In interpersonal interactions, we always meet all kinds of people, some of whom make us feel comfortable and at ease, while others who take advantage of us in the dark.
When a person exhibits a range of traits, there is a good chance that they are taking advantage of us.
The behavior of such people is often both surprising and infuriating because they act so friendly in front of you, yet behind your back they spread rumors about you or discredit you.
These people may turn around as soon as you make the contribution they expect, going from exuberant to ruthless. Or, once they have achieved their purpose, they may disappear into your life without warning, catching you off guard.
These people may use false compliments and compliments to gain the favor and trust of others to reach their goals more easily.
Such people may exaggerate your abilities or worth in order to gain your favor or trust. Their attention to you seems to be beyond the norm, and this behavior may be a means of trying to win your support for some kind of benefit in the future.
They will be there for you when you need it, rather than remembering your presence only when they need you. Therefore, we need to examine and think about our relationships with our friends and be clear about their true nature.
They may frequently turn to you for help, using your time, money, or other resources, but rarely in return. In interpersonal interactions, we should learn to protect ourselves and not be easily taken advantage of by others.