Ms. Zhen and Mr. Jia were classmates at the same top university, and the two gradually fell into the abyss of love during their college years. Mr. Jia is tall, handsome, talented, especially good at basketball, and is the leader of the school basketball team. Although Ms. Zhen is not a school flower, she is also the best in her class. Because they are Shandong natives, the contact between the two became more frequent, and gradually, they began to talk about the futureMarriage
However, Ms. Zhen is inIn loveAt the beginning, a condition was put forward to Mr. Jia: whether it is a boy or a girl, the future child must follow their Zhen family name. This is also the most important wish of her parents, she wants to give her parents an explanation, so that they can have descendants to inherit the family property. Ms. Zhen's family is wealthy, her father is the owner of a large business, and Mr. Jia's parents are retired people's teachers, and the family conditions are relatively ordinary. Because of this condition, the two have been separated and reunited many times.
Eventually, they came up with a solution: the first child would be surnamed Zhen regardless of gender, and the second child would be surnamed Jia. They spent their college years together, Ms. Zhen was successfully admitted to the civil service, and Mr. Jia entered Ms. Zhen's family's business. A year later, they got married and made their home in Ms. Zhen's city.
Ms. Zhen and Mr. Jia have a lovely son named Zhen Yingying. This child is a treasure chest for grandparents and grandparents, and they have come to Zhen's house to take care of the confinement for him. However, the question of names raises new contradictions. Mr. Jia had never told his parents before about their first child would be surnamed Zhen. When the grandfather asked about his grandson's name, Mr. Jia replied that Zhen Yingying. Ms. Zhen made it clear that the child's surname was Zhen, much to the displeasure of Mr. Jia's parents, who had always used Jia as their surname. At this time, Ms. Zhen's parents and Mr. Jia's parents began to blame and complain to each other, and the family became uneasy.
Subsequently, Zhen Yingying grew up, and he decided to change his name when he was in college. He didn't feel like a hero, and the question of his last name had always bothered him. He wants to change to Jia Yingying and officially grasp his name. However, when he expresses this idea to his parents, a heated argument breaks out.
During the argument, Zhen Yingying suddenly and impulsively jumped downstairs and was physically injured. The incident has plunged parents and grandparents deeper into quarrels and mutual complaints. One night half a year later, Zhen Yingying made a shocking decision to kill himself by slitting his wrists in his room.
Soon after, Zhen Yingying's parents divorced and received a divorce certificate. Since then, the family has never quarreled again. The family went through too many conflicts and troubles, and finally realized that the first name and surname were not important, but the happiness and harmony of the family members were the most important. They understand the emptiness that comes with fighting for fame and profit, and most importantly to be happylifeand cherish each other.
Through this story, we can see that family fights and conflicts are very common, often caused by trivial matters, but can have a profound impact on the family and the individual. When dealing with family conflicts, we should try to avoid quarrels and accusations, but learn to understand and tolerate. Family harmony and happiness are based on mutual respect and love. Whether it is a first name or a surname, it should not be a point of contention in the family, and it is more important to maintain the unity and harmony of the family so that everyone can be happy and satisfied.