"Golden Wedding"It is the 50th anniversary of marriage, which symbolizes the longevity and tenacity of love. It can be changed to:"Fifty years of love is as strong as gold"。
Yao Ellen is getting closer, why didn't Tong Zhi resolutely refuse the other party?
Wen Li is pregnant again. originally planned to have a boy, but the reality has become a fact, Wen Li is worried about having another girl and does not want to have any more children.
The problem between Wen Li and Tong Zhi is that their expectations for having boys and girls are not consistent. If Wen Li is afraid of having a girl, she should think carefully before deciding whether to have a child or not.
However, she kept pestering Tong Zhi, and after she became pregnant with the child, she began to make trouble again, and put the responsibility on Tong Zhi. This shows that there is a lack of effective communication and understanding between them.
Wen Li asked Tong Zhi to be ligated, but Tong Zhi was unwilling, which made Wen Li angry. However, if Wen Li had decided to let Tong Zhi get her ligated at the beginning and wouldn't let him touch her without ligation, then there would be no point in going through the old accounts now.
And Tong Zhi didn't bother to coax Wen Li anymore. After Wen Li returned to her parents' house, Tong Zhi lay on the bed and whistled nonchalantly. For this kind of behavior of the little couple, the old lady has long been unaccustomed to it.
Every day when Wen Li gets off work, she pulls Tong Zhi to the bedroom, doesn't tutor the child's homework, doesn't do laundry, only thinks about giving birth, and now that she is really pregnant, she wants to have a miscarriage.
The old lady was suspicious of Wen Li's true motives, thinking that she might just want to take advantage of Tong Zhi. However, she has already made up her mind to give birth to Wen Li, because she firmly believes that it is a boy who is pregnant this time.
The old lady insisted on picking up Wen Li home in person, but after Tong Zhi refused, the old lady began to scold Tong Zhi for being a "rake ear".
While Wen Li was chatting with her mother, Wen Li's mother observed that Wen Li preferred spicy food when eating, and couldn't help but wonder if she was pregnant with her daughter again. Wen Li was surprised to find that her mother's judgment was so accurate, and before she could open her mouth, her mother guessed that she was pregnant, and judged that it was a girl.
To substantiate her inference, Mother Wen cited her own example. There is a saying among the people: "Giving birth to a girl is a table with four legs", which means that a girl has never heard of giving birth to one or two, and if you make up enough four legs, this table is considered complete.
At first, Wen's mother didn't believe this sentence, but after the miscarriage, she found out that it was indeed a female fetus.
Wen Li said that she had not yet made up her mind, and Wen's mother advised her to go to the hospital for professional advice as soon as possible instead of coming to her parents' house for help. Wen's mother said that she was too old to accompany Wen Li all the time, and Wen Li needed to make her own decisions about major events.
Wen Li was still hesitant, looking at her daughter and finding it difficult to make a decision. Wen's mother had no choice but to persuade Wen Li, she used to have the concept of patriarchy, but now she has changed her mind, both men and women are the same, and Wen Li is the most similar to her, even when she is pregnant.
Therefore, Wen Li's baby will definitely be a girl. However, what Wen Li and Wen's mother didn't know was that the old lady in the family had the opposite view from them. As soon as Tong Zhi came home, he lay on the bed, and Tong's mother was very angry when she saw that he hadn't gone to find Wen Li yet.
Tong Zhi said he didn't think his mother saw him as the head of the family, which may be why his wife, Wen Li, and the children didn't respect him.
In order to deal with this situation, Tong Zhi casually coped with a few words, but his mother did not get the information he wanted from him, so he had to give up. Dazhuang learned the news of Wen Li's pregnancy in advance.
Tong Zhi joked: "You two must be KGB spies." ”
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Although Tong Zhi tried his best to please the child, he was never able to win his heart, which made him feel very troubled. ”
Wen Li waited anxiously at the door of the operating room, but Tong Zhi was delayed. The eldest sister kept comforting Wen Li, believing that Tong Zhi was by no means the kind of irresponsible person, and he would definitely come.
However, Wen Li was worried about whether Tong Zhi had forgotten about the operation, and was drinking delicious food with Dazhuang at the moment.
When Tong Zhi appeared in the hospital corridor, Wen Li's reaction was shocking. Before, she blamed him for not coming, but now that he is here, she has begun to find fault with his various problems, and her words are full of complaints and dissatisfaction.
Although Tong Zhi did not consider it from his own perspective and did not take ligation measures at the beginning, now that things have developed to this point, Wen Li is also responsible for not being resolute enough.
If Wen Li firmly wanted a result, no matter whether Tong Zhi was ligated or not, he would resolutely divorce or not let him touch him, Tong Zhi would definitely give Wen Li a clear answer.
However, Wen Li chose to retreat at that time, and now that things have reappeared, Wen Li has begun to turn over old accounts again, which makes Tong Zhi feel that she is unreasonable. The old lady was boiling tocolytic medicine for Wen Li at home, but Sister-in-law Zhuang told her that Wen Li was having an abortion in the hospital.
When the old lady heard this, she immediately rushed to the hospital. After Wen Li entered the operating room, Tong Zhi scolded Wen Li for being too impulsive in front of her eldest sister.
Wen Li's personality is real, but this situation is somewhat ironic. In retrospect, when the people of the Wen family blocked Tong Zhi in the dormitory, Tong Zhi promised in front of the Wen family that he would always tolerate Wen Li.
The trivial things in life finally make what was once a promise indifferent.