Most singles die quickly after the age of 50There are four main reasons why rural areas are prevalent
Currently, there are more than 30 million single men in the country, especially in rural areas, where the number of single men is even higher. Typically, in a village of only 1000 people, the number of single men is as high as 80-90. Nowadays, in rural areas, except for the elderly and children, they are single men. As a result, many elderly people fear that if this continues, there will be fewer and fewer people in the village, and in a few decades, the entire village may be abandoned.
In fact, there are two reasons for the large number of singles in rural areas: First, there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women in rural areas. In the first decade of the last century, the atmosphere of preference for sons over women prevailed in rural areas. Over the decades, the consequences of this have gradually become apparent. Another problem is that, due to the imbalance between urban and rural economic development, many rural women go to the cities to work, get married and have children in the cities, and never return to the countryside. This further exacerbates the gender imbalance in rural areas.
Recently, there has been a heated discussion on the Internet, why do most single men and women disappear quickly after the age of 50 when the average life expectancy of Chinese reaches 73 years old?Moreover, this situation is more prevalent in rural areas. In this regard, we believe that there are also profound reasons why most single men and women disappear quickly after reaching the age of 50, which we should analyze together:
Reason 1: Most single men and women have bad habits.
Many single men and women develop bad habits such as smoking, drinking, and staying up late. Many single men and women often meet up with three or five friends, smoke and chat (smoke a few packs of cigarettes every day), and then start drinking and eating meat, and live a life of drunkenness and dreams. There are also some single men and women who often have to stay up late in order to play games, cards, etc., which will also have a negative impact on their health.
Reason 2: The psychological pressure of being single.
At first, it was a good thing for a bachelor to live a peaceful life, but his parents urged him to get married and have children early, and when he met acquaintances when he went out, he would ask him when he would get married, which invisibly brought a lot of psychological pressure to the bachelor. What's more, when a bachelor sees that his peers around him are married and have children, and live a happy married life, and he is still alone, the psychological pressure will be very great. Therefore, long-term depression will also shorten the life expectancy.
Reason 3: Irregular single life.
The life of a bachelor is irregular, and he usually eats a few bites when he feels hungry, and he doesn't want to eat when he is not hungry. At the same time, most bachelors have an unscientific diet, always like big fish and meat, and are unwilling to eat more vegetables. In the long run, single people are prone to chronic diseases such as high blood pressure, high blood lipids, and diabetes. For single people, they don't sleep when they have a minor illness, and they give up when they have a major illness**, and many people die at the age of 50.
Reason 4: Single people lack a purpose in life.
Many singles have parents who have died after the age of 50, have not married and had children, and their lives are no longer connected. They have no worries about the whole family. Therefore, single people have no life goals for the future and do not have a strong desire to survive. In the case of self-abandonment, many singles in their fifties no longer exist.
Married men have to bear the financial burden of the family and have a clear goal in life, that is, to support their parents well and raise their children**. Therefore, married men have a purpose in life that they must strive for, which is also the motivation of their life.
In fact, the majority of single men and women everywhere are not in a good financial situation. However, singles can get out of the current predicament: 1) Singles can work hard to improve economic conditions and not worry about finding a wife;2) Singles can go to work in factories and have more contact with the outside world, so that they can solve their own marriage problems;3) Singles can lower the requirements for finding a second wife, and the requirements for a second wife in marriage are relatively low, so it is more suitable for singles with poor economic conditions. It is still more suitable for singles with poor economic conditions.