Parents' evaluation of their children is one of the important ways for parents to communicate with their children, which can help children build self-confidence and stimulate children's motivation to learn. Parents should pay attention to the following points when writing evaluations:
First, the evaluation should be objective
When evaluating their children, parents should pay attention to objectivity, not only see their children's shortcomings, but also see their children's strengths. Parents can evaluate their children's learning, life, and behavior, and provide specific examples to support them.
Second, the evaluation should be timely
Parents should evaluate their children in a timely manner, so that children can feel the care and support of their parents. Parents can give timely affirmation and encouragement to their children when they complete something and make progress.
3. Evaluation should be encouraged
Parents' comments should encourage the child and make the child feel that he is worthy of recognition. Parents can encourage their children with positive words such as "you are awesome", "you are working hard", "you are improving", etc.
Fourth, the evaluation should be specific
Parents' comments should be specific so that children know what they are positive about. Parents can use specific examples such as "You scored 90 points on a math test, an improvement of 10 points from last time" to evaluate their child.
Fifth, be patient in evaluation
Parents should evaluate their children patiently, not criticize their children's shortcomings, and do not praise their children excessively. Parents can communicate with their children on an equal footing to help them correct their shortcomings and develop their strengths.
Examples of specific evaluators
In terms of learning: you are active in your language class, you answer questions clearly, and you are very progressive.
In terms of life: You are happy to help with household chores and are very responsible.
In terms of conduct: You are friendly, helpful, and a good friend to your teachers and classmates.
When parents write evaluations, they can refer to the above points and write objective, timely, encouraging, specific and patient evaluations to help their children grow up healthily.