"When you make trade-offs, don't forget that what you lose is what you gain. Joseph Whitney.
For more than 10 years, I have had a lot of fun, taking a group of elderly people to do aerobics, soak in hot springs, play poker, mahjong, and sing. My wife started to work with us, and then gradually broke away from our group. In recent years, she has spent almost no money except to buy toys for her granddaughter, and has hardly gone out to participate in any activities except for exercising on the treadmill at home. I asked if it was too lonely. She said: Loneliness is a kind of satisfaction, and loss is a kind of gain.
Life is like a grand stage play, we are all actors, shuttling through the interplay of light and shadow, playing different roles. In this performance, we will face many choices, and we need to know how to make trade-offs in order to grasp every moment of life.
If life is compared to the four seasons, the trade-offs are like the changes of spring, summer, autumn and winter. In the spring of the recovery of all things, we plant the seeds of dreams with hope and longing. Blooming days are always intoxicating, but we should also understand that flowers will eventually fall. At this point, the best option is to watch the flowers bloom quietly, and there is no need to be greedy for more.
When life enters a bland and happy summer, we may feel a little lost. However, in this seemingly boring day, we can still repair the fence and plant chrysanthemums to add a poetry to life. At this time, the wisdom of choosing lies in letting go of the glory of the past and cherishing the tranquility and beauty in front of us.
Autumn is coming, and everything is gradually withering. In the face of the bleak autumn wind, we should learn to accept the impermanence of life. Between the trade-offs, we learned what it means to truly own. What was once thought to be inseparable has become less important in the course of time. We've learned to let go, to let the past become memories and make room for the better future.
The bitter cold of winter tests our will. In this season, the trade-off means that we need to embrace the loneliness and loneliness of the heart, and resist the external ** with firm faith. As we survive the long night, the light of dawn will illuminate our path.
Trade-offs in life are not just a choice, but a wisdom. In the process of making trade-offs, we gradually recognize our inner needs and understand what is really important. We may not be able to have the whole world, but as long as we cherish every good thing around us with gratitude, we can find our own happiness on the road of life.
Let's work hard in the state we like, and rejoice as we go!No matter what kind of choice you face, you can deal with it with a normal heart. Only those who know how to make trade-offs can move forward leisurely on the road of life, enjoy the scenery along the way, and be full of gratitude and joy in their hearts.