Facing the shouts of his cousin Yang Deyu, the 23-year-old Yang Suo was lazy. He was completely frozen to death on a snowy night.
So, why was 23-year-old Yang Suo frozen to death?And how did he get to this point?
In 1986, Yang Suo was born in a rural family in Luoshan County, Xinyang, Henan Province. At that time, Yang's father and Yang's mother were very old. Therefore, they are old and have children, and they love this newborn boy very much.
So, the little boy was named "Yang Suo". I hope he can live a long life and stay by his side forever.
Because he was afraid that Yang Suo would bump into him, Yang Suo was held in the arms of the old Yang couple from birth to four years old, and he was not allowed to take one more step.
For this reason, the neighbor once persuaded Lao Yang and his wife like this: "You put down the lock of your house and let him go." A child as big as Suo'er can run all over the ground, why are you still holding Suo'er in your arms?Aren't you tired?”
In the face of the neighbor's kind persuasion, Yang's father and Yang's mother didn't care. And bluntly said:Don't be tired, if you put the lock down and walk, what if you bump it?
Therefore, until Yang Suo was 8 years old. When he went out, he was carried by his parents in a basket. In this regard, the people of the same village saw it and shook their heads.
Some well-meaning people also persuaded Yang's father like this: "Old Yang, you see what you have dodged your children into, and you are harming your children by doing so." ”
But with the kind persuasion of the villagers, Yang's father and Yang's mother still went their own way. Until Yang Suo went to elementary school, he went to and from school every day. Yang's father would push a bicycle to pick up Yang Suo, not letting Yang Suo take one more step.
And Yang Suo, who has been doted on by his parents since he was a child, has also developed an arrogant and domineering character. Not doing homework, bullying classmates, and confronting teachers has become commonplace.
Once Yang Suo was called a parent because he didn't do his homework. After Yang's father arrived at school, not only did he not cooperate with the teacher to educate Yang Suo, but also criticized the teacher.
And bluntly said:"My lock is at home, I am reluctant to criticize him, when will it be your teacher's turn to criticize. ”For this reason, the teacher in charge of bringing Yang Suo no longer dares and is unwilling to care about Yang Suo.
As for the labor class that every student must attend, Yang Suo never participates. In the words of Dad Yang, the explanation is:Our house is locked, and I don't let him work at home. In school, what else do you do?
What about Yang Suo?Deep love for parents. Not only did they not feel grateful, but they took it for granted. Once, because I was tired of eating lard buns. Just this other child, who can't eat the lard bun twice a year. He threw it on the ground and stepped on it with his feet.
In this way, Yang was locked in the doting of Yang's father and Yang's mother. As expected, he was not admitted to middle school, and his studies ended at the end of elementary school.
But because he knew the importance of reading, Dad Yang did not give up Yang Suo. It was a relationship and a lot of money, and it was money to win a place for Yang Suo to go to middle school.
But Yang Suo didn't care about this hard-won place. After a year, I don't want to go anymore. For this reason, Yang Dad and Yang Ma did not criticize and stop Yang Suo, but once again chose to obey.
Since then, Yang Suo has lived a life at home with clothes to reach out and food to open his mouth. Until one day, a bad news came, which broke Yang Suo's life.
Yang's father became ill and suffered from cancer because of long-term high-intensity work. Soon after, he died.
The death of his father changed the life of Yang Suo's lazy man. Because of the lack of his father's nagging in his ears, Yang Suo became lazier.
Once, Yang Suo's mother was in bed because she was sick. called Yang Suo, hoping that he could get rid of the weeds in the yard.
Yang Suo refused without thinking about it, and told his mother:You can get rid of your illness and remove it yourself. For this reason, Yang's mother scolded Yang Suo for being unfilial and lazy.
And Yang Suo, who was scolded in a hurry, completely ignored his mother's illness, and directly punched and kicked his mother on the hospital bed.
Mother Yang shed tears of remorse for this. But the remorse at this time will never make Yang Suo make any changes.
Until one day two years later, this woman, who had worked all her life, collapsed in the pond where she was washing clothes. By the time others found out, they were already out of breath.
The people of the same village took pity on her, helped together, and simply buried her. And Yang Suo, who lost his mother in an accident, didn't make much change。Still every day, eat, sleep, sleep, eat. When the money is spent, take the valuable things at home and do it. When they were done with their things, they went out to beg for food.
Seeing this, well-meaning people in the same village introduced Yang Suo to a job on the construction site. Who knows, Yang Suo only worked for half a day, and because he was disgusted with the work being too hard and tired, he took advantage of the rest and secretly ran home, and said that he didn't want to go again.
Later, someone introduced Yang Suo to a relatively easy job as a waiter. But after Yang Suo went, he was not only lazy to work, but also went to the back kitchen to eat and drink. Therefore, he was quickly fired by the boss.
Since then, people in the same village have stopped trying to introduce Yang Suo to work. And what about Yang Suo?Once again, they lived a life of begging.
Later, because he was lazy, Yang Suofan was too lazy to beg. Only when you are very hungry will you go out and stutter. Wear dirty clothes, and don't bother to wash them, just change them and continue to wear them.
In the end, Yang Suo didn't even bother to go to the toilet, and dug a pit directly at home to solve it. In winter, when the cold can't stand it, I pull out the clothes and quilts at home to burn the fire to keep warm.
In 2009, after a heavy snowfall. Yang Suo's cousin, Yang Deyu, saw that Yang Suo didn't come out to ask for food for several days. I brought a little food and quilts and went to Yang Suo's house to visit Yang Suo.
As soon as I pushed the door in, I saw Yang Suo lying straight at home. When he tried Yang Suo's snort with his hand, he found that he was already out of breath. At that time, Yang Suo was 23 years old.
The dignified 23-year-old guy died lazily at home, which is really embarrassing. And Yang Suo is naturally lazy?Not.
According to fellow villagers, Yang Suo also tried to help his family when he was a child. But as soon as he worked, he would be scolded by Yang's father and Yang's mother, and let him go to the side to play.
Therefore, Yang Suo's laziness was not cultivated overnight. But in the doting of Yang's father and Yang's mother again and again, he was obedient and gradually cultivated.
Doting is the poison in children's growth. I also hope that through Yang Suo's matter, I can give parents a reminder. It's not a bad thing to spoil your children a little less and educate them a little more.
Don't kid do something wrong?On the pretext that the child was small, he chose to forgive and shirk. As everyone knows, this is pushing the child step by step into the dark abyss. If you don't care about the children now, there will be society and the police to take care of them in the future, and it will be too late to regret it then.