I have a younger brother, I have a good relationship with my brother, we got married successively, and we gave birth to a son after a year after marriage, and the two families often correspond, my son and my brother's son are also good playmates.
I also like this nephew very much, every holiday, I let him come to my house to play, watching the two children play together, it feels like I have two sons.
How good it would be if it went on like this, but there were unforeseen circumstances, and my brother and wife had a car accident and both left, leaving such a poor nephew behind.
When I got the news, I cried to death, hugged my nephew and didn't let go, this poor child, only six years old, what can I do in the future?
His parents are old and can't take care of him anymore, so I am the only one who has the closest relationship with him, so I can only take over, and I don't worry about others taking care of him.
I discussed it with my husband, and he was a loyal and kind man, and he agreed to adopt my nephew, so I took him home, and my parents and relatives praised our family for their righteousness.
Thinking that his nephew was so young that he had no parents, it was too pitiful, so he asked his son to take care of him more.
My son was still young at the time, and he didn't have many ideas, they used to play together a lot, and they were still very happy to know that their cousin would live together in the future.
I was the same for my nephew and for my son, I bought clothes and shoes for my son, and I also bought clothes and shoes for my son, and I ate snacks together.
It's just that after the death of his nephew's parents, he seems to be a little heavy-minded, and when he used to come, he would play with his son and grab food together, and his son liked him too.
Now I don't play much anymore, and I have to hand him something to eat, so I feel a little sorry for this child, so I pay special attention to it.
He never asked for anything, he didn't want to say anything, I know, he must have understood, it's different now than before, he used to be a guest, but now he is under the fence, so everything is stuffy in his heart.
My son sometimes bullied him, and he would have resisted or come to complain before, but now he doesn't say anything.
I hope he can be as natural and comfortable as before, I raised him as a son, but there has been no improvement.
Gradually, both children grew up and went to high school, and my son was more naughty, and I couldn't control him, so my grades were poor. As for the nephew, all the energy is spent on learning Xi, and the two of them are a top student and a scumbag.
I asked my nephew to teach my son more, and my nephew didn't object, so he went to tutor when he had time, but my son felt that it was a shame and spoke to his nephew in a weird way.
What my nephew wanted to say, he wanted to say and stopped, tears rolled in his eyes, I saw it in my eyes, I understood, so I had to forget it.
My nephew has always had no material requirements, but my son is different, his clothes and shoes will not last long, he will have to change to new ones, and he always wants a brand.
On this day, I fell in love with a pair of shoes, 500 yuan, and I didn't buy them for a long time, because my family conditions are average, and 500 yuan shoes are too luxurious, but he couldn't help but keep making trouble, and finally bought them.
Then I thought about it, as the child grew up, my nephew didn't ask for anything, and bought him less things, so I bought him a pair too, wanting to show that I didn't treat him equally, and I didn't forget him.
Unexpectedly, this incident stabbed the hornet's nest, and my son was very unhappy when he saw it, and said, "Mom!Who the hell is your own son?Why did you buy it for me after I begged for so long, and you bought it without saying a word?”
My nephew was a little frightened and hurriedly said to my son, "I don't want it, I haven't worn it yet!."I'll give you this pair too. With that, he handed it over.
The son threw him on the ground and said, "Who wants you to be a good man?"This is something from my house, my mother bought it!What do you do with my stuff?”
My nephew stood there a little bewildered, and I got a little angry, and said to my son, "How can you talk about this child?"How much did you wear?How much did he wear?What's wrong with giving him one time?”
The son left in a huff.
My nephew said to me, "Auntie, I don't care about this, cheap clothes and shoes are fine......”
This kid is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed, how did my son become like this!
When I waited for the college entrance examination, it was no surprise that my nephew was admitted to a better undergraduate university, and my son could only go to the worst junior college.
My son said, "Mom, you're not going to send him to college, are you?"That's going to cost a lot of money”
The nephew's face changed suddenly, and he knelt down: "Aunt, uncle, cousin, I beg you, let me go, I will try my best to make money by myself in school, and I will return this money to you in the future!."”
I hurriedly pulled him up: "Don't listen to his nonsense, how can I not let you go to the university that I was admitted to with great difficulty, you just go to school with peace of mind!."”
After his son finished school, he found a job that was not good or bad, and after a year, he talked about a girlfriend, and soon said that he was going to get married.
We were very happy, took out all our savings, bought him a house, and gave him a bride price of 100,000 yuan to let our son have a wedding.
I have to say, I only care about my son here, and all my savings are spent on my son, and I don't leave a little for my nephew, and I can only rely on him for the rest of the road!
When my nephew was in college, he didn't ask us for too much money, and I didn't know how he lived in college, so I must have suffered a lot, so I wanted to help him more, but my son was not angry, so I could only use all the money on him.
After the nephew finished college, he went to work, and it is said that the salary is okay, more than 10,000 yuan, but he wants to save money to buy a house, and there is also bride price money, and he doesn't know when he will be able to marry a daughter-in-law
It's just that I don't have the energy to worry about it, my wife passed away due to illness, and I cried a lot, but I still have to live my life.
Fortunately, my daughter-in-law is pregnant, and I have sustenance again, so I will take care of her until I give birth to a child, and I will serve the confinement child and take care of my eldest grandson, and I am also very happy.
I lived in my son's house for six or seven years, cooking and doing housework every day, and I was very fulfilling, and by the time my grandson went to elementary school, my health was not very good, and I went to the hospital twice a day.
On this day, my son said, "Mom, you have lived with us for so long, and Xiaoling (daughter-in-law) also said, didn't you raise your cousin at that time?"You will live with him in the future, and it is time for him to do his filial piety. ”
As soon as I heard it, I came back to the taste, this is because the child is older, I don't need me anymore, my body has deteriorated, I think I am a burden, and you want to drive me away!
I thought, what's wrong with going to my nephew?Won't he support me old?
I found my nephew, he was very happy to see me, after all these years, he also married his daughter-in-law last year, but he still has no children.
The two of them cooked a sumptuous meal, and my heart warmed, this child is still filial.
After eating, when I said what I meant to provide for him, my nephew became contemplative, and went to the room with his daughter-in-law to mumble for a while.
Then, he said to me: "Auntie, I am a straightforward person, and some things are said in advance, you raised me, and it is said that I should provide for you in old age, but you still have a son, and you have left all your property to him, he can't afford to take up this responsibility, I can only be responsible for half of the obligation, you have to tell my cousin." ”
I was stunned all of a sudden, I worked hard to raise two children, my own son didn't give me a pension, and my nephew only raised half of my old age, so what should I do with the other half?Why are today's children so conscienceless?It's a ** problem.