When it comes to "The Love of the Slender Man", many people will think of the lyrics of "The little sister sits on the bow of the boat, and the brother walks on the shore".
The author of this song is Yu Wenhua.
Although many people have forgotten about Wenhua nowadays, a few decades ago, he was in the limelight.
Wenhua used to be a frequent visitor to the Spring Festival Gala, and the Spring Festival Gala of that era was extraordinary, and it was completely different from the current Spring Festival Gala.
As long as there is a TV at home, you will definitely watch the Spring Festival Gala on the night of the 30th of the New Year, so the Spring Festival Gala is a very wide stage.
Therefore, it can be seen how well-known Yu Wenhua was at that time, and he was able to sing on the Spring Festival Gala.
At that time, Yu Wenhua's cassette sales were very hot, and almost all men, women, and children could hum a few of her lyrics.
She was also selected to be the only soloist at the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, which shows that her popularity is quite high.
Yu Wenhua, whose career is thriving, what about her love life?It is often said that when a career goes well, there are emotional twists and turns.
Can Yu Wenhua's love life be as successful as her career, or is it unsatisfactory?
Is she happy now?Does her life live up to her expectations?
She was able to appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and sing alone at the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, many people believe that in addition to her talent, there must be a warm family to support her, otherwise how could she get so many opportunities.
In fact, many people misunderstand that Yu Wenhua is not a big lady, but a green flower in the mountain nest.
Her parents are not rich or elite as others imagine, but just a pair of farmers who rely on the sky to eat and use their hands to get food for their families.
With a total of six children, the Wenhua family is a large family. As the size of the family increases, so do the expenses, but their parents are not rich, but poor farmers. This situation places an even heavier burden on already poor families.
In order to help the family, Yu Wenhua's father went out to work to earn money during the slack time to subsidize the family. Therefore, most of the time, it is Wenhua's mother who takes care of the housework.
Because of her filial piety since she was a child, Yu Wenhua couldn't bear to see her parents working so hard, so she took the initiative to take on some housework, hoping to reduce her mother's burden.
Yu Wenhua looks very beautiful, looks slender and slender, like Sister Lin's image.
When she was young, in order to reduce the burden on the family, she would eat frugally every time, and only ate until she was seven or eight points full.
She tried her best to make her family's life a little better.
Her sensibility and dedication made her seem a little weaker than her peers, so her parents were worried about whether she would be bullied by others.
Children in every family understand that it is not easy for their parents to earn a living and bear the hard work of supporting their families.
Each of them worked very hard in their studies, including Yu Wenhua's older brothers and sisters, who also achieved excellent results.
However, a problem arose at this point.
By the time Yu Wenhua was in school, the family could no longer afford to pay for another child's education.
Because she was very sensible, she didn't want her parents to bother about it, so she decided to attend an art school because it was free of tuition.
Wenhua's parents felt guilty, but Wenhua comforted them by saying that she herself had a love for the arts, especially singing.
And not only can you learn Xi for free in art school, but you can also specialize in the field you love, so why not?
Wenhua was very attentive when he was in school, listened carefully in class, and did not miss any opportunity outside of class, often going to the theater for free ** model plays to learn their acting skills Xi.
Due to the poverty of his family, Yu Wenhua's living expenses in school are very low, and he can only rely on wowotou and pickles to survive.
Although her meals were plain compared to those of her classmates, Yu Wenhua did not feel ashamed.
She knows that this is the best that her family can provide, and therefore does not blame her parents for failing to provide her with better living conditions.
Once, a classmate told Yu Wenhua that they had received something from an old grandfather and handed it to Yu Wenhua.
When Yu Wenhua opened it and found that it contained steamed buns and pickles, she instantly understood that the old grandfather that her classmates said was his father.
Deeply distressed, she confessed to her classmates that the old man was not her grandfather, but her biological father.
She knows very well that her father has dedicated his life to the family, his gray hair is gray, and his former straight back is also bent by the torture of life.
She pitied her parents' hard work, so she secretly made up her mind to study hard and Xi, strive to study abroad, and be able to support her family in the future.
People who have big goals in mind will eventually achieve their wishes.
The college admitted her, but at this moment, the university tuition fee has become a big problem for Yu Wenhua.
She knew in her heart that her family was not wealthy, and she could not get financial support.
One of her dreams is to go to university, which is a way for Wenhua to go out and have a new life. Won't it come true?That's impossible.
During the four years of college, other students were enjoying the fun of life, but Yu Wenhua was always busy rushing to work.
