As the saying goes, "husband and wife work together to break money", when two people get married, they will face a lot of problems, in most things, husband and wife should have a common pursuit, so that they can work towards the same goal!
Husbands and wives should help each other, understand each other, and respect each other, some small things in life, you can make your own decisions, but when you encounter a big event, you must discuss it, if one party does not agree, you can't go your own way, after all, marriage needs two people to maintain together!
But some couples, will be some.
If you are confused about things, no matter what the reason, you make your own decisions privately and don't inform the other party, it's a bit too much to say!
Someone spotted such a scene on the street. A man was arguing with a woman, and the reason for the quarrel between the two was that the woman was spending money indiscriminately, and the husband was distressed about the money, so there was a quarrel.
In **, I saw that the man pulled his wife and said, "You are so casual, why do you want to get married, is it not good to live alone, why are you so casual after getting married".
The woman only cried and didn't talk to her husband, the man became more and more angry, so he pushed the woman, and the woman said, "You make money and I spend money, this is a natural thing, I will give you pregnancy, can't you accommodate me, what's wrong with spending 7800 to buy a set of maternity cosmetics, I am also thinking about the child in my belly".
The man said, "Then you can't buy such an expensive one, and you can't help but discuss with me, my monthly salary is only 8,000, and you spend 7,800, what should you do with this month's life?"
The woman sat on the ground and cried, did not answer, estimated that she had no choice, the man said directly, "I want to divorce you, you go back to your parents' house, you are willing to spend money, right, I will give you all the money" After speaking, he threw out a lot of money, and then turned to leave.
The woman spent 7800 to buy cosmetics for pregnant women, and her husband was clamoring for a divorce, netizens: The man is too picky, although it is not right for his wife to spend money, but he can't quarrel with his pregnant wife, let alone push his wife down, this is a man who is easily impulsive, and a man who has no ability will lose his temper like this.
Some people also think that although the man is emotional, but the woman is also at fault, you can't spend money without negotiating, how many people will save money after getting married, her husband's salary is only 8000, she actually spent 7800 to buy cosmetics, and she didn't discuss it with her husband, it is indeed wrong!
Many netizens said good things for women, saying that men should forgive their wives, after all, they are pregnant, and they must maintain emotional stability
Daifu's point of view:
In fact, there is not much problem with this matter, the main thing is that the woman did not discuss with her husband before spending the money, and she made her own decisions to anger her husband, no matter what the reason, the wife was at fault first.
The husband may feel that this expenditure is too big and directly disrupts the rhythm of life before he came, so he doesn't know what to do, so he will lose his temper with his wife, and there is a problem in communication between the two people, the husband is in a bad mood, and the wife does not respect her husband, which will lead to such a result.
Of course, two people can't divorce because of 7,800 yuan, although they spend a month's salary, it doesn't have much impact on their lives, and they shouldn't divorce for this matter, it's not that far!
If you earn 8000 a month, will you spend 7800 on cosmetics?