1. Reading doesn't have to be for anything. The books you have read may not necessarily be memorable. But they will be integrated into your temperament, conversation, and mind, silently enriching your spiritual world and shaping a better you.
2. If you want to reject others, you might as well be direct. A vague answer may make people scratch their heads and guess for a long time. If the other party thinks you agreed, but you actually refused, there will be an intractable misunderstanding.
3. The years are long, and if you want to make life interesting, you must have your own hobbies. Think of it as a little game in life, which can not only add fun to life, but also find an outlet for the often annoying emotions.
4. If you set off for too long, don't forget your original intention. Once people forget their original intentions, people who love each other will resent each other. The desire to make the world a better place becomes a complicity with everything that you once disdained;I will become the most hated person I once was.
5. Accept new things and Xi learn new skills, not only to increase the ability to adapt to the times, but more importantly - to have a young mentality, to have a game mentality, to create a more interesting life.
6. Every tree's life will experience wind and rain, and everyone's life will encounter setbacks and difficulties. If you are not afraid of wind and rain, you can cultivate a strong heart and not be easily defeated. Those who cannot pass through the darkness cannot usher in the light.
7. There is no need to cry over the spilled milk, let it pass if it is past. The past, for better or for worse, cannot be changed. Only by letting go of the past can we let our hearts move towards the future.
8. No one can be our safe haven for a lifetime. Thinking about relying on others for everything will only turn you into a fragile giant baby. Each person is his own best supporter. A person who can face the wind and rain independently can have the spare strength to shelter his loved ones.
9. When we are in a trough, we have two choices: one is to lie flat in the trough;The second is to accept the trough and be reborn. No matter how old a person is, as long as his hands and feet can still move and his brain can still think, there will always be a new and interesting life waiting in front of him.
10. The most important thing in life is not to be better than others, but to find what you like to do and spend your life happily in the way you like.
11. Don't regret the past, don't worry about the future. Maintain a mindset of going with the flow, face life calmly, and enjoy the beauty of the moment.
12. There are too many trivial things in life, and you don't need to keep everything in mind. With less idle things and less care, the heart will naturally be much easier.
13. Life will not fail you in every attempt and failure.
14. If you are crying over spilled milk, you may miss the candy that life brings you in the next second. We can't fully grasp what happens in life. But we can choose an open-minded mindset, so that small blessings can become big things, and big bad things turn into small episodes.
15. When interacting with people, you don't have to be serious about everything, and you don't have to worry about everything. Of course, if you find that others have a tendency to gain inches, you need to stop early.
16. It is inevitable to encounter bad people and bad things in life, and impulsiveness will only disturb our minds and make things worse. Solving problems as soon as possible sensibly, and not getting too entangled with bad people and bad things, is the best responsibility for yourself.
17. If birds like to tie their wings to **, then they can't fly freely at high altitudes. If people carry too heavy a burden, they will naturally stumble forward.
18. Blindly comparing ourselves with others will only bring troubles and make us forget to enjoy our own lives. It's a double loss.