From "ostrich eggs" to "grass in Hulunbuir", this seems to have become a special kind of emotional grace. Perhaps, these seemingly inconspicuous small gifts can best express the tenderness and sincere feelings between husband and wife. Everyone's feelings are expressed differently, some people like to express them in words, and some people like to express them in actions. And like this lady's husband, his way of expression seems to be very unique, and sometimes he will use something special to express his love. Some people may think that these gifts are boring and useless, but as the lady said, she has become Xi to it, and she knows how to appreciate these small gifts and how to appreciate the warmth in them. Everyone has their own way of life and outlook on love, which also determines how we express ourselves in love. Sometimes, an affectionate glance, a simple greeting, or even a seemingly inconspicuous gift can make us feel sincere emotions and endless love. Perhaps, we don't need to prove our love with luxurious gifts, and a sincere heart is enough to make the other person feel our love.
Recently, I saw an interesting topic, that is, "the little things in love", in fact, there are often many small things in our lives, we may think that it is not important, but it can bring us a lot of surprises and touches. For example, when you come back from a business trip, you can bring a special product to the other party, or you can specially prepare a cup of bean juice with a unique taste for the other party. These little things may seem inconspicuous to others, but they are touching to us. For example, in the example, when he came back from a business trip, he didn't bring pastries from Daoxiang Village or roast duck from Quanjude, but he brought back a glass of bean juice for his girlfriend. This bean juice may not be important to others, but it is a touch for his girlfriend. Because this bean juice not only represents his care, but also represents his understanding and respect for her. We often overlook the little things in our lives, but these small things can have a huge impact on our lives. Sometimes, a simple greeting, a refreshing drink, or a sweet word can make our mood extra good.
Of course, these little things not only exist in love, but also in family and friendship. For example, we suddenly think of our parents who are far away, and giving them a ** greeting or bringing a small gift to a friend can make them feel warm and caring. In short, the little things in life are actually a manifestation of emotions, whether it is for oneself or for others, it has a very important meaning. In the days to come, let's work together to pay attention to and cherish the little things in life, so that they can become a good memory in our lives. Marriage is a matter for two people, not your responsibility alone. Everyone has their own personality and Xi, and it is impossible to fully match your expectations. If you always expect the other person to live up to your expectations, then you will be disappointed and frustrated. Conversely, if you are able to see the problem from the other person's point of view, then it will be easier for you to understand his actions and thoughts. As you can see from your article, your husband is actually a very traditional person.
He doesn't believe in expressing feelings through objects, but cares more about the quality of your life and the stability of your future. When you spend your own money on an expensive mobile phone, he may think that you are acting too impulsively and putting an unnecessary burden on your family finances. So, he offered to give you a mortgage for the next month. Although his words may sound a little cold, it does not mean that he does not love you, on the contrary, he may be more concerned about your future and development. Therefore, you should try to understand his thoughts and not take his words as attacks and accusations. At the same time, in your marriage, you should also learn to appropriately let go of your own expectations and needs and consider each other's feelings and needs more. Learning to be considerate and patient with each other is a very important part of marriage, but that doesn't mean you need to put up with disrespect and indifference. If you feel dissatisfied and aggrieved, then you should try to communicate with him and let him know your feelings and needs. However, in the process of communication, you should avoid blaming and attacking the other person as much as possible, and communicate with him in a rational and peaceful manner.
Marriage is a long journey with many ups and downs and challenges. Only when you understand each other, tolerate each other, and support each other can you get through this journey together. Therefore, no matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, you should learn to remain calm and rational and face them with an open and tolerant mind.