Yu was recently swiped by the Dong Yuhui incident, and watched a lot of his live broadcasts and ** over and over again.
If nothing else, I really like his kindness, sincerity and talent for exporting. After a hundred turns, we still abide by our original intentions, and finally achieve a win-win situation with Oriental Selection. It has become a light in the hearts of countless kind workers. His views on education are also inspiring.
He said: Don't pay too much attention to your children, many parents always can't help but guide their children, and they have to intervene in everything in life, big and small. In fact, we should observe and listen to the child more and give a little feedback at the critical time. Growth is a process of learning and Xi trial and error. When you prevent him from making mistakes, you prevent him from growing up, and he will never grow up.
Yes, many parents are thankless in parenting now, maybe they care too much about their children and hold their children too tightly. Parenting is actually a process of grasping the big and letting go of the small.
1. Grasp the big - the heart of parenting is big, and the "heart" is raised, and the child is not far behind:
Give him unconditional love.
Tell him: "You don't need to be anyone, you just need to be yourself, no matter what you are, Mom will always love you and support you." ”
Give him understanding and acceptance.
It is allowed that the child is a child, and it is acceptable to love to play, make trouble, cry, and eat.
Give him attention and recognition.
I want my child to go east and not west, and I don't applaud or stop him from going west. I'll applaud him a little further east, and I'll probably surprise him a little further east.
2. Be small - as long as the heart does not collapse, everything else is a trivial matter.
As a parenting blogger, I've never paid attention to G babies. Rather than enrolling my child in a class and reading a word, I would rather accompany him to try something that interests him. Find out where his talents and interests lie.
In my children's daily life, I try to delegate power and do whatever I want within the rules.
If you want to watch TV, watch it, set an alarm clock for him, and be sure to turn it off at the end of the day. Protect your eyes and don't look short.
If you want to play with adult things, I'll play with you.,But if you break it once, there's no next time.。 After ruining one of my lipsticks, I never played with my lipstick again. Now he is often playing alone at home, and I am working, so I don't have to worry about what moths he makes.
I don't like to eat, I never chase feeding, and if I don't eat, I'm not hungry. If I'm hungry after dinner, I won't make extra for him, and I think I can eat leftovers. Over time, he learned that eating was his own business. If you don't eat on time, you can only eat leftovers.
Children like to roll around, like to be barefoot and get dirty. If it's dirty, it's dirty, I won't wipe my hands and face all the time, and I won't make him cry because of it. But I'll tell him about the possible consequences of doing so, and then review with him when he's sick and unwell.
In short, there is no need to manage the children in every detail, parents manage themselves well is the king, and teaching by example is always greater than words.
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