Writer Sanmao said that he once said"People, except for self-crossing, others can't help. ”
Around us, there are also many people who agree that everything must be relied on by oneself, and it will be chilling to rely on anyone.
Some truths that seem to make sense often do not stand up to scrutiny when put into real life and life experience.
There are still many good people in the world. There is a reason why you didn't encounter it, and the root of it is in yourself.
When a person is very lucky, he often sighs like this"God help me. ”This shows that behind us, there are many invisible forces, pushing and lifting. It's just that we can't be specific, so we use the word "providence".
Dong Zhongshu, a thinker of the Western Han Dynasty, also said"The three outlines of the royal road can be sought from the sky. ”
It is the king who is high, and if he wants to accomplish something, he must rely on "God". And providence is the will of the people.
If you go around a big circle, you can find that when a person meets nobles everywhere, it happens to be the realm of the unity of heaven and man, and it is also the combination of self-crossing and other crossing.
In the Tang Dynasty, there was a calledXue RenguiThe generals, starting from ordinary peasants and moving towards success step by step, gave us the most real inspiration.
It can be seen that the appearance of these three kinds of people in your life means that God is crossing you.
When you are born into a poor family, you can still "God rewards hard work", which shows that you yourself are noble.
Xue Rengui was born in the Xue clan in Hedong, and in his generation, he can only be described as poor.
His father died early, and it was not easy for his mother to pull him to grow up, and he could only care about his destiny in other aspects.
The main means of earning a living is farming.
He was surrounded by people who were digging in the land, but Xue Rengui was not like them, but looked for opportunities to learn Xi culture and martial arts.
As for how he went to school, there are not many records that can be found. But I saw a story about how he met a hunter with a quiver around his waist and a steel fork in his hand, and he was in good spirits, so he hurried to follow him and learn from him.
On the first day, the hunter had no impression of him, and naturally refused to teach him. The next day, they "met by chance" again, and the hunter was impressed by his sincerity and taught him martial arts.
After many tosses, he still did not improve, so he thought of moving his father's grave. Use superstitious methods to change fate.
As for the cultural aspect, he has never stopped studying Xi. After joining the army, he also wrote the military theory work "Zhou Yixin's Note on the Original Meaning", which is the best witness.
The strong change their lives, and the weak accept their fate. If a person wants to be loved by God, the first step is to dare to toss.There is a chicken soup text that says, "No one can be relied on unless you are useful;."You can't rely on anyone unless you can do it yourself. The original meaning of the words is to let us not trust people. But the deep understanding has given us a good inspiration, and if you are useful to yourself, then it is a natural thing to meet a noble person.
As Li Bai said: "I am born to be useful, and I will come back when my daughter is gone." ”
No matter how humble you are at the moment, you keep improving, and that's right. If you don't toss, God will definitely not notice you. Think about it, there are so many humble people, why do they fancy you?
When you are poor and white, you can still be "God-given", which means that you have a noble person to accompany you for a lifetime.
Xue Rengui's family was poor, but he did not fight a bachelor, but married his wife Liu very early.
Liu's family is not very wealthy, but the family does not approve of marrying someone poorer. Regardless of opposition, the Liu family married Xue Rengui in the cold kiln and gave birth to two children.
Why do poor people get true love?Many people may think that it is just shit luck.
In fact, otherwise, a woman will marry a poor boy because she thinks that the poor boy is a potential stock;A woman's parents would take a fancy to the poor boy, and the same is true.
Historically, Chen Ping, the founder of the Western Han Dynasty, had four walls and couldn't afford the gate, so he could only be replaced by your mat, but he was favored by the rich man Zhang Cheng and married his granddaughter to him.
Zhuo Wenjun eloped with Sima Xiangru, with the intention of favoring Sima Xiangru's talent. It also confirmed that Zhuo Wenjun's choice was right.
To get back to the point, Liu's choice will be ridiculed by everyone for a while, but Xue Rengui is grateful for this, lives harder, and is very obedient.
When recruiting soldiers in the local area, Liu said: "The husband has the talent of the high world, and he must meet the time." Since then, Xue Rengui has embarked on the road of joining the army, and there has been a major turning point in his life.
If you find the right lover, you will be reincarnated for the second time. Don't think that there is just one more person to eat in the family.
Husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are broken. This is the power of God. It's just that your lover is forcing you to do something, but also for the sake of a better family, don't misunderstand.
When you are on the road to a career, you can still be called a genius, which means that you are mining your value.
There is always some gold, buried in the earth, which will not be found for the rest of its life.
Maxima often has, Bole does not often have. This is the sentiment of many people.
After Xue Rengui joined the army, he didn't know who could promote himself, so he took the initiative to shine.
In Andi, the Tang army and the Goguryeo army were in a scuffle, and the general Liu Junqiong was besieged, and suddenly the dragons were leaderless, and the Tang army panicked. Xue Rengui rushed out and rescued the general.
Since then, Tang Taizong glanced at Xue Rengui: "I don't like Liaodong, I like Qing." ”
Emperor Tang Gaozong, the famous general Su Dingfang, etc., including some foreign generals, as opponents, all admired Xue Rengui very much.
I know that when children are praised, they can grow harder. Actually, adults are the same.
When someone regards you as a genius, you follow their words and can find your own talent and tap your own value. Don't let that make you complacent.
To be a person worthy of praise, you are obedient to the will of God. All those who praise you, but are not hypocritical, are worthy of association.
In our lifetime, we will meet tens of thousands of people, but there are very few who can become nobles.
Especially when there are a lot of people around you, you must also learn to "choose the good ones and follow them", and don't invite all the people who are hypocritical and secretly calculating you into your life.
In any era, there are some ordinary people who have slowly become the mainstream of the times. They seem to be lucky, but in fact, they are working hard to be nobles and are good at getting along with nobles, which ultimately contributed to the "providence of heaven".
One scientist said, "If I look a little further, it's because I'm standing on the shoulders of giants." ”This giant is yourself, your lover, your parents, the one who discovers your worth. opponents, etc.
Stop complaining about the sky, stay positive, God will definitely help you.
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