Recently, the news that "the first batch of post-00s have begun to divorce" has repeatedly swept the screen, and I am still quite surprised. How old are the post-00s, only 23 years old, they have completed the major life events from marriage to divorce, and some have even become parents, even in the Internet era, there is no need to be in such a hurry, what is the picture?
I still remember that in 2022, there are still experts who are analyzing that the post-90s are busy with divorce, and the post-00s are not married, and it has only been a year since the big reversal, and the first batch of post-00s have begun to divorce.
Take a look at the graph of the number of marriages and divorces in China in the past two decades:
The number of marriage pairs in our country peaked at 1346 in 201390,000 pairs, then fell year after year, to 683 in 20223 pairs.
The number of divorces in our country peaked at 470 in 201910,000 pairs, then also on a downward trend, to 210 pairs in 2022.
Some people are glad that the logarithm of divorce is decreasing, and everyone looks at marriage more rationally, which does not seem to be exactly the case.
In traditional marriages, the peak period for divorce is around the Chinese New Year. The month after the college entrance examination is the "gray month" of middle-aged couples' marriages, the main reason is personality discord, and "third party involvement" and "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" have become the other two main reasons for couples to divorce. The child was admitted to college, and the middle-aged couples who couldn't get along no longer had the forbearance to choose to part ways. The important factor of divorce around the Spring Festival is to quarrel over "where to go and how many red envelopes to give", which is a bit funny, too casual, and not a child's house.
According to the data, the divorce rate of the post-00s is as high as 567%, an all-time high. Why is it so easy for the post-00s to get married and leave?
The post-00s generation is mostly the offspring of only children, who are most favored and cared for by the elders of the family, and are more self-centered. If you're happy, you'll be together, and if you're unhappy, you'll be separated. The post-00s grew up in the Internet era, with rapid information dissemination and rich social networks, and the post-00s were exposed to love, sexuality and other concepts very early, and they lacked awareness of the seriousness and sense of responsibility of marriage.
Previously, some experts said that the earliest dissolution of important social relationships in human beings may be the marriage relationship, I didn't believe it at first, but after watching the performance of the post-00s, people have to be suspicious.
The post-00s dare to pursue happiness, dare to break the shackles, dare to express themselves, and dare to try to innovate. They have their vision, their perceptions, and their mindsets, and we don't judge them here. It's just that I recently watched a lecture by an expert, and it's not worth it for the female ** in it.
The expert said that there are two main reasons for the divorce of the post-00s: one is that the man is really not good and cannot afford the responsibilities of the family. The other is that more than half of women file for divorce. More than 60% of women who filed for divorce chose to divorce because they had better boyfriends. Experts say that women are different from men, men's sex and love can be separated, and they can also cheat in the face of people who don't love. And women are different, women's bodies are derailed, and their hearts are gone, and she has no way to maintain a state of physical and mental separation from her husband. In this case, it is basically the woman who initiates the divorce. And after a woman divorces, she can't get a complete marriage with her spare boyfriend. Because most of the men with strong abilities have been married a long time ago, I am afraid that there is more than one girlfriend around him, the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside, and this young woman may only be fresh for a while, how can there be so much sincerity.
Post-00s women got married and divorced too early, and their feelings were scarred, and some even went home with their babies, and they were more passive in the future marriage relationship, which can be said to be the most disadvantaged.
In the older generation's view of marriage, marriage is a good marriage of two surnames, not that two people will get married immediately, the two can first look everywhere, understand more about the character Xi of both parties, the original family, and not to complete the KPI indicators, there is no need to rush and panic.
It is a matter of course, both parties have firm beliefs, and how beautiful it is to marry harmoniously and beautifully, and to manage a long-term marriage for a lifetime.