In front of children, what should couples pay attention to?

Mondo Health Updated on 2024-01-30

Recently, the entry "the owner dragged his wife and children off the street to get out of the car" rushed to the hot search. **, a man opened the back door on the road and vigorously dragged his wife holding his son out. The wife angrily pulled at the man and placed her young son in the middle of the road. Fortunately, a kind man in the back car got out of the car, stepped forward to pick up the child, and dissuaded the husband and wife, which calmed down the dispute. It is reported that the couple had a disagreement over the education of their children.

Physical and mental health is the foundation of children's education, and no matter how good education is, it is not as good as teaching by example. So, when the child is growing up, what should husband and wife pay attention to?The following two stories may have some reference meaning.

Ms. Sun is 35 years old.

In the name of love**.

This topic touches me so deeply. My parents' relationship has always been very bad, they sleep in separate rooms for a long time, and they don't usually talk much, but my mother has always said that it is for me that they will not divorce. This incident had a great impact on me, and until I came back from studying in Canada, the gloom at home was still there. I don't quite understand, they think they don't divorce, it's really for me?Now that I'm 35 years old, it's hard to get close to people, and it has to do with my parents' poor relationship. If divorce allows them to live happily ever after, I'd really like them to divorce sooner.

Mr. Zheng is 27 years old.

The lucky ones of single-parent families.

I'm a very lucky person. Although my parents separated when I was 2 years old, they have always maintained a good relationship, and now we still get together as a family for the holidays. I felt like they were loving me very sensibly. My parents' divorce didn't bother me a lot, and I learned more from them Xi responsibility for my own choices and respect for each other.

Director Lu: A healthy relationship between husband and wife is the soil for children's growth.

A healthy relationship between husband and wife is the real soil for children's growth. There is a "family system theory" in psychology: he emphasizes that the relationship between husband and wife is the basis of family education. A good and harmonious relationship between husband and wife helps to provide a stable family environment, establish a system of cooperation and support between parents, and provide positive role models and practices for the development of children.

In this issue, Director Xiang Yulu analyzes the foundation of a truly good family education from the two modes of good and bad husband and wife relationships. Welcome to scan the QR code**.

Chongqing Evening News-Xiangyu reporter Lu Wenji.

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