1. The minefield that I stepped on in elementary school
Since the baby went to the first grade, he often eats and writes homework at ** o'clock, and he has to go to bed after a simple wash. If you go out to play again, it will be difficult for the child to fall asleep before 10 o'clock, and it will drag on until about 11 o'clock, which will affect the next day's class. Except on Sundays, the baby rarely goes out to play, and rarely plays with her companions. It is a child's nature to love to play, and play is also an important way to learn Xi, and it is the most favorite way for children to learn Xi. Playing with a baby with a companion is of great significance to its social development. Studies have shown that good peer relationships are an important part of children's mental health development, which is conducive to the formation of confident, cheerful, lively and generous personalities, and promotes their socialization and mental development. Now, I cook in advance every day, and the baby can play for about half an hour after school. In this way, the baby can relax and relieve stress, while gradually developing healthy peer relationships.
Over-reliance on schools and teachers
Many parents, especially some career-oriented parents, because they usually have no time to take care of their children, so they hope that the school and teachers, or even spend money or trust to send their children to prestigious schools, and then leave it alone.
Second, several methods that are easy to develop children's Xi
It is necessary to cultivate a sense of independence in children
Don't think about solving everything for your children, you know, doting is not the same as love, and a person who can't be independent has no way to adapt to social life in the future. It is enough to give a certain amount of help when the child needs help, and cultivate the child's ability to solve problems on his own, which will be of great benefit to his future Xi, work and life.
This focus must be cultivated from the first grade of school. Concentration is the most important ability for children to succeed, after the child starts primary school, every day after school homework should be cultivated children's concentration, that is, in a fixed time to do homework very attentively, to achieve high efficiency. Here it is recommended to use some small tools, such as hourglass timer, there are 20 minutes, 30 minutes, 60 minutes, you can buy one separately, according to the child's age and the estimated time when writing homework, set the time, and the child agreed, as long as the hourglass starts, that is, to concentrate on doing things.
After their children enter primary school, many parents will encounter a big problem, which is procrastination. Writing homework procrastinating, playing with pencils for a while, playing with erasers for a while, drinking water for a while and eating for a while, and sometimes being in a daze, my parents are angry when they look at it. Why?In fact, it is a manifestation of a lack of time management skills. Time is the most precious resource, and the amount of time each day is the same for everyone, but it is different. People who have a plan and can manage their time wisely can do more in the same amount of time. In the future, when you go to junior high school and high school, there will be more and more subjects, and your studies will become more and more important, and your child's time management ability will be your child's competitiveness. And this ability is not something that comes out of nowhere, nor is it innate, but a Xi that is slowly cultivated in daily life.
In the whole six years of primary school, how much effort we adults put in, how much children can gain.
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" tells vivid stories with concise words in terms of the psychological development characteristics of primary school students, the characteristics of cultural knowledge they have learned, the cultivation of learning XiXi habits, and the cultivation of learning Xi ability. I believe that after reading "Accompanying Children Through Six Years of Primary School", parents and children can easily get rid of the confusion of primary school and truly experience the joy of growing up.
In addition, there is also "Accompanying Children Through the Three Years of Junior High School", which focuses more on how to understand adolescent children and communicate effectively with them. As a parent who came over, the author sometimes had times when he was at a loss in the process of accompanying his children, so the examples that happened in the author's house in the book have been successful or unsuccessful. From the perspective of an educator, the author also wrote about his own awareness and reflection in the book, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Child, you need to understand that all the effort you put into your school Xi is ultimately for yourself. Your hard work today will make you brilliant tomorrow, make you a useful talent, and make your life more fulfilling and exciting.
Reading can make you smart, humble, and learned, and ultimately make you an elegant and brilliant person. Without the accumulation of reading and learning Xi, it is impossible to have the glory of tomorrow. When you create a better future with your own efforts, when you feel the value of your life, when you realize your life dream, you can understand the true purpose of studying, and you will also thank yourself for the sweat and hard work you have paid!
I have read these books many times, and each time there is a new inspiration, I can't help but sigh at the importance and hardship of education, when you finish reading, you will find that those confusion, confusion, and suffering in your education, especially in getting along with children, have been given solutions, and some even have steps.
And ** is not expensive, the money of a meal, your life may be changed.
It would be better if you could read with other parents, receive the influence of wisdom together, and give it away, and others will praise you for your taste.
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