Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
Is it more important to have distant relatives who are related by blood, or close neighbors who are not related by blood?
There is actually no definite answer to this question because everyone meets different people, and there are too many variable factors to make an accurate judgment.
Many psychologists believe that siblings or husbands and wives are better together
There is a definite answer to this question. The relationship between husband and wife is clearly better than that of siblings, why?
Because there are too many conflicts between siblings.
The first is on the issue of filial piety to one's parents.
When they grow up, everyone's economic conditions are different, and it is impossible to force people with relatively poor economic conditions to pay as much as people with relatively good economic conditions, and it is also possible that because two people were treated differently when they were children, they naturally want to pay differently when they grow up, and it is difficult to achieve unity between brothers and sisters.
The second is ambivalent jealousy.
Although they come from a family, some people may become entrepreneurs, but some people will become cheap manual laborers, and brothers and sisters who have a bad relationship will reduce their contact with other people out of jealousy.
The third is the issue of debt.
Many people think of their brothers and sisters first when they want to borrow money, which is a normal thing, but when to repay the loan, if you are also in a hurry to use the money to urge the repayment of the debt, will it be embarrassing?
Or what if the other party only thinks about owing favors and doesn't think about paying interest or something?
At this time, the contradictions will begin to intensify, don't talk about feelings, it's good not to give birth to hatred.
However, in fact, the relationship between brothers and sisters is still divided, although most brothers and sisters are not as deep as husband and wife, but this is not absolute.