Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
1.When a person says "yes" in front of you, and that person is actually you, it may mean that the person is resentful of you or suggesting that you are making her uncomfortable with some of your actions.
2.When you confess, the girl says that you are a good person, which can indeed be a tactful way of refusal. She may express that she has no romantic interest in you while trying not to hurt your feelings.
3.When someone proposes to communicate privately, they may genuinely want to resolve the issue privately to avoid embarrassment or conflict in public, or they may not want to discuss sensitive issues in front of others.
4.During an interview, HR asks if you have questions about the company and is usually a positive sign that HR wants to know how interested and committed you are to the job and whether you are well prepared.
5.Some people do like to say the opposite, which can be a humorous way or a tactic for them to express their dissatisfaction or criticism. Understanding this style of communication needs to be judged in terms of specific context and personal relationships.
6. When you meet an acquaintance at a dinner and he invites you to join you, don't take it too seriously, he just invites you out of politeness.
7. When he says something can be done, but it's a little difficult, it means that you need to be smarter and may need to give gifts to solve the problem.
8. When someone comes to you for advice, if he mentions "I have a friend", he is actually referring to himself, don't expose his lies.
9. When you borrow money from others, if the other party says that you want to go back and discuss it with your wife, it actually means that there is no room for negotiation.
10. When the boss tells you that you can do it this time, but there is still a lot of room for improvement, it means that you have not done a good job and need to continue to improve.
11. When your chat falls silent and the other person keeps asking you to drink tea and stop talking, it may mean that he has no more topics to talk about. At this point, you can find an excuse to leave to avoid an awkward situation.
12. When a stranger frequently calls you brother and tries to get some benefits from you, an ordinary acquaintance, he may not be treating you sincerely. In this case, you should be vigilant and avoid being taken advantage of.
13. When someone says "in principle, yes", it actually means "no". On the contrary, when he says "in principle, no", it may actually imply "yes". This expression is often used to be vague or to conceal true intentions.
14. When others call you an honest person, they are not necessarily complimenting you. Instead, it could be a hint that you are vulnerable to bullying or being taken advantage of by others. Therefore, you need to be vigilant and learn to protect your interests.
15. When you go to a friend's house, if the friend's wife keeps hiding in the room and doesn't come out, it may mean that she doesn't welcome you. In this case, it is best to find a reason to leave in time to avoid an awkward situation.
Don't be easily called upon or controlled. When you're new to someone, they may ask you to close the door, pour water, or piggyback on something. These people may be testing whether you are easily controlled, even though they themselves may not realize that this is a test. Once you start agreeing to their demands, they will ask more and more of you. Eventually, you may become unprincipled and become a "rotten good person" who will not really appreciate your help. Therefore, learn to protect your own rights and interests and not be easily manipulated by others.