A person's heart is towards the bright moon, but the ditch is illuminated by the bright moon. In life, there are some things that cannot be easily obtained, some that we need to strive for ourselves, and some things that are given by others, such as personal feelings. Whether it is friendship or love, it cannot be forced in this regard.
Affection between husband and wife, in general, should include friendship, love, and affection. If the couple is in a good relationship, they may have all three emotions at the same time. But in fact, as long as one of them is present, it can also stabilize the marriage. In marriage, both parties can choose the mode of relationship that suits them, whether it is friendship, love or family affection.
Everyone is an individual and should have their own space in terms of interpersonal interactions. Both spouses should have the right to keep in touch with their favorite friends. But after marriage, both parties should keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex, which is also a sign of responsibility for the marriage.
There was a lady who, after getting married, felt that her life was not satisfactory and often got together with friends for a drink. Her husband did not dare to dissuade him, because he was a door-to-door son-in-law who had no say in the marriage. Even if the husband dissuades his wife, the wife will not listen.
Once, my wife got together with my male girlfriend for a drink, and when she came home drunk, she collapsed on the bed and fell asleep. It stands to reason that the husband should not wash his wife's face as a man. However, usually the husband often washes the feet of his wife, so this kind of thing is not a big deal. The man served his wife as usual, but he heard her calling the name of her best friend. As a husband, a man feels unhappy to see his wife like this. So, he picked up a footcloth and washed his wife's face, but she was asleep.
What is even more surprising is that the man took advantage of his wife's drunkenness to fill a cup with foot-washing water and let his wife drink it. This scene was stolen by the man's son and handed over to the man's mother-in-law. After the mother-in-law read it, she directly kicked the man out of the house and posted this evidence on the Internet, claiming that she did not bully the son-in-law, but that the daughter-in-law was at fault first.
As soon as this matter was discovered, it aroused heated discussions among netizens. Some people praised the man and thought he was doing a beautiful job. Wives often make their husbands feel wronged, and when they get drunk, they still call the names of their male girlfriends, which is unbearable for any man. It just so happened that my wife was drunk, so it was no problem to give her some color to see.
Others said that the husband should continue to be patient. After all, he is the son-in-law who comes to the door upside down, so he has to learn to swallow his anger. Even if you want to resist, you must use your own strength and don't do it lightly. Giving his wife water to wash her feet is even more powerful if she is not kicked out of the house in the end.
In my opinion, life is not easy, and we must cherish the present. The couple was obviously together, but they fought every day. Wives often go crazy by any means necessary, causing their husbands to feel guilty. In particular, the wife often goes out to get together with male girlfriends, and even the door-to-door son-in-law who is upside down can't stand such a thing.
Of course, there is a personal space for making friends, and there is no problem with that. But don't let this affect your relationship and marriage. A woman should respect her husband, even if it is upside down. Treat the son-in-law who comes to the door and cannot be taken lightly. As long as the woman is a little distressed, she will not be treated like this.
Be kind, and what men do is not right. Something to say, not to treat your wife in this way. After all, a day husband and wife are 100 days. To be a son-in-law in someone else's house, you must learn to be tolerant. Endure the calm for a while, this is a skill as a door-to-door son-in-law.
It's not easy to be a door-to-door son-in-law, but if you have the ability, who would choose to be a door-to-door son-in-law?Even if you beat a single, you won't be a son-in-law!End of article.