Not only did she make her parents worry about her tuition and living expenses, she earned almost all of her expenses on her own.
For Wenhua, her biggest hope is to graduate as soon as possible and find a good job to repay her parents.
Unfortunately, when she was about to graduate from college, her father died, and Yu Wenhua hurried home, but she couldn't see her father for the last time. She deeply regrets it and is willing to stay here to take care of her mother.
The mother refused, she knew that Yu Wenhua had been admitted to the China Song and Dance Troupe, so she was unwilling to delay the child's future. Under the persuasion of his mother, Yu Wenhua reluctantly went to Beijing and left home.
Yu Wenhua is handsome, well-proportioned, and even more commendable is that she also has a beautiful voice, which makes her very popular in Chinese song and dance troupes.
Especially in 1990, as the only solo singer at the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, she attracted more people's attention.
At this moment, Yu Wenhua reunited with her first love Li Fan, who was also a ** major, and had a lot in common with Yu Wenhua.
In order to pursue Yu Wenhua, Li Fan often expresses his emotions in a way that happily accompanies Yu Wenhua.
Gradually, Yu Wenhua was also moved by this cheerful boy, and she gradually opened her heart to Li Fan.
In response to Li Fan's love, Yu Wenhua wrote a song for him, which is the widely acclaimed "Slender Man's Love".
This song was also staged on CCTV's stage, and when Wenhua's career gradually took off, Li Fan quickly proposed to her and soon held a wedding. Soon after, they also ushered in the crystallization of love.
Sometimes, Yu Wenhua can't help but sigh that she loves her lover and lovely daughter so much, which makes her feel that this life is meaningful, and she hopes that this happiness can last forever. However, reality is not as rosy as a fairy tale.
Li Fan has entrepreneurial talents, and in a short period of time he established his own business and attracted more employees, however, he could not resist the young woman's ** and eventually betrayed his family.
Knowing this, Yu Wenhua felt very sad.
The once sweet love is now shattered, and the boy who once made him happy is gone forever.
Instead of struggling to keep as the world imagined, Yu Wenhua chose to divorce Li Fan decisively.
The experience of his childhood made Yu Wenhua look strong on the outside, but he was extremely fragile on the inside.
However, the god of luck favored her, and a man who was extremely important to her appeared in her life.
Many people feel unreliable when it comes to online dating, and they are easily deceived. But Wenhua is a lucky exception.
Because of the emotional injury, she couldn't confide in the people around her, so she could only find strangers on the Internet and pour out her inner boredom and pain.
In 2000, Yu Wenhua met a very important netizen for her, who was keenly aware of her inner fragility and enlightened her when she was confused. This strange netizen aroused Yu Wenhua's favor.
Soon after, they met. I was surprised to find that this netizen turned out to be pianist Li Nian, and the conversation between the two was very speculative. Li Nian is very concerned about Wenhua and will pay attention to her emotional changes.
Wenhua has a very strong feeling for Li Nian, but she is worried that Li Nian will dislike her.
After all, she was once divorced and had a daughter.
Therefore, she did not dare to further develop her relationship with Li Nian. For her, it's good enough for the two to be friends.
However, Li Nian was obviously attracted to Wenhua and developed a crush on this talented and strong woman.
He expresses his heart to Wenhua, telling her that what he admires is her personality qualities, and that only a cowardly man cares about her past.
Li Nian's affection for Wenhua deeply touched her, and he not only treated Wenhua kindly, but also treated her daughter and mother even more considerately.
He really hopes to stay with Yu Wenhua for a long time. Yu Wenhua longed to have a son with Li Nian, but Li Nian was worried about her physical condition and would rather give up the child and only wish her health and happiness.
Li Nian told Wenhua that her daughter was his biological daughter. And Wenhua once said on the show that she is willing to be with Li Nian for the rest of her life in the next life.
Li Nian is more like a fan of Yu Wenhua and has always supported her.
Even if Yu Wenhua wants to participate in Kuaishou's live broadcast, Li Nian fully supports it. He believes that the important thing is to make Yu Wenhua happy.
At 57 years old, Wenhua is still able to do what she loves and enjoys the companionship of her husband and the filial piety of her daughter.
For Wenhua, this is happiness.
Wenhua's life has experienced many ups and downs, and he has been tempered in his early years, but he has enjoyed a lot of happiness in his later years. Perhaps, as the saying goes, after the storm comes the sunshine.
Therefore, when we face difficulties, do not give up easily, but persevere steadfastly, and we will definitely see the light of hope in the end.