A couple of men and women are lying on the bed, the man has fallen asleep, but the woman has difficulty sleeping, "Why don't I feel, why haven't I experienced **orgasm?".Isn't it true that everyone is acting with them in bed......”
Is it really hard for women to orgasm?According to an article in the Yearbook of Sex Studies, the problem is the second most new problemOnly about 30% of women experience orgasm, that is, most women are "pretending".
1. Why is it so difficult for women to orgasm?
How hard is it for women to reach orgasm?Through dozens of relevant studies abroad for more than 80 years, it has been found that only about 25% of women will orgasm every time over a period of timeThe remaining 25% of women have little or no orgasm
Four sample surveys of "Chinese sexuality" conducted by the Chinese University of China between 2000 and 2015 also showed similar results:There are only about 1 or 3 women who often or always have ***2 out of 3 women only sometimes have or even never have***
Although both men and women can have *** phenomenon due to sexual organ stimulation, butOrgasms are gender-specific
In men, reaching *** is generally through physical stimulation of **, and when climax is reached, it will be accompanied by **.
Female *** is relatively complex and can be divided into**orgasm and**orgasm. According to the overall research data, the most common methods for women are:Direct stimulation of **, and whether the stimulation can produce orgasm is still controversial.
There have been researchers who have studied the reasons why women are not prone to orgasm. Two American scientists, Dr. Mihaela Pavlichev of Cincinnati Children's Hospital and Gent Wagner, an evolutionary biologist at Harvard University, compared the reproductive mechanisms of mammals and found that human females are not a byproduct of evolutionRather, it is a remnant of the early years of ovulation induction, similar to the human appendix.
They also point out that social mammals (including humans) are moving away from the world and are becoming more and more difficult to be stimulated.
Of course, women are not easy to orgasm, and there may be somePhysical and psychological factorsRelate.
Physiological aspects include differences in the structure of male and female bodies, differences in sexual stimulation, lack of skills in partners, and health problems in women. The psychological aspect may be related to the environment, lack of sexual knowledge and experience, and lack of communication with sexual partners.
Second, women can also get pleasure through "themselves".
Can't women get sexual gratification?No, with certain techniques, women can easily get ***
In women, there is also an organ homologous to the male **cell, which is **. This organ, though small in form, is presentBut with more than 8,000 nerve endings, it is the most sexually arousal in women。While receiving stimulation, it is possible for a woman to reach orgasm more than once.
If women want to get pleasure, they just need stimulation. Simple leg clamps, finger strokes, sex props, etc., can help women please themselves. Not only is there no shame in women, but it can also bring a lot of benefits to the body:
The first is to improve the quality of sleep,**, the body will secrete dopamine and oxytocin, which helps to alleviate women's depression and improve sleep quality;
Second, it helps to maintain the health of the reproductive system, through sexual activity, can stimulate estrogen secretion, increase blood flow to **, so that ** remains lubricated;
The third is to understand yourself better, know that they are sensitive, and when their partner does not operate properly, they can also put forward ideas and improve their behavior.
Of course, all this should be based on reasonableness, moderation, and hygiene, mainly based on personal physical and mental feelings, when it appearsIncreased secretion, malaise, physical and mental exhaustionand so on, it is necessary to control it in time, and excessive sexual behavior will also cause backlash to the body.
3. What is the "best" time to have sex?The answer was unexpected
Many people may Xi used to having sex at night, but in some cases, the right time may increase the probability of orgasm ......
For men,Morning is actually the ideal time to snap。At more than 9 o'clock in the morning, the ** element that stimulates male impulse reaches its peak, the desire is the most turbulent, and the mood is particularly good after dormancy, and it is easy to be satisfied.
And for women,In the middle of the menstrual cycle, i.e. 3 days before and after ovulation, the chances of getting *** will also be higher than usual.
It should be noted that if the following discomforts occur in the body, you should not be reluctant, and you should go to the hospital in time to check whether it is caused by the disease
One is that after **, abdominal pain appearsIf you have abdominal pain during sex and it has not been relieved, you should worry that it may be a rupture of the corpus luteum, ectopic pregnancy, uterine fibroids, pelvic inflammatory disease, etc.;
The second is ** bleedingWhen the force is too high, it may cause friction bleeding. It may also be caused by a certain disease, such as cervical lesions, cervical polyps, severe cervical erosions, etc.;
The third is ** pain, the presence of pain may be related to insufficient foreplay, inadequate lubrication, or illness.
Sex does not have to depend on men, and women's pleasure can also be self-giving. Women also have the right to take the initiative to court, to give themselves pleasure through caresses. I hope that more women can face up to their desires and take health as the premise to enjoy their body and mind.
References: 1] "Why is it harder for women to orgasm when *?》.She knows Tencent Medical Codex. 2020-11-29
2] "More than half of the women are pretending to orgasm!".If women want to be happy, there is only one ...... that worksFamily Doctor2023-05-21
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