In life, you inevitably have to deal with all kinds of people. How to deal with interpersonal relationships is a topic that each of us must face. Someone once said: "Together, get along well, and care a lot;."If you can't get along, keep your distance and pretend to be confused. This sentence is short, but it speaks to the secret of interpersonal communication. Next, we will illustrate this truth through three true stories. Interpersonal communication
Story 1: Get along, get along well, and care a lot.
Xiao Wang and Xiao Li were roommates in college, they had similar personalities and the same hobbies, and soon became good friends who talked about everything. They took classes together, ate together, played ball together, and had many happy times together. After graduating from college, they chose to work in the same city and continued their friendship. When Xiao Wang fell out of love, Xiao Li drank with him and listened to him;When Xiao Li encountered difficulties, Xiao Wang didn't say a word and did his best to help. Their friendship grew deeper through mutual care and became an integral part of each other's lives.
Story 2: If you can't get along, keep your distance, and pretend to be confused.
Xiao Zhang and Xiao Zhao are colleagues, and their personalities are diametrically opposed, one is outgoing and cheerful, the other is introverted and silent. At work, they always disagree, Xiao Zhang feels that Xiao Zhao is too rigid, and Xiao Zhao thinks that Xiao Zhang is too impetuous. In order to avoid conflicts, they chose to keep their distance and try not to get involved in each other's private affairs. Although their relationship is not close, they are able to remain professional at work and try not to affect each other. After a long time, they found that although their personalities were incompatible, they could also coexist peacefully as long as they kept an appropriate distance.
Story 3: Get along, get along well, and care a lot;If you can't get along, keep your distance and pretend to be confused.
Xiao Liu is a sociable person, he has a principle: he will treat people who are compatible with each other sincerely and care for each other with his heart;If you don't get along, he will keep his distance and avoid conflict. In his circle of friends, there are both like-minded friends and people with different personalities. He knows how to get along with different people, and as a result, his relationships have always been good. His secret is: "Get along, get along well, and care a lot;."If you can't get along, keep your distance and pretend to be confused. ”
Through these three stories, we can see that the secret of interpersonal communication lies in how to deal with other people. Compatible people, we must treat each other sincerely, care with heart, and make the friendship deeper;For those who don't get along, we need to keep our distance, avoid conflict, and allow each other to live together peacefully. This is not only a wisdom, but also a philosophy of life.
As the ancients said: "Know yourself and know your opponent, and you will not be defeated in a hundred battles." "Only when we know how to get along with others can we go further and further on the road of life. In this complex world, let us learn to "get along, get along well, and care more;If you can't get along, keep your distance, pretend to be confused", and make our lives better.