing that made Qiong Yao entangled and contradictory was that Ping Xintao had a wife and daughter, although the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, and began a "little three" career of more than ten years in an unstoppable mood.

Many people believe that it is this experience that makes Qiong Yao's ** full of sympathy and tolerance for third parties, such as "Deep Courtyard", "Blue Cloud Sky", "Waves", and the extramarital affair in the TV series "New Moon Gege" that we are familiar with.

In this way, the relationship between lovers was maintained, and they fell in love for 16 years, until Ping Xintao's child was 18 years old, and in 1979, Ping Xintao divorced his wife and held a wedding with Qiong Yao.

After getting married, every time Qiong Yao's birthday, Ping Xintao would send a room of roses, romantic like a young man, taking meticulous care of Qiong Yao.

Qiong Yao's last relationship was in a state of "making the king have a wife, and Luo Fu has a husband".

In real life, the two of them finally achieved positive results, and after 34 years of hand in hand, Qiong Yao finally got the love and happiness she longed for.

Why do many people love Qiong Yao, because the love peach blossom paradise she constructed brings too much spiritual comfort to lonely modern people, just like why we love fairy tales, because its ** role is never affected by logic and reality like live-action movies, and love can only be immortalized in these two.

Global Ju, associate professor of the Department of Chinese at Jinan University, said that Qiong Yao's ** meets the most simple and primitive desires in everyone's heart, although the story has an obvious stylized tendency, can only be "read at one time", but the spiritual core can make each of its works can achieve the effect of readers sharing sorrow and joy, because people always yearn for the kind of idealized love that has no hesitation, vigorous, and is not bound by the world, which is the reason why Qiong Yao's love has endured.

At that time, reading Qiong Yao was a fashion, and later, watching Qiong Yao dramas was a craze, if Qiong Yao's ** was an ethereal utopia, then her film and television dramas were undoubtedly a delicate and brilliant crystal castle for the world to enjoy.

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