Recently, I saw a news that Lu Xun wrote in his diary that he was going to **.
However, I was really a little angry when I saw this rumor.
In Lu Xun's diary, about "prostitutes", he only recorded such a stroke in his diary on February 16, 1932:
The 16th was sunny. In the afternoon, he went to Han Wenyuan with his third brother to buy a copy of Wang's "Ruan Si Zongji", one yuan and six jiao;"Mianzhou Elephant Record" rubbings six kinds of six pieces, "Tianjian Jing Diaphragm Inscription" one, "Xiangzhong Poems" one, a total of two yuan octagonal. At night, all ten people in the apartment went to drink with Baotai and were quite drunk. Go back to Qinglian Pavilion to drink tea, invite a prostitute to sit slightly, and take one yuan. ”
It is clearly written here that "invite a prostitute to sit a little", and ten people go to drink together, and invite a prostitute to "sit a little", probably only to promote the entertainment of the show, not to gather a crowd to solicit prostitution.
The version of the diary that is circulating on the Internet says that Lu Xun went to Yihong Courtyard to find Xiaohong and slept from dawn to dark. It's really a rumor-mongering.
In fact, Lu Xun particularly despised this kind of news, and he once wrote such a mocking article:
Since the appearance of the treasure of money, the evolution of men has been really amazing. Everything in the world can be bought and sold, and libido is no exception. A man can get what he wants from a woman with a few stinky money. And he can say to her: I'm not ** you, this is your willingness, if you are willing to take a few dollars, you have to be like this, 100 according to 100 people, we are a fair deal!ravaged her and asked her to say "thank you, Da Shao". Is this something that a beast can do?Therefore, prostitution is a very high stage of men's evolution. 】
If only he was really that. There was no way he wouldn't touch Juan. Perhaps, he has long been like Guo Moruo, Yu Dafu, Xu Zhimo, etc., even if he doesn't love his original wife, he has to have children with his wife.
To say that Lu Xun's diary is "full of feet" is to imply that he has sex with Xu Guangping, too.
Very unreliable (and a little irreverent). In fact, the "wet feet" here may be the washing of the feet.
Of course, it is not an ordinary foot wash, it may be a foot soak or foot bath. Mr. Lu Xun's great literary achievements, ideological achievements, and banner role, netizens do not pay attention to them, but pay attention to these bad tastes.
Oh, don't be blind to him. One moment said that he peeked at his brother-in-law taking a bath, and another time said that he **, I don't know what he is drawing.
Lu Xun's view of women and parenting is ahead of its time in our times.
Just share a few paragraphs.
There are mothers in a woman's nature, a daughter, and a wifeless. The wife's sex is forced, it's just a mixture of motherhood and daughterhood. 】
China's old gentlemen, even those in their twenties, somehow have a contradictory opinion that women and children are too low and at the same time too high. Women and children can't get on the scene;However, on the one hand, he worships talented women, praises prodigies, and even wants to get acquainted with a broad family, so that he can also soar. What Mulan joined the army and Ti Ying saved her father, and she talked about it even more to show that she was a plague that could not be angry. It's the same for students, if you want them to "don't talk about state affairs", you want them to withdraw alone, and if they can't retreat, they will sneer at them for being useless. 】
I have never believed that Zhaojun will be able to protect Sui if he goes out of the Saihui Anhan, and Mulan can protect Sui by joining the army;I don't believe in the ancient words of Daji Yin, Xi Shi Marsh Wu, and Yang Concubine Chaotang. I thought that in a patriarchal society, women would never have such great power, and the responsibility for the rise and fall should be borne by men. But the author of the man has always put the great sin of defeat on the woman, which is really a worthless and worthless man. 】
I actually don't agree with the saying that "what Lu Xun advocated in the article is one thing, and what he does is another".
A typical example is that he has a very good view of women, but he does not let Xu Guangping go out to work.
In fact, when Lu Xun and Xu Guangping established a family, Xu Guangping wanted to go out to work, but Lu Xun did not stop him, but just said that he would return to a single life after taking it, and later, Xu Guangping gave up going out to work.
Judging from the situation of the two people, such an arrangement is actually a rational choice to maximize the interests of the family. Lu Xun's income was quite high at that time, and no matter how much Xu Guangping jumped, his income was not very much. If Xu Guangping is allowed to go out to work, finding a nanny or something at home is not a choice of "maximizing family interests" at all (giving the wife's share of the money to the nanny, and the quality of the nanny's work in housework and childcare cannot be compared with the wife).
I identify with this division of labor in the family. The premise is that the guy doesn't. In Lu Xun's marriage, he did it. The money he earned was also used to support his family, and he did not squander it on himself.
Lu Xun's concept of parenting is relatively advanced, and he himself is working hard to practice, struggling between pursuing a career and accompanying his children, but everyone must know: Lu Xun and Xu Guangping were 43 years old when they lived together - only 12 years before his death.
Those of us who have to move bricks and raise children should be able to understand Lu Xun's entanglement. None of us want to be a work machine that "only knows work, not with family", but we don't want to be stuck in family chores and fail to realize our self-worth.
Moreover, he was in his early fifties at the time, and his health was not good, but he still wanted to write more works. All in all, time is running out.
Later, Lu Xun died, Xu Guangping inherited Lu Xun's spiritual legacy, and also left a name in history (but if it weren't for the fact that she was Lu Xun's wife, with Xu Guangping's qualifications, what do you think is the chance that she will be remembered by future generations). I think she and Lu Xun are also in a mutually beneficial relationship.
I have a fair amount of admiration for Brother Xun, but that doesn't mean I feel like he's unlimited. But I insist that the limitations he has are only the limitations of "not being perfect", not the limitations of "people who are not the same".
If you really want to say that "the outside is not the same", then Hu Shi is much more serious than Lu Xun. After Hu Shi threw the child to his family, he didn't care.
I have always felt that a person's advocacy on public issues and the pursuit of maximizing family interests are actually two levels of issue.
For example, of course, I advocate that women try to achieve a class jump on their own, but if I can live a better life with men, I will not refuse.
Because these are two different categories of issues.
As for saying "Compared to Hu Shi, Lu Xun is a scumbag" every day, then ......Marry Zhu An to you, you will love her, love her, and give her money to spend, okay?