The high ponytail on the high school campus suddenly disappeared, and the rise of the catfish head caused parents to doubt!
Review the hairstyle changes in middle school.
Features of catfish hairstyles and the reasons for their popularity.
Aesthetic differences between parents and students.
Parenting style and student autonomy.
Pursue both appearance and study.
Parental guidance and education in the first stage of secondary education.
The importance of learning and career choices.
Conclusions and personal thoughts.
Review the hairstyle changes in middle school.
Each era has its own specific aesthetic trends, and the hairstyle preferences of female students have changed dramatically. In the past, the signature hairstyle for schoolgirls was a twisted braid, which gave a clean, refreshing, and youthful feel. However, as the post-90s generation grew up, a high ponytail became their unique hairstyle choice. The high ponytail not only gives a refreshing feeling, but also brings a touch of energy to the schoolgirls. In contrast, the male students continue to wear the classic hairstyle, which has not changed much, but still shows their lively image. However, over time, we have found that the hairstyles of today's post-10 students have changed dramatically, with the high ponytail gradually disappearing and being replaced"Catfish head"。This has become a common hairstyle in secondary schools today, and not only girls but also boys have started experimenting with this hairstyle. Catfish heads are also known as:"Nose of the aircraft", making the post-90s generation seem to have returned to the unruly era. The most striking feature of the catfish head is the tassels on the sides, the tassels are slightly thinner, like the beard of a catfish, and the tassels are wider, like the wings of an airplane. Many middle school students especially like this hairstyle and combine it with a wide and fat coat to become their standard.
Features of catfish hairstyles and the reasons for their popularity.
Part of the reason why the catfish hairstyle has become popular on high school campuses is that it has a strong connection to pop culture. This hairstyle is in line with the moment"Hipsters"The aesthetics are in line with young people's pursuit of individuality and fashion. Similarly, the popularity of catfish hairstyles is also closely related to the influence of the entertainment industry. Many idol stars have tried this hairstyle, which has sparked a cult following and imitation among students. In addition, junior high school students are in the stage of personality formation, and they are pursuing a unique and distinctive image, hoping to show off their individuality and unique charm. Catfish hairstyles give them the opportunity to satisfy this psychological need, so they quickly become popular on secondary school campuses.
Aesthetic differences between parents and students.
However, students are right"Catfish"The need for hairstyles contrasts sharply with the aesthetic perceptions of parents. Many parents think,"Catfish head"It can affect a student's eyesight and can give a sense of disorganization. In their opinion, this hairstyle is not good-looking, and it is difficult to understand why elementary school students like it so much. In fact, aesthetics vary from person to person, especially when primary school students are in adolescence and generally appear rebellious. They often go against their parents and don't necessarily like what their parents like. This phenomenon is not uncommon, and I believe that many parents have experienced a similar experience because they have also gone through this stage. As a parent, you need to think carefully and find the right way to help your child before educating it. Otherwise, being too strict will only backfire, and students will feel that they are being managed too much and lose their freedom. Although it is difficult to understand the aesthetics of students now, parents still need to be more tolerant and understanding when guiding their children.
Parenting style and student autonomy.
There is often a contradiction between the maverick behavior of students and the parenting style of parents. Students want to have their own private space and want to make decisions independently, while parents tend to be too involved. Parents must recognize the need for moderate tolerance and understanding in this matter. After all, as long as the student's behavior does not affect learning, parents can choose to turn a blind eye. Students need to have their own independent space, and being too strict will only backfire. Although the student's physical appearance requirements are different from the parents' concerns, as long as the student's academic performance does not fluctuate significantly, parents should not worry too much. In elementary school, elementary school students begin to be curious about the opposite sex and are naturally more interested in their appearance. However, if a student's academic performance drops dramatically, parents need to be vigilant. After all, the HKCEE is an important hurdle for students, and the slightest setback can affect their chances of progressing to secondary school or vocational education. Therefore, parents should guide their students in the first stage of secondary school so that they understand the importance of learning and focus on their studies. Although the learning goal for general high school and vocational high school is generally set at 50%, it is important to know that the learning environment of secondary vocational education is somewhat worse than that of high school. If a student does not have enough self-control, they can easily be negatively affected. Therefore, students must recognize the importance of learning, and the pursuit of beauty should be moderate and not excessive. After all, good-looking students are beautiful even with high ponytails. Therefore, students need to realize that learning is the most important task, and other activities can be put aside for the time being.
Parental guidance and education in the first stage of secondary education.
After students enter the first stage of secondary school, the guidance and education of parents is particularly important. First of all, parents should maintain good communication and understand the needs and goals of the student. Although it is difficult for parents to understand the aesthetics of their students, it is necessary to be moderately tolerant and understanding in order to help their children grow better. Communicate with your children and listen carefully to their voices and ideas to build bridges of mutual understanding. Secondly, parents should guide students correctly and explain the importance of learning and life. Let them realize that learning is the cornerstone of the future and that other trendy activities are just icing on the cake. Parents can work with their students to develop study plans to help them develop good study habits and self-discipline. At the same time, it is also necessary to give them a moderate degree of autonomy, give them the right to choose, and cultivate their independence and sense of responsibility. I believe that as long as parents and children maintain good communication and mutual understanding, they will be able to find appropriate education methods to help children grow.
Conclusions and personal thoughts.
In short, times are changing, and the aesthetics of students have also changed dramatically. On the campus of the middle school,"Catfish head"It has become a popular hairstyle for students, representing their pursuit of fashion and individuality. However, there is a difference between the aesthetics of students and the aesthetics of parents, and parents should understand students and give them a certain degree of autonomy appropriately. When guiding students, parents should pay attention to communication and understanding, emphasize the importance of learning, and help students establish correct values. Only by juggling their studies and life can students truly achieve personal development and success. In the end, I personally believe that it is not the student's hairstyle that matters, the key is whether they can find their own learning and growth goals and motivation.