Good love must not just be a whim, but should be like a meandering river, it is a process of thin water and long flow.
You must know that in this life, it is very short to say that it is short, but it is also very long to say that it is long. After decades, if you put your passion for each other over in just a few years, a few days, or a few months, how will you spend the rest of your life?You must know that in this life, the road of love itself needs to be carefully experienced and appreciated slowly.
A high-speed train can indeed get you to the end faster, but if you're not in a hurry, why not take a green train and enjoy the scenery along the way?
You must know that love never only depends on the ending, it cares more about the process. No matter how happy the ending is, if there is nothing worthy of your nostalgia in the process, then this story will only leave you with too many regrets.
It's like drinking a cup of tea, you can only taste her real mellow fragrance by tasting it slowly. Drinking in large gulps, drinking in large bowls, can only quench thirst at best. So, do you really just want to quench your thirst for the love you have now, or do you want to taste the mellow fragrance in it?
So, do "love", don't be greedy for "fast", slow down, don't worry.
1.If it's too fast, it's easy to roll overIn life, there are many things that cannot be achieved quickly. The more you pursue speed, the more you want to pursue a result, and in the end, you are likely to go in the wrong direction or go to the other extreme.
It's like, when you are attracted to someone, don't be in a hurry to confess, don't be in a hurry to give you an answer. It's about taking the time to taste, to wait, to get closer, and when everything falls into place, being together is the natural ending.
So, don't be greedy, it's too fast, it's easy to overturn. Feelings are not immutable, and if you don't get the best time, what you will get is likely to be the opposite.
So, take your time, take your time, and slowly appreciate the beauty of relationships at different stages, which is the premise for your future relationship to be happy, or to embrace good memories.
2.Passion means it doesn't last
Life is actually far more prosaic and long than you think.
I believe that everyone hopes that their love is romantic, passionate, and like a chicken blood every day, which can make countless people envious, jealous and hate. But in the world, there is no emotion, it is enthusiastic and unrestrained from beginning to end.
Two people who love each other again, after the sweet period, there will definitely be a lot of disputes and contradictions.
Really, don't be greedy, synonymous with passion, which means that it is difficult to last. Some beauty does not have to be completed in a short period of time, there is no need to rush for a while, it is better to stretch its dimension a little, so that this happiness and sweetness can last longer.
Of course, in life, there must be some passion to prove that you love each other passionately. But you don't have to be really high all the time, it's going to be physically exhausted and you're going to be tired.
3.Slow is fast
A lifetime, really long. Decades of time, how can you make it blossom in just a few days, a few months, everything blossoms.
Even seeds sown in the spring need summer to bloom and autumn to bear fruit, and the end of the seedlings is to destroy the future she should have with her own hands.
Some couples, in love stories, always think about confessing quickly, meeting their parents as soon as possible, getting married as soon as possible, having children as soon as possible, buying a house or car as soon as possible, always thinking about being one step ahead, and in the end, they are likely to exhaust themselves half to death. suddenly found that love has long changed.
Therefore, in love, you must not be greedy, you must remember that slow is fast, and only by withstanding the flow of water can you truly have a warm spring.
It's like a car walking on a city road, you can go faster when you pass through an expressway, you have to slow down when you go through a sidewalk, you pass a traffic light, or when you turn a corner. Otherwise, it is easy to have accidents.