When we were young, who of us had never loved deeply, those quarrels, cold wars and reconciliations when we were in love were not the spices that life gave usMy ex-boyfriend and I had a cold war that lasted for a whole month, and finally it was invisible. We are all passers-by in each other's lives, who meet by chance but love each other by chance. Although the future is full of unknowns, as long as we truly love each other, those sweet memories are worth cherishing for a lifetime.
It is normal for couples in love to have conflicts, but now we are better at expressing and paying more attention to our inner feelings. Sometimes, we may focus too much on our emotions and ignore the feelings of the other person, which may be the so-called "love is not easy". However, when the post-Cold War lull came, we would come together naturally. Twists and turns in love are the norm, and only after continuous running-in can we achieve a true tacit understanding.
In the face of quarrels and cold wars in love, we should regard it as a run-in agent for love. It is these twists and turns that make our love more precious. After the Cold War, we must learn to restrain our emotions and not act aggressively because of anger or grievance. Remember, there is room for everything so that we can meet again in the future.
If you hurt each other in the Cold War, whether it is words or actions, it may leave a scar on each other's hearts that will not heal. Such damage would make it impossible to end the Cold War and might even lead the two sides to break up with hatred. Therefore, when the Cold War comes, we need to be calm. A cooling-off period of a few days is to give each other space to think, and you can wait for the other person to take the initiative to reconcile, or you can take the initiative to show goodwill.
Love requires communication and understanding, and only through communication can the contradictions between two people be truly resolved. In a relationship, we should be clear about when to back down and when to move forward. If you still love each other deeply, be brave and take the initiative